To think it was my curry?!

Oh stop being so stupid. I don't think you even mean what you are saying but you just want to argue. Only and idiot would not understand that the curry was HERS and ALL THE FOOD OTHER THAN HER CURRY WAS SHARED.

This is why I have precisely 0 friends. Who could be arsed listening to a greedy, ungrateful shit begging for the leftover curry you paid for? It’s your house, if you want to eat anything that you paid for he should be minding his own business. I just wouldn’t even want to speak to him every again tbh. The fact that he tried to belittle you after you had said no would be a deal breaker for me friendship wise. Curious as to what your DH / DP thought of him attempting to humiliate you?

You might THINK so, some of us DON’T.

This bonkers. The OP was 100% right to eat the rest of HER curry.

If it was ALL, the curry would have been shared. So it wasn't ALL. Thats the distinction

It’s not rude so much as inhospitable and a little weird to serve yourself something different (and in this case it’s sounds like more appetising) than what you serve your guests. The guest did not necessarily know the origin story of the curry, he saw curry at a buffet dinner and asked for some. He was in my view rude when he was told ‘no’, but also I can see why he thought it was fair game. Ultimately, a minor face pas on OP’s behalf, more than outbalanced by what sounds excellent hosting to that point.

Everyone with a hair across their arse about her cooking is deranged. It’s very normal in couples for one person to take on the load in one area where they prefer the work/are better at it, and someone else to take the reins in another area.

It was ALL shared except HALF a curry. Her curry that she had paid for. They all had curry and they could all, if they had wanted to, left some for the next day but they didn't.

I really think some of you are being petty and aruing just for the sake of it.

Say it as many times as you want but no. It's irrelevant.

Bringing it forward for you Imdunfer.
And for the record, I agree 100%
Share all, or none, not bits here and there at hosts choosing

Read my earlier post! I'm not typing it out again for you.

I think somewhere between the collective takeaway order and the OP settling down to her leftovers, these guests have more than outstayed their welcome.

So they should either of fucked off home, or no longer require guest level hospitality, either way it's perfectly fine for the OP to enjoy the last of her curry without having to cater for a crowd at the same time.

Hang on. That's not on. The OP wasn't rude for eating her own individual meal over two nights. This was not a case of she made a load of plates of food and kept the lovely chunky chips or beautiful prawn dish for herself. It was literally HER meal leftover.

You do need to understand why this was bad manners and why it was rude unless you're happy to be equally as rude to guests in your home in future. But I guess you are.

Page 3 has no meaning here, everyone has different page numbers.

I and many others believe you are wrong. This wasn't a dish cooked by the host or a takeaway bought by the guests. As each person paid for their own takeaway, the rules of hosting do not apply. The guests ate their takeaway, they can't expect to eat OP's too, which she paid for herself. She is entitled to enjoy her paid for takeaway at a time of her choosing.

I don't need to understand. She wasn't rude. She's paid for food for these people for five days. They all ate their full curry. She didn't and decided to just have it the next day while providing another full meal.

Thank you for the apology. If you won't read my post very close to the top of page 3 then I guess you'll never understand why I and many other people believe that the behaviour of the host was bad manners.

I read that particular post that I quoted and responded to that. I'm not interested in looking for another post. I do however apologise for saying people were thick.

You’ll have to ask the op that.

The second post of mine you haven't read correctly, while calling me thick.

I repeat, read the post I directed you to.

Exactly why did the host behave badly?

And that is exactly it!!

It was not even a polite ask. It was an entitled I will help myself to that and then had the cheek to say ‘I guess Lola doesn’t share food, hey?’ when the entitled pig has been eating OP’s food (including the curry the night before he did not pay for) over the past week and had a full plate in front of him.

had it been me I would have been politely enquiring when they were planning on leaving.

Apparently some leftovers are sharing leftovers and some are personal leftovers 🤷‍♀️

You misread or misunderstood my very simple my post and accuse me of being thick and not understanding a simple post 🤣😂🤣

If you are still struggling to understand, see my post close to the top of page 3.

Except she didn't!! It was HER personal curry from the night before, the same as everyone else had their own. She didn't eat all hers in one go.

I fear for the future of this country when people are so thick they can not understand a simple post.