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romantasylife · 04/01/2026 18:51

DS is in year 1, attendance has been 100% since he started year R (we have been very lucky!). We have been offered the opportunity for an all expenses paid holiday by a family member (again lucky!) however they have booked it for term time!

I know mumsnet is not a fan of a term time holiday but I have a couple of queries. For reference have no intention of lying to school and will fill in the holiday form so no sneaking off!

I understand that the absence will go down as unauthorised and that we can be fined £80 per parent for the 5 days.

However this trip would be 2 weeks, therefore does this count as two strikes e.g not a first offence if we do 2 weeks in a row or is this still the £80 fine?

If DS is then ill in the next 3 years does that mean we will get fined again and therefore count as a final warning?

It's a minefield and whilst I get why it is important I do feel that in year 1 we are ok to go, for reference he is on track for where he needs to be and it would be the 2 weeks before the summer hols so winding down anyway!

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Sartre · 04/01/2026 19:14

If you have asked and they referred you to the government website, this means they strictly follow those guidelines and won’t allow you time off. Some schools are more relaxed with this than others and aren’t quick to fine you, sounds like yours will. I guess since it’s an all expenses paid trip, you have to decide whether the £1600 fine is worth it.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 04/01/2026 19:11

@romantasylife How frustrating! Sorry I don't have the answer.

romantasylife · 04/01/2026 19:07

@Buscobel their transition day is the week before so not missing that. He will miss sports week and then the final week both of which are not transition based.

@Mumtobabyhavoc the website refers to the gov page which doesn't answer the question. I have asked the office but they just said it will be as per the website

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Buscobel · 04/01/2026 19:04

You may feel that there’s little happening in the last two weeks of term, however there’s the preparation for the next academic year, meeting the new teacher, seeing the new classroom etc.

You aren’t fined for illness, but both parents are fined for unauthorised absence. If the holiday is a gift, perhaps the fine will be less of an issue for you.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 04/01/2026 19:04

Sorry, curious here... why can't you simply ask the school administration, or check their web-site?

NeverDropYourMooncup · 04/01/2026 18:53

You don't get referred for a penalty charge for being ill.