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Feel a bit mean, but so excited for tomorrow

333 replies

Morewoodonthefire · 04/01/2026 18:04

Dh back to work
Dc back to school

I am the type who normally feels sad holidays are over and kids are back and so on, but this holiday hasn’t been great and I cannot wait for 9 am tomorrow.
I intend to stop at the shop for treats and spend until pick up watching Netflix shows…blissfully alone! (aside from the dogs-who are no trouble)

OP posts:
ThatCyanCat · 05/01/2026 11:04

ktopfwcv · 05/01/2026 11:00

Can people enjoy every day highs too or just lows?

People don't enjoy lows, that's what makes them lows. And yes of course they can enjoy highs.

What on earth are you on about?

Coffeeandbooks88 · 05/01/2026 11:02

SENcatsandfish · 04/01/2026 23:37

I cant wait for tuesday when they're back at school. Having SEN kids as a single mum is damn hard. Back to routine for all of us.

My not yet diagnosed autistic three year old is destroying the house. He will get thrown through the door of the school nursery!

ktopfwcv · 05/01/2026 11:00

ThatCyanCat · 05/01/2026 10:58

What about them?

Can people enjoy every day highs too or just lows?

Coffeeandbooks88 · 05/01/2026 11:00

We are in Yorkshire. Hoping school is open tomorrow because I cant bloody wait.

ThatCyanCat · 05/01/2026 10:58

ktopfwcv · 05/01/2026 10:49

What about every day highs?

What about them?

ktopfwcv · 05/01/2026 10:57

Taweofterror · 05/01/2026 10:50

No she wasn't. She was encouraging op to enjoy herself? Your response to that was really odd and out of proportion.

Yes she was. "I can't do xyz so show me pity"

ktopfwcv · 05/01/2026 10:56

Taweofterror · 05/01/2026 10:51

What are you even on about?

Can people enjoy every day highs too or just lows?

Taweofterror · 05/01/2026 10:51

ktopfwcv · 05/01/2026 10:49

What about every day highs?

What are you even on about?

Taweofterror · 05/01/2026 10:50

ktopfwcv · 05/01/2026 10:42

How am I a Debbie downer?
PP was playing race to the bottom so I joined in.

No she wasn't. She was encouraging op to enjoy herself? Your response to that was really odd and out of proportion.

ktopfwcv · 05/01/2026 10:49

Taweofterror · 05/01/2026 07:50

Give over. People are perfectly entitled to their every day grips and moans.

What about every day highs?

ThatCyanCat · 05/01/2026 10:47

Bah, sorry OP, that sucks.

Still, if it's heavy enough for a snow day, you can surely have some fun out there and enjoy a hot chocolate. Maybe tomorrow?

ktopfwcv · 05/01/2026 10:42

sugarapplelane · 05/01/2026 07:13

Don’t be such a Debbie Downer.

How am I a Debbie downer?
PP was playing race to the bottom so I joined in.

IAmTheLogLady · 05/01/2026 10:24

Morewoodonthefire · 05/01/2026 08:41

SNOW DAY!!!

That serves me right for getting excited about having something just for me 😩😅

Noooooo.
Bet the arse hole posters were doing snow voodoo well into the early hours just to spite you.

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 05/01/2026 10:06

Morewoodonthefire · 05/01/2026 08:41

SNOW DAY!!!

That serves me right for getting excited about having something just for me 😩😅

No! Fucking snow!

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 05/01/2026 10:05

Okiedokie123 · 05/01/2026 00:11

@DontGoJasonWaterfalls @Oneforallandallforone @Soashamed60
hence I voted yabu because without any further context (and no…. Of course she doesn’t owe any of us those details but she does want us to share her joy so…..) It’s just rubbing it in that I’ve got to work tomorrow and all week. Id much rather sit and watch tv eating crisps all day but as a lone adult I can’t!

<shrug>

Right well whilst everyone else has Saturday and Sunday off, I will be a bitterly, pathetic human and whinge over it because it’s of course, not fair that I have to work them

God some of you really need to work on finding some vague joy in life

Wishing14 · 05/01/2026 09:00

❄️ enjoy the snowflakes as a reminder of some of the people on this thread!

HerVagestyTheQueef · 05/01/2026 08:53

On the bright side OP, there’s SNOW! ❄️❄️☃️🌨️

Taweofterror · 05/01/2026 08:45

Morewoodonthefire · 05/01/2026 08:41

SNOW DAY!!!

That serves me right for getting excited about having something just for me 😩😅

Nooooo 😢

Hopefully you get that day soon

Morewoodonthefire · 05/01/2026 08:41

SNOW DAY!!!

That serves me right for getting excited about having something just for me 😩😅

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HerVagestyTheQueef · 05/01/2026 08:40

Have a fantastic day, OP! 🥳

Taweofterror · 05/01/2026 08:30

School closed here too, I'm chuffed but hoping schools are open where op is so she gets her break.
I just need all the trains to be cancelled now so my uni kids are trapped here with me

holachicatita · 05/01/2026 08:23

Dublassie · 04/01/2026 19:58

OMG where are you ? Am in Dublin and a teacher and would LOVE this !!!!

We're in the North.. most schools closed today!

AmyDuPlantier · 05/01/2026 08:07

SqishySqashmas · 04/01/2026 18:06

OP do you not realise that a large majority of people reading this will in fact be going back to work having had very little break at all.

OP do you not realise that you are not permitted any small pleasures in case someone on MN has been denied it 🙄

Morewoodonthefire · 05/01/2026 08:07

DandyDenimScroller · 05/01/2026 08:04

Yep can't wait. Gonna get the vibrator out and have a big girl wank over jon from nkotb

Ffs 🤦‍♀️

I preferred Jordan

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Morewoodonthefire · 05/01/2026 08:05

Okiedokie123 · 05/01/2026 01:22

Sorry for being such a downer @Morewoodonthefire Im not usually! Hoping you enjoy your peaceful Monday x

That’s ok, I understand, roll on spring/summer when you can see your dc

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