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What age is safe for a kid to go for a walk on their own?

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SchoolZooTrip · 04/01/2026 21:54

Just that really,
and how do you make sure they're okay? Do you give them a phone? An air tag? A prayer?

But asking for a rather more dramatic reason in that my child went for a wander earlier today because he "wanted to get some sunshine". He's usually so anxious not to be away from us that he doesn't even like going into a different room by himself so my immediate thought was that he'd been kidnapped 🙈 Thankfully, we found him round the corner. But it was the scariest few minutes of my life.
It did get me thinking - he seemed to really enjoy the freedom, quite a sudden and dramatic step but obviously at some point his need for it will become more persistent. At his age we were playing out by ourselves but it was a completely different time. How can I give it to him in this day and age without thinking about child traffickers the whole time ?

I can't ask my parents for help on this one - they still worry silly about us 🤦‍♀️. As a child it really annoyed me that they wanted constant reassurance I was okay, but I get it now!

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sprigatito · 04/01/2026 21:57

Depends on the child and the area, surely. One of mine was reliable and sensible enough at 8 or 9, the other was a total fruitloop and I didn’t let him out alone until secondary school. We live in a fairly safe community, but near a main road.

FurForksSake · 04/01/2026 21:56

How old is he and what sort of community do you live in?

User18394111 · 04/01/2026 21:56

Totally area dependent in my opinion. I allow my 11 year old to go to our very local park in daylight. We live in an extremely safe town though.