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Made the lasagna without the lasagna

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Brainfogtothemax · 05/01/2026 13:26

What to do?

Just prepped for dinner, did all the mince with tomatoes, onion etc and made the cheese sauce, boiled some potatoes and went to get the lasagna sheets and don’t have any.
Not feeling 100% so cba going to the shops, how can I make it into a proper meal? I have some pasta I could use instead, but what about the potatoes? Save them for tomorrow 🤷🏻‍♀️

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PGmicstand · 05/01/2026 16:26

Brainfogtothemax · 05/01/2026 14:47

I’ve taken on the suggestions, I will do the mince with mashed potato on top, then pour the cheese sauce over the top. Don’t know why but it seems a weird dish, no idea what to call it when Dh & Dd ask me

Pour the cheese sauce over it, top with crushed up crisps (cheese & onion if you have) and some grated cheese. Grill the top until it bubbles.

takealettermsjones · 05/01/2026 16:26

RabbitsEatPancakes · 05/01/2026 16:17

OP i think you need to realise at no point today we're you ever making a lasagne.

You were making some cheesy pasta bake with a bland tomato mince and some potatoes.

Lasagne should have a proper ragu in- always start with onion, celery, carrot, good slow cook. Bechamel is no cheese, bit of nutmeg and an onion in the milk first. No one is expecting chips or garlic bread or potatoes as a side to lasagne unless they are in a spoons and trying tk soak up too much booze.

Turn what you've made into a potato bake- mince base, potatoes and bit crushed or chopped with cheese sauce on top. It'll taste good.

Why is there an onion in the milk??!! 😂

AhBiscuits · 05/01/2026 16:24

I always make lasagne with cheese sauce even though I know it's wrong. More cheese is always a good thing.

canuckup · 05/01/2026 16:24

Loving the purists on here

canuckup · 05/01/2026 16:23

Spuds and lasagna, what a meal! 🤤

sittingonabeach · 05/01/2026 16:20

@DappledThings I'm not saying I would do that, just making a suggestion re the grilling as some people may

RabbitsEatPancakes · 05/01/2026 16:17

OP i think you need to realise at no point today we're you ever making a lasagne.

You were making some cheesy pasta bake with a bland tomato mince and some potatoes.

Lasagne should have a proper ragu in- always start with onion, celery, carrot, good slow cook. Bechamel is no cheese, bit of nutmeg and an onion in the milk first. No one is expecting chips or garlic bread or potatoes as a side to lasagne unless they are in a spoons and trying tk soak up too much booze.

Turn what you've made into a potato bake- mince base, potatoes and bit crushed or chopped with cheese sauce on top. It'll taste good.

Anonanonanonagain · 05/01/2026 16:17

A potatasta bake if you will.

wishingonastar101 · 05/01/2026 16:17

DappledThings · 05/01/2026 16:15

Why would you do that? The cheese that is on top cooks while it is in the oven. No additional grilling required.

If I was in a mad rush I might pop the oven grill on for the last 5... but OP has been cooking since breakfast time... plenty long enough to brown a pasta bake.

Anonanonanonagain · 05/01/2026 16:16

Considering the cheese was already in her sauce the grilling would have been pointless.

DappledThings · 05/01/2026 16:15

sittingonabeach · 05/01/2026 16:14

For those questioning the grilling, wouldn't that just be a quick blast under the grill to cook the cheese on top. Before cheese added on top the meal would have been cooked as normal in the oven.

Why would you do that? The cheese that is on top cooks while it is in the oven. No additional grilling required.

Anonanonanonagain · 05/01/2026 16:14

takealettermsjones · 05/01/2026 16:13

Now, now, that's not the spirit. You just need a positive mental attitude, a panful of dried out spuds, some contraband cheese and your mother on the blower.

You had me agreeing till I read about ringing my mother. I would rather ring lucifer himself and ask his advice on this whole thing. Needless to say he would hang up on me and summon me down sooner than expected.

sittingonabeach · 05/01/2026 16:14

For those questioning the grilling, wouldn't that just be a quick blast under the grill to cook the cheese on top. Before cheese added on top the meal would have been cooked as normal in the oven.

MissDoubleU · 05/01/2026 16:13

Brainfogtothemax · 05/01/2026 16:01

Yes but they need to be *In something don’t they?-butter, olive oil etc, it’s ok a poster reminded me about milk 🤣

Okay - if this is true then what was your plan for re-heating the cold mushy, fully boiled potatoes when the lasagne was finished?? As in, if you had lasagne sheets and everything went to plan.. when the lasagne was ready, if you weren’t going to mash these potato’s, what would you do? You’d have to heat them again somehow or would you just serve them cold?

Why is salad a big no in water but stone cold plain boiled tatties are fine??

caringcarer · 05/01/2026 16:13

Just cook some other pasta. Mix up with pasta sauce, sprinkle cheese over the top and it's a pasta bake. Very tasty it will be. No idea why you were doing potatoes but you could slice them up air fry, and substitute in layers for the pasta or mash and layer.

takealettermsjones · 05/01/2026 16:13

Anonanonanonagain · 05/01/2026 16:10

All i want now is lasagna and i even have the sheets. Sadly no matter what way I chop it, cut it or mash it the stew I have in the slow cooker cannot be turned into a lasagne 😭

Now, now, that's not the spirit. You just need a positive mental attitude, a panful of dried out spuds, some contraband cheese and your mother on the blower.

sittingonabeach · 05/01/2026 16:12

I have salad most days for lunch, even when snow on the ground. Have hot meal in the evening.

@Brainfogtothemax I might have missed this, but why did you cook the potatoes so early on?

SALaw · 05/01/2026 16:12

Brainfogtothemax · 05/01/2026 14:06

Seems weird

I mean…you said it!

DappledThings · 05/01/2026 16:12

takealettermsjones · 05/01/2026 16:10

Nooo it was not allowed as both white, as in the potato salad.

(But buttered boiled potatoes are fine because... addition of yellow substance? System unclear)

Ah, I assumed green not allowed because the trees are currently not in green leaf. But white vegetables ok as they match the snow and sky. Seems about as logical as anything else OP has said

wishingonastar101 · 05/01/2026 16:11

Brainfogtothemax · 05/01/2026 15:50

I never said grilling 😅

you did! you said pop cheese on top and grill it.

Also, I had salad for lunch... and it's snowing! hahahahahahah mind fuck.

raspberrieswithchocolate · 05/01/2026 16:11

Pallisers · 05/01/2026 16:07

This thread is bonkers. But just in case ....

Today have spaghetti bolognese - or use whatever other pasta shape you have with the ragu.

Put the potatoes in the fridge and tomorrow make potato cakes or fish cakes or slice them and fry them.

Put the sauce (whatever it is) in the fridge. Buy a cauliflower tomorrow and make cauliflower cheese.

They're good suggestions, all you have to do is boil the pasta and reheat the mince and sauce mix today. Nice and easy since you're not feeling well. I hope you feel better soon

takealettermsjones · 05/01/2026 16:10

DappledThings · 05/01/2026 16:09

But it as white as the fallen snow outside so must be acceptable in OP's rules

Nooo it was not allowed as both white, as in the potato salad.

(But buttered boiled potatoes are fine because... addition of yellow substance? System unclear)

Anonanonanonagain · 05/01/2026 16:10

All i want now is lasagna and i even have the sheets. Sadly no matter what way I chop it, cut it or mash it the stew I have in the slow cooker cannot be turned into a lasagne 😭

DappledThings · 05/01/2026 16:09

333FionaG · 05/01/2026 16:08

A cauliflower? In winter? Are you mad? 😉

But it as white as the fallen snow outside so must be acceptable in OP's rules