Early in 2025 DS was diagnosed with ADHD. I was close to my neighbour at the time and confided in her and gave advice as she was awaiting a diagnosis for her son. Fast forward to the end of 2025 and I’m now separated from my husband and I’m living nearby. MIL has befriended my old neighbour and she recently told ex how she was furious that I told said neighbour about DS diagnosis. She unfortunately would also have told DS how I had been “gossiping/sharing his private information” etc.
Was I unreasonable? I’m a mum to two SN kids and mums/parents do connect with each other and offer support and advice. I was not being malicious.
Also ex said his mum is now “incandescent with rage” due to something else I told the neighbour. I haven’t spoken to her in 8 months! Unfortunately she will then tell ex and DS how terrible I am.
AIBU?