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PinkPonyClubb · 03/01/2026 07:36

Does anyone else get annoyed by Temu gifts that break?

My young child is continually gifted Temu gifts from family members for birthdays and Christmas.

They are cheaply made and don’t last - two examples an aeroplane that wing broke when my child caught it’s side on a wooden floor while playing with it. A car that’s wheel snapped of when it travelled down a ramp.

And the latest - a light gun that batteries containers has smashed after being knocked of the table.

I know there has been a few knocks but these are children toys. So fed up of my 3 year old becoming upset because there toys are broken.

Please stop buying my child cheap tat.

Anyone else?

OP posts:
QuietComet · 04/01/2026 10:21

Notashamed13 · 04/01/2026 05:50

No, it really is.

No, it's really not.

QuietComet · 04/01/2026 10:04

DrMickhead · 03/01/2026 17:25

How dare you? Don’t you know us plebs (Im also poor!) are only allowed to use charity shops, Vinted and eBay? That or we can darn our Asda socks when they get holes?!
Haven't you heard of door to door begging? We could fashion our own dresses from donated quilt covers! We can’t possibly have things from SHEIN or Temu or tiktok shop (which is where I buy all my shoes and they’re always ace btw ;)) because people who’d choose to not shop their think absolutely everything they sell is tat! I have to be honest and say I have loved the clothes I have had from Temu and Im complemented quite a bit on them.

I have a friend who is relatively wealthy and her vibe is Rockett St George/quirky designers and she loved my SHEIN prints so much she bought some despite being able to afford whatever she wants within reason.

It's false economy though, and sometimes even dangerous / bad for your health.

Yes, a lot of products come from china, but they still have different standards from factory to factory. The products from Temu and Shein have been tested independently and been found to contain harmful levels of minerals and some nasty chemicals.

The false economy is that they will last far less time than well-made products.

I prefer to buy well-made second-hand.

Not to mention the modern slavery aspects.

I can't find any reason why I'd choose to buy dangerous, harmful, fragile crap from Temu, made by people who are in forced labour.

Ilovelurchers · 04/01/2026 10:04

DecemberGloom · 04/01/2026 05:06

Temu and Shein should be banned. Appalling that people put price above human and environmental cost.

People are putting their desire to give their own children clothes, toys, craft items, etc etc, above the environmental cost. That is all they are doing
And most of us would do it, whatever our lofty ideals, if it was a choice between our kids having Xmas presents or not.

I live and work with families in an area of extremely high deprivation, and if I suggested they stop using sites like Temu I would, quite rightly, be laughed out of the park.

(And the people in my community are also brilliant at sharing what they have, passing on unwanted items etc. Nothing gets thrown away or wasted if another family could plausibly use it. But you can't get everything on Facebook marketplace and the free sites. And also, sometimes people want a bit of sparkle, even if it's cheap tacky sparkle?)

Correct the heinous imbalance in our society. THEN I will absolutely take your point about this......

TwotierChristmas · 04/01/2026 10:00

Surely toys from unregulated places are dangerous ?
We don't know what toxins are in them and they won't have the same safety stuff we do here ?

Ilovelurchers · 04/01/2026 09:58

PolkaDotPorridge · 03/01/2026 16:46

I despair of those who use Shein and Temu. Unsafe, unethical crap!

Yeah, what absolute cunts, having the temerity to be poor AND want themselves and their kids to have toys, clothes, cosmetics etc.

Why don't they weave together a cloak of leaves, and let their children play with foraged sticks, like any ethical poor person would?

Jesus.

Strawbsss · 04/01/2026 09:54

My Mum bought us all hampers of Temu stuff for Christmas. Lip balms, hand creams, sweets etc. All went straight in the bin when she left.
I don’t know what the ingredients are etc.

Pollyanna87 · 04/01/2026 09:00

Ponoka7 · 04/01/2026 00:27

Perhaps we need, again, to ask MN and lots of posters why they recommend Uniglo, when they use child slavery?
Some of the documentaries are worth a watch, because the argument is that employment is needed to prevent starvation. If those children wasn't working, they'd die. Perhaps that's the thought? It's still questionable that a parenting site advertises a company, which is one of the worse child employers, consideringthe cost of the garments. Zara is another brand which is totally exploitative. I wouldn't buy toys etc from shein, though.

Slavery isn’t work, it’s slavery. Much of the production takes place in prisons where people are imprisoned for being Muslim or Buddhist or for supporting democracy.

NautilusLionfish · 04/01/2026 06:06

Wholenutislife · 04/01/2026 05:59

Im 46. I have friends that consistently gift from temu. Its absolute tat. I understand budget constraints but id rather a 2.99 bunch of flowers than even more tat, id rather no gift and them to say they cant afford presents this year than to use temu

as long as your £2.99 flowers are not from Kenya or Ethiopia, depriving locals of land and water.
i agree though. we need to reset with consumerist culture. Even Amazon is full of temu stuff but 6 times the price. Ditto etsy

Wholenutislife · 04/01/2026 05:59

Im 46. I have friends that consistently gift from temu. Its absolute tat. I understand budget constraints but id rather a 2.99 bunch of flowers than even more tat, id rather no gift and them to say they cant afford presents this year than to use temu

Notashamed13 · 04/01/2026 05:50

LiteralNightmare · 04/01/2026 05:49

It's really not, it's cheap copies.

No, it really is.

LiteralNightmare · 04/01/2026 05:49

Notashamed13 · 04/01/2026 05:07

You do know that most TEMU stuff is just cutting out the "middle man" who then adds their profit on top - sorry but I'm all for saving in the current economic climate.

It's really not, it's cheap copies.

Notashamed13 · 04/01/2026 05:07

You do know that most TEMU stuff is just cutting out the "middle man" who then adds their profit on top - sorry but I'm all for saving in the current economic climate.

DecemberGloom · 04/01/2026 05:06

Temu and Shein should be banned. Appalling that people put price above human and environmental cost.

estrogone · 04/01/2026 04:55

BoredZelda · 03/01/2026 17:55

🤔 Who’s going to tell her where the vast majority of Fisher Price toys are made…..?

Two things can be true at the same time. Some Chinese factories have standards, some don't.

A quick google is all that's needed.

Both of you making yourselves feel better for buying cheap shite that is manufactured by forced labour. Bleughhh.

estrogone · 04/01/2026 04:47

Anothercoffeex · 03/01/2026 16:48

I use temu, Im poor and I need to live.

Shame about the poor people who also need to live but earn well below living wage.

dentalflosser · 04/01/2026 02:27

MoominMai · 03/01/2026 21:57

No, for each order I think you can return as many items as you want but if you then decide to return something else later from that same order, it’s then you have to pay the P&P so you should be okay as long as you return the unwanted stuff in one go as it were.

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That’s great news, thank you so much! X

Abd80 · 04/01/2026 00:55

I don’t let my children play with any tat from temu because loads of it won’t adhere EU or UK safety standards.

Ponoka7 · 04/01/2026 00:27

Pollyanna87 · 03/01/2026 21:03

How poor does one need to be before they can disregard slavery?

Perhaps we need, again, to ask MN and lots of posters why they recommend Uniglo, when they use child slavery?
Some of the documentaries are worth a watch, because the argument is that employment is needed to prevent starvation. If those children wasn't working, they'd die. Perhaps that's the thought? It's still questionable that a parenting site advertises a company, which is one of the worse child employers, consideringthe cost of the garments. Zara is another brand which is totally exploitative. I wouldn't buy toys etc from shein, though.

BettysRoasties · 03/01/2026 22:53

ProbablyFineTBH · 03/01/2026 22:15

It’s everywhere, I’m in a few craft groups and there’s some real snobbery on there by some members to those who post kits they’ve bought on temu and shein etc.

But then when they post their own little hauls they’ve bought from local craft fairs or independent craft shops, it’s temu stuff too.

There’s a little gothic witchy gift shop just opened in my town and it’s stocked with temu stuff that’s marked up a lot. Almost every product in there is on temu.

Yup if you shop smart you just cut the price rather than buying pure crap.

My hobby craft orders via Temu save me money yet are the same items and since it shares the tracking I know it’s definitely hobby craft not a front.

Other people and shops buy from temu suppliers including Amazon and Poundland type companies and car booter types and then sell it for a much higher price. I’ve got watering systems that a big garden centre sells for a lot of money identical off temu for maybe 10/15% of the price.

ProbablyFineTBH · 03/01/2026 22:15

BettysRoasties · 03/01/2026 16:47

Are you sure it’s from Temu and not Amazon. Both basically sell the same stuff on some levels.

But have a word with the gifter if you think it will work. Ask for books instead.

Though I’ve got things form Argos that have barely lasted a few days as a toy and things from Amazon/Temu still going strong a year later. Some temu items are from local shops hobby craft is on there and sell there paint cheaper on temu than they do in store

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It’s everywhere, I’m in a few craft groups and there’s some real snobbery on there by some members to those who post kits they’ve bought on temu and shein etc.

But then when they post their own little hauls they’ve bought from local craft fairs or independent craft shops, it’s temu stuff too.

There’s a little gothic witchy gift shop just opened in my town and it’s stocked with temu stuff that’s marked up a lot. Almost every product in there is on temu.

VikaOlson · 03/01/2026 22:12

AyrshireTryer · 03/01/2026 21:31

Do they have a CE Mark?

No, they ship direct so bypass EU and UK safety standards
https://www.theguardian.com/business/2025/jul/20/eu-commissioner-shocked-dangerous-goods-sold-shein-temu

"Among the worst examples McGrath came across were baby soothers with beads that fall off easily, which pose a choking hazard because they did not have the regulation-size hole to enable a baby who did swallow one accidentally to continue to get air.
Among other goods cited by MEPs in a report released this month include children’s raincoats with toxic chemicals, sunglasses with no UV filter and kids’ shorts with drawstrings longer than regulation length, which cause a trip hazard.
They also found cosmetics containing butylphenyl methylpropional, also known as Lilial, which is listed as a chemical of “very high concern” by the EU and has been banned since 2022 over concerns that it affects fertility and foetal development. "

EU commissioner shocked by dangers of some goods sold by Shein and Temu

Michael McGrath awaits results of secret shopper investigation amid crackdown on Chinese retail platforms

https://www.theguardian.com/business/2025/jul/20/eu-commissioner-shocked-dangerous-goods-sold-shein-temu

MoominMai · 03/01/2026 21:57

dentalflosser · 03/01/2026 19:59

i shopped at Temu for the first and last time before Christmas. A couple of small gifts for DC’s birthday, couple of tops for me and scrapbooking/hobby supplies. Most advertised as UK based for delivery.
A large bag of stuff arrived after Christmas and I wasn’t expecting top quality stuff for the price of the tops but what I got was absolute shite. Apparently I can only return one item with free shipping and would have to pay for the rest.
The tops are nothing like the photos, I usually shop for clothes in charity shops and now I realise that buying online and cheap isn’t always the best way.
I’m at fault but I got sucked in by all the offers that I would supposedly get for free with my order, none of which turned up.
The hobby supplies were crap on the whole. All shipped from China as I tracked them rather than the UK warehouse. Never again, lesson learned!

No, for each order I think you can return as many items as you want but if you then decide to return something else later from that same order, it’s then you have to pay the P&P so you should be okay as long as you return the unwanted stuff in one go as it were.

SP2024 · 03/01/2026 21:34

We don’t have any of it and don’t know anyone who buys from there. Most of our kids toys like that are wooden, but all bought from Aldi and Lidl middle aisles so super cheap. Maybe suggest books, colouring books, paint/pencils instead?

AyrshireTryer · 03/01/2026 21:31

Do they have a CE Mark?

Lonelycrab · 03/01/2026 21:25

Ffs don’t buy anything from temu ever!

Its the epitome of absolute junk

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