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To think infant circumcision is wrong but also that a total ban on it will not work and is not the most effective way to tackle it?

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Carla786 · 04/01/2026 00:49

On the recent threads after the tragic death of the baby boy who died from circumcision performed by a non medical professional, there have been a lot of calls for a total ban on here.
Now, I think infant circumcision is very wrong. But in practice I do not think a ban will work.
Most cultural circumcisions are performed by medically trained people. Backstreet ones need to be cracked down on with the full force of the law, but they are not typical.
Second, circumcision is key in Islam. However, while most agree it’s either compulsory or strongly recommended, age requirements are not as stringent in mandating someone has to be a minor. I think there is some hope sensitive campaigning within the community could maybe make more families consider leaving it until their son is at least maybe an older adolescent with more ability to choose.
Judaism – circumcision is central to Orthodox, Ultra Orthodox Haredi ofc, and more liberal Masorti and Reform. It is extremely unlikely that any law or external pressure would stop these practices, because brit milah is a covenantal obligation tied to Jewish identity. Attempting a blanket ban would likely trigger defensiveness, fear, maybe underground circumcisions and probably emigration of at least some to Israel or elsewhere, rather than protect children.
Focusing on sterile procedures, trained practitioners, and medical supervision would be more likely to significantly reduce risk. Jews have experienced persecution for circumcision in the past (e.g., Hellenistic bans and European restrictions), so any attempt to criminalise it today can feel existential. This is only heightened by the terrible upsurge in anti Semitism recently.

I agree with sentiments behind calling for a ban - I just thing measures short of a ban are more likely to work.

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ExtraOnions · 04/01/2026 01:02

Carla786 · 04/01/2026 00:59

A lot of Jews & Muslims will end up in prison then...is that really the best outcome?

I predict if prison sentences would enforced there would be a mass exodus, and as I've said, the boys would still end up circumcised, maybe in more unsafe conditions.

..if people want to leave the country, so they can mutilate thier children, they are more than welcome.

If they take thier children abroad to get it done “on holiday” we should do the same as we do with FGM, and make that an offence also.

Either you live in the UK where we don’t slice bits off babies, or you live somewhere else.

Carla786 · 04/01/2026 00:59

Danceparty55 · 04/01/2026 00:58

Circumcision is a very important part of religious Jews and Muslim’s faith. You may totally disagree with it. It’s not my faith. But to pretend that banning it isn’t a huge, huge thing is naive. We could and should restrict it to medical settings. My Muslim friends had their baby circumcised in a private hospital to ensure better health and safety. But banning completely seems so drastic to me. For the record none of my kids are circumcised so no vested interest in defending it.

Thank you! People on MN do not seem to understand how important this is. I strongly disagree with it but I am also a realist.

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Carla786 · 04/01/2026 00:59

ExtraOnions · 04/01/2026 00:56

…a ban, with criminal records and imprisonment for anyone found to be carrying it out.

If you chopped any other bit off a baby, you would be prosecuted, not sure why we don’t enforce the same rules for Foreskin.

If your God insists that you mutilate babies, you might want to look for a new religion.

A lot of Jews & Muslims will end up in prison then...is that really the best outcome?

I predict if prison sentences would enforced there would be a mass exodus, and as I've said, the boys would still end up circumcised, maybe in more unsafe conditions.

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Danceparty55 · 04/01/2026 00:58

Circumcision is a very important part of religious Jews and Muslim’s faith. You may totally disagree with it. It’s not my faith. But to pretend that banning it isn’t a huge, huge thing is naive. We could and should restrict it to medical settings. My Muslim friends had their baby circumcised in a private hospital to ensure better health and safety. But banning completely seems so drastic to me. For the record none of my kids are circumcised so no vested interest in defending it.

Carla786 · 04/01/2026 00:57

KissMyArt · 04/01/2026 00:54

Nope.

Slicing bits off a newborn baby for anything other than medical reasons really should be banned.

Realistically, many Jews may probably leave the UK for Israel or maybe US if we do that. Or maybe circumcise on holiday in another country. Would we arrest them for doing that on holiday?

I can't see this ending well for Jews, Muslims, or the baby boys who will probably end up being circumcised anyway

Imo it's much better to try and work with the communities to ensure proper medical insight & pain relief.

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ExtraOnions · 04/01/2026 00:56

…a ban, with criminal records and imprisonment for anyone found to be carrying it out.

If you chopped any other bit off a baby, you would be prosecuted, not sure why we don’t enforce the same rules for Foreskin.

If your God insists that you mutilate babies, you might want to look for a new religion.

KissMyArt · 04/01/2026 00:54

Nope.

Slicing bits off a newborn baby for anything other than medical reasons really should be banned.