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WIBU to buy sofas you can't clean (with kids and pet)?

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FlappicusSmith · 07/01/2026 10:34

I have been looking for new sofas for aaaages - but I can't find any I like or can afford that come in 'aquaclean' stain-resistant type fabric.

I've seen 2 I like in DFS, but from what I can tell from their website their fabric isn't stain-protected and you can't remove the covers. One (Patterdale) comes in velvet or 'plain'. The other (New Camden) comes in chenille. I've read that velvet and chenille are both quite good fabrics for 'busy households'. Would I be mad to get them with two (older, but messy) children and a cat who loves nothing more than walking straight in from a muddy gardent straight onto the sofa, plus a DH that has an amazing ability to drop chocolate on the sofa and then sit on it. Leather sofas aren't an option (DH hates them) and neither is not letting people eat on them nor somehow stopping the cat from getting on them!

We have a 10-year old Ikea sofa that has done us well, but is digustingly filthy because you can't clean it - even spot cleaning it just seems to make it worse and dry cleaning did nothing.

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Fernsrus · 08/01/2026 10:41

We have a velvet sofa and it looks new after 8 years.

Tanyaaah · 07/01/2026 21:13

I have a velvet sofa from DFS. Got it 6 or 7 years ago and I think it still looks as good as new! Have kids as well.

QuietLifeNoDrama · 07/01/2026 21:08

We just bought a dfs sofa a few months ago and paid for the insurance on it. I think it was for 5 years or something. I’d say just get the one you want and if it get damaged make a claim

WiddlinDiddlin · 07/01/2026 21:01

Having had literally every kind of sofa going back in teh days when I'd get second hand and cheap or second hand and free - with various cats, dogs, rats, mice, hamsters and people of various ages and degrees of stickiness - would not entertain anything but hardwearing leather now.

If you don't like sitting on leather, and I don't, use throws, and you can get whole sofa covers that are elasticated so they're not slipping off unduly. I would rather straighten throws/covers than look at a grubby sofa thats only a few months old and know I can't justify changing it for years!

We've had our new S. W. James sofa since Oct. 24 - still looks like new. Thats with two fat humans and two hefty dogs and one (until recently) small, diggy, leaky dog.

Fasterthan40 · 07/01/2026 20:36

We bought multi York sofas second hand as a holding sofa whilst we decided what to buy. They have stood up brilliantly, clean well and are really comfy. Worth a look if you find online/in charity shop

FlappicusSmith · 07/01/2026 14:11

mcmuffin22 · 07/01/2026 11:26

I have had a pair of leather sofas for 16 years. They are going strong and unstained and comfortable 2 kids, a dog and cat later. If you want longevity good quality leather sofas are the way to go. (I know they are not everyone's cup of tea and my mum complains that they are 'cold' even in the summer.)

I'd happily have leather and think it would look great in the space. DH will not be swayed though! Says they're cold in winter and hot in summer, etc

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Aliflowers · 07/01/2026 11:43

Have a look at Natuzzi. Not cheap but they do a range of stain resistant materials. I bought one last year. I believe the material is sfinge. It’s liquid repellent and comes with a stain warranty. It looks and feels like suede but is man made. They also did a material similar to velvet with the same benefits though I’m not sure of the name. My sofa is a pale greige type colour and 12 months later is still showroom perfect with children and a pet. The occasional mark comes right off with a damp micro fibre cloth

mcmuffin22 · 07/01/2026 11:26

Octavia64 · 07/01/2026 11:15

We had leather for a while but I agree they are not particularly comfortable.

as a three cat household we now have throws. Cat vomit is a grade A pain to clean off a sofa and one of our old cats now Sadly demised had ibs and loved nothing more than to diarrhoae on the sofa. We were glad for washable covers then.

I have had a pair of leather sofas for 16 years. They are going strong and unstained and comfortable 2 kids, a dog and cat later. If you want longevity good quality leather sofas are the way to go. (I know they are not everyone's cup of tea and my mum complains that they are 'cold' even in the summer.)

FlappicusSmith · 07/01/2026 11:20

goldenhunter · 07/01/2026 11:17

I have young kids and a dog, and two sofas in my living room that are dry clean only. It only works because we have a snug / playroom that the kids use, and are allowed to eat / drink in. The living room is more a grown up space, and the children are not allowed to eat or drink in there, or climb on the sofas / play the floor is lava with the cushions / treat it with no respect.

Otherwise I would absolutely have a sofa with washable covers!!!

Hah! We tried that. Kids (who are admitedly past the floor is lava stage) have clocked that the grown up living room is nicer and spend more time in there than in the kids' room.

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FlappicusSmith · 07/01/2026 11:18

Ok. I'm leaning towards throws now, having seen some nice ones online. That way I can get an affordable sofa in a style I like that hopefully won't look crap within 3 months.

Sadly the old ikea sofa is now really uncomfortable and its time has come, so getting new covers for that isn't an option

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goldenhunter · 07/01/2026 11:17

I have young kids and a dog, and two sofas in my living room that are dry clean only. It only works because we have a snug / playroom that the kids use, and are allowed to eat / drink in. The living room is more a grown up space, and the children are not allowed to eat or drink in there, or climb on the sofas / play the floor is lava with the cushions / treat it with no respect.

Otherwise I would absolutely have a sofa with washable covers!!!

Heronwatcher · 07/01/2026 11:16

YABU and will regret it!

Buy sofas with removable covers or get some new covers for your existing Ikea sofa if it’s still comfy (I got some imported from Australia which are great).

Octavia64 · 07/01/2026 11:15

We had leather for a while but I agree they are not particularly comfortable.

as a three cat household we now have throws. Cat vomit is a grade A pain to clean off a sofa and one of our old cats now Sadly demised had ibs and loved nothing more than to diarrhoae on the sofa. We were glad for washable covers then.

Nannyfannybanny · 07/01/2026 11:11

We bought sofas from courts, now thankfully all closed down..we bought 2 in a very traditional cream/blue stripe, this was in the 90s. Paid a lot of money for some fancy coating.. after a month they were filthy and cushions coming apart at the seams. Animals weren't allowed on them, and meals were strictly on the dining table. Some young kid came out, inspected, said it was our lifestyle and the house smelt of dogs. Had someone else round later,he said we had sat on them watching TV!!! I was a size 8, we aren't big, the cushions were sagging by now,4 months old, and there was metal bars showing through the fabric on the corners.I got just one new scatter cushion off them. I binned one,ds had one. Next was IKEA, removable washable covers. Then DFS,had no problems with them happy for 10 years. I added extra stuffing to the cushions myself. Wanted something with a high back last time, went to a little local independent shop, sadly now closed down. I use throws, you can get nice ones,dogs are allowed on them. Got a little Bissell carpet upholstery shampooer, they are cleaned in the warmer weather,they have separate arm covers which are regularly washed.

ComtesseDeSpair · 07/01/2026 11:10

FlappicusSmith · 07/01/2026 10:55

The TFL one sounds great! Is it comfortable? From the website it looks very firm!

It’s more comfortable and less firm than it looks, though it depends how you prefer to sit. It’s not really a “curl up with your legs tucked in” sofa - which is why we have the velvet one, but DH doesn’t do that and so finds it too deep and squishy. Sofa choosing is a minefield generally, which is why I’m hoping ours outlive us.

FlappicusSmith · 07/01/2026 11:07

Ok, yes. I agree with you all. Ideally I'd get a cleanable one. Does acquaclean actually work?

And where to get comfortable, cleanable sofas from that actually look nice? I sat on every sofa in JL last month and they all felt uncomfortable! I found one I liked in a different shop, but it was really expensive...

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EmeraldShamrock000 · 07/01/2026 11:04

Yes. I would love a fabric sofa but not until the dog dies. 😉

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 07/01/2026 11:03

For anyone who didn’t know, ordinary hairspray will get rid of biro marks on fabric. I’ve used it successfully on a pale yellow sofa.

Starbursthack · 07/01/2026 11:03

Definitely get ones that you can clean or ideally removable covers. You have no idea what life will throw at you during the lifetime of the sofa.

Being unashamedly grim here, but this will be your family sofa through potential tummy bugs, girls starting their periods, teenagers experimenting with alcohol.

Your cat will get older and may struggle with continence. Cat may bring dead things covered with blood onto the sofa or vomit on it. Who knows.

Even if your sofa hasn't had to contend with these sorts of grim things for a while, doesn't mean it might not in the next decade or whatever.

I don't think you'll look back and go 'I wish we hadn't bought a sofa we can clean' but it's entirely possible you may look back and wish you had bought a washable one.

CandlelitKitchen · 07/01/2026 10:58

FlappicusSmith · 07/01/2026 10:57

But where from? I need quite specific sizes to work in the rooms they're going in and I do keep an eye on FB marketplace, but they're either poor quality or really ugly or the wrong size!

We have a local British Heart Foundation store that does furniture. I'm in there every week looking.

FlappicusSmith · 07/01/2026 10:57

CandlelitKitchen · 07/01/2026 10:56

When I replace my DFS sofas I'm going to buy good quality second hand ones and if I need to spend the money on recovering them with good cleanable fabric and perhaps a spare set of covers.

But where from? I need quite specific sizes to work in the rooms they're going in and I do keep an eye on FB marketplace, but they're either poor quality or really ugly or the wrong size!

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CandlelitKitchen · 07/01/2026 10:56

When I replace my DFS sofas I'm going to buy good quality second hand ones and if I need to spend the money on recovering them with good cleanable fabric and perhaps a spare set of covers.

FlappicusSmith · 07/01/2026 10:55

ComtesseDeSpair · 07/01/2026 10:48

It possibly isn’t your style, but we have a Transport for London moquette sofa - it’s really durable and stain resistant and I like that it comes with a side order of people wondering why the pattern seems so familiar 🚊 I just steam clean it every so often (I wish I could say the same for TFL themselves.)

We also have a velvet sofa and it’s held up really well, I think it’s fine if you’re pretty good at noticing stains as they happen and spot cleaning - if you have to rub at them once they’ve dried in it will affect the pile long term. If you’re reasonably house proud then go for it, and apply a fabric protector spray.

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The TFL one sounds great! Is it comfortable? From the website it looks very firm!

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FlappicusSmith · 07/01/2026 10:52

That's good to know @CandlelitKitchen - sofas are such a minefield! It seems that all of them get poor reviews, unless you spend ££££££ (which we can't, unfortunately)

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