Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Temu Tat…

163 replies

PinkPonyClubb · 03/01/2026 07:36

Does anyone else get annoyed by Temu gifts that break?

My young child is continually gifted Temu gifts from family members for birthdays and Christmas.

They are cheaply made and don’t last - two examples an aeroplane that wing broke when my child caught it’s side on a wooden floor while playing with it. A car that’s wheel snapped of when it travelled down a ramp.

And the latest - a light gun that batteries containers has smashed after being knocked of the table.

I know there has been a few knocks but these are children toys. So fed up of my 3 year old becoming upset because there toys are broken.

Please stop buying my child cheap tat.

Anyone else?

OP posts:
babyproblems · 03/01/2026 21:18

a warning for anyone who sees this that buys kids toys online from china - they often don’t meet UK EU safety regs. I don’t mean breaking and poor quality, I mean toxic plastic dyes and chemical ingredients!!!

I do buy things from there for business use, we source packaging for example. But I’d never buy kids things directly from China

VikaOlson · 03/01/2026 21:17

I wouldn't let a child have anything from Temu to be honest.

No safety testing
Batteries and magnets in them that are dangerous
Made with toxic dyes or chemicals.

Not worth the risk just to save a couple of quid.

Coffeeandcocktails · 03/01/2026 21:16

Yes!!! Not Temu but the cheapest cr*p they can find! Both sides of the families too!

Also not about the money, it’s about quantity over quality and it drives me insane!

Even when they ask for ideas, they will then buy heaps of random tat to go along with the decent gifts I have suggested.

How many days since Christmas and we’ve already had two meltdowns over their presents breaking etc!

Happyjoe · 03/01/2026 21:14

RhaenysRocks · 03/01/2026 20:33

I got a lovely scarf from a UK high street store at Xmas. Cost about £50. Guess where it's made?

I got an underwater digital camera from Temu for £15..cheaper than a disposable Kodak. Absolutely brilliant piece of kit.

I've got several t shirts from Temu, less than £5 each. Really nice quality cotton, wash great. £12-15 from supermarkets, worse quality.

It's just not as simple now as "shop ethically". You can't if you try. Watch the Good Place ... excellent episode on this towards the end where an ethics professor who has huge anxiety about doing the right thing can't actually work it out.

Not all items made in China may be through slavery. However, slavery has been linked to Temu hasn't it?
Once you know, should it not make a difference? For example, I used to buy products in my youth, then found out they were tested on animals. I stopped buying them, couldn't justify the cruelty in my purchase.

Same as quality. For sure, expensive items in the UK can be made in China, but Temu will have to be making cuts along the way, design, materials, slavery to keep their costs down to tempt European buyers by their price.

Anothercoffeex · 03/01/2026 21:11

ShowOfHands · 03/01/2026 20:45

I've been dirt poor. Eating Weetabix with water for lunch poor. I didn't need a single thing from Temu. Nobody NEEDS anything from Temu. People want to buy "bits" from there and need to justify their decisions.

Yawn🙄

Happyjoe · 03/01/2026 21:08

Never ever been tempted to order from them, I certainly wouldn't buy gifts from Temu/Shein or whatever they are called. Old adage, you get what you pay for.

Pollyanna87 · 03/01/2026 21:03

How poor does one need to be before they can disregard slavery?

MyNavyFish · 03/01/2026 20:50

I completely understand. We have a family friend who has bought a huge amount of gifts for our 5 month DS. They are very poor quality and I have concerns about safety. I just won't give any of it my baby. I have three big bags worth of it at the bottom of my wardrobe. I won't donate it as I don't want other babies to be at risk, so sadly off to landfill it will go. I sound very ungrateful but with the amount this family member spends they could get one nice gift from a reputable company.

ShowOfHands · 03/01/2026 20:45

Anothercoffeex · 03/01/2026 16:48

I use temu, Im poor and I need to live.

I've been dirt poor. Eating Weetabix with water for lunch poor. I didn't need a single thing from Temu. Nobody NEEDS anything from Temu. People want to buy "bits" from there and need to justify their decisions.

weaselpatrol · 03/01/2026 20:38

I don’t trust any toys (or clothing) from TEMU, especially those that require batteries and/or charging. My mum has bought stuff in the past for my daughter and I have just shoved it to the back of the cupboard to dispose of later. It’s not worth the risk.

RhaenysRocks · 03/01/2026 20:33

I got a lovely scarf from a UK high street store at Xmas. Cost about £50. Guess where it's made?

I got an underwater digital camera from Temu for £15..cheaper than a disposable Kodak. Absolutely brilliant piece of kit.

I've got several t shirts from Temu, less than £5 each. Really nice quality cotton, wash great. £12-15 from supermarkets, worse quality.

It's just not as simple now as "shop ethically". You can't if you try. Watch the Good Place ... excellent episode on this towards the end where an ethics professor who has huge anxiety about doing the right thing can't actually work it out.

insomniacalways · 03/01/2026 20:27

Tell them you can't allow the kids to have TEMU items.... They don't meet proper safety standards.

FishPie2 · 03/01/2026 20:20

I buy lots of beads, findings and cords from Temu and the quality is fine.
I bought some door furnishings from Amazon and where were they made, yes China and they were not cheap tatt same as not all stuff on Temu is tatt.

Kd96 · 03/01/2026 20:13

Growing up our parents would buy 30, 40, 50 POUNDLAND 'gifts' usually cheap grainy chocolate and sweets, cheapy make up items, toys (if you can call them that).. Because 'lots of little presents is so much better than one big one'. Bullshit! Both me and my siblings have nipped that shit in the bud with them and our DCs gifts!
I'm not an ungrateful shit but at 13 years old and type 1 diabetes, 30 chocolate bars and sweet tubes is a kick in the teeth 🤷‍♀️

LucyMonth · 03/01/2026 20:12

InLoveWithAI · 03/01/2026 17:58

Much like the tech you're currently using to post 🤨

Whataboutism at its absolute finest…

A now essential piece of tech which the PP will likely have for years is very different to crap off TEMU which is never used as it is so utterly appalling quality. We all have to live under capitalism whether we like it or not but we can choose when and how to engage with it.

LucyMonth · 03/01/2026 20:08

BettysRoasties · 03/01/2026 16:53

Lots of local shops are on there now it’s not even all straight from China crap anymore so the judgement from people is hilarious.

Though let’s face it most local shops are still importing everything just charging more.

Maybe have a little think about this. Just a tiny bit deeper. You’re so close to getting it.

dentalflosser · 03/01/2026 19:59

i shopped at Temu for the first and last time before Christmas. A couple of small gifts for DC’s birthday, couple of tops for me and scrapbooking/hobby supplies. Most advertised as UK based for delivery.
A large bag of stuff arrived after Christmas and I wasn’t expecting top quality stuff for the price of the tops but what I got was absolute shite. Apparently I can only return one item with free shipping and would have to pay for the rest.
The tops are nothing like the photos, I usually shop for clothes in charity shops and now I realise that buying online and cheap isn’t always the best way.
I’m at fault but I got sucked in by all the offers that I would supposedly get for free with my order, none of which turned up.
The hobby supplies were crap on the whole. All shipped from China as I tracked them rather than the UK warehouse. Never again, lesson learned!

PinkPonyClubb · 03/01/2026 19:47

MIL is very wealthy so it’s not a money issue.

SIL is not wealthy.

I wouldn’t and don’t expect either to spend a significant amount of money on gifts. I’ve had maternity clothes and kids craft bits from shein and Temu so although I should consider the ethical side of these shops - as lots of you have rightly pointed out I haven’t before and this post wasn’t about that.

My issue is, given the amount of gifts, they must be spending between £10- £30 on Temu and it doesn’t last! It’s cheaply made and then there is tears. Surely there’s loads more they can but for that price. But yes you’re also right we need to consider the ethics too.

OP posts:
PennyPugwash · 03/01/2026 18:14

My MIL bought my children’s bday gifts from there. Absolutely shocking quality. They were actually dangerous id say. A total of 6 transformers (we’ve twins) all in the bin within 24 hours. I was so annoyed as we asked for vouchers knowing that she would buy crap….. yet here we are!

InLoveWithAI · 03/01/2026 17:58

ExtraOnions · 03/01/2026 17:29

Temu slave labour sweat shops … robbing a Chinese child of thier childhood, so yours can cheap shite.

Not to mention harvesting your Card details …

Much like the tech you're currently using to post 🤨

MaloryJones · 03/01/2026 17:57

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

BoredZelda · 03/01/2026 17:55

ExtraOnions · 03/01/2026 17:29

Temu slave labour sweat shops … robbing a Chinese child of thier childhood, so yours can cheap shite.

Not to mention harvesting your Card details …

🤔 Who’s going to tell her where the vast majority of Fisher Price toys are made…..?

Anothercoffeex · 03/01/2026 17:30

ExtraOnions · 03/01/2026 17:29

Temu slave labour sweat shops … robbing a Chinese child of thier childhood, so yours can cheap shite.

Not to mention harvesting your Card details …

Its not all from china there are alot of uk stores on there.

WhatNoRaisins · 03/01/2026 17:29

I don't like it either. I've never been snobby about brands but there is so much poor quality and unsafe crap out there now I'm being a lot more selective.

ExtraOnions · 03/01/2026 17:29

Temu slave labour sweat shops … robbing a Chinese child of thier childhood, so yours can cheap shite.

Not to mention harvesting your Card details …

Swipe left for the next trending thread