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Temu Tat…

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PinkPonyClubb · 03/01/2026 07:36

Does anyone else get annoyed by Temu gifts that break?

My young child is continually gifted Temu gifts from family members for birthdays and Christmas.

They are cheaply made and don’t last - two examples an aeroplane that wing broke when my child caught it’s side on a wooden floor while playing with it. A car that’s wheel snapped of when it travelled down a ramp.

And the latest - a light gun that batteries containers has smashed after being knocked of the table.

I know there has been a few knocks but these are children toys. So fed up of my 3 year old becoming upset because there toys are broken.

Please stop buying my child cheap tat.

Anyone else?

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WhatNoRaisins · 06/01/2026 13:52

I've heard stories of people reverse image searching stuff at "artisan" markets and finding it on Temu.

VikaOlson · 06/01/2026 13:50

Small shops have been caught selling Temu Tat here by the way - it's illegal so you can report them.

VikaOlson · 06/01/2026 13:40

Slightyamusedandsilly · 06/01/2026 13:23

BS. I got something off Temu and it was EXACTLY the same brand that my friend got in a high street shop for three times the price. Chinese yes. But exactly the same brand.

What was the brand?

Slightyamusedandsilly · 06/01/2026 13:23

SlashBeef · 03/01/2026 16:56

It's all straight up shit isn't it. My mother is obsessed and it's all destined for landfill. So depressing.

BS. I got something off Temu and it was EXACTLY the same brand that my friend got in a high street shop for three times the price. Chinese yes. But exactly the same brand.

UncannyFanny · 06/01/2026 13:18

AgreeToDisagreeSometimes · 05/01/2026 23:46

Wonder what poisonous toxic fumes Lovely smells you are filling your house/lungs with

Wonder if we should just AgreeToDisagreeSometimes? 😉

AgreeToDisagreeSometimes · 05/01/2026 23:46

UncannyFanny · 05/01/2026 01:13

I mean the refills. Not the actual plug.

Wonder what poisonous toxic fumes Lovely smells you are filling your house/lungs with

Missingpop · 05/01/2026 18:35

Ok yes I know some stuff from Temu is crap but there are things that are brilliant; I buy all of my Christmas wrapping paper from them it’s bloody awesome thick really good quality & everyone loved it this year; I’m heavily into crafting &!8 get loads of my stuff from them it’s just so much cheaper than hobby craft; but I do not buy toys or children’s things I don’t know what they’re made from & I worry about the paint does it contain lead etc but other bits it’s brilliant just shop with care x

PeachyPeachTrees · 05/01/2026 18:19

Cheap from places like Temu isn't just disappointing bad quality but not as safe to use and goes to landfil quickly. I bought Wow and ELC and similar, they were robust. After being played with by my boys and their cousins, they are still in excellent condition to be passed on again.

AllTheChaos · 05/01/2026 14:27

Rescuedog12 · 05/01/2026 10:31

Surely thay don't meet safety regulations.i would contact trading standards.

They don’t! Tests showed the majority didn’t meet safety standards!

Mrswang · 05/01/2026 14:25

I don't buy from temu tbh I bought some hot wheel type toy cars for my then 2 year old when they arrived they were like cardboard not die cast like I was lead to believe fell apart on the first play and he wasn't even rough with them and don't get me started on the clothing I have been told temu and shein clothes come from the same place but seriously I've had better stuff off shein and it wasn't great from there

AllTheChaos · 05/01/2026 14:24

What got me was the research (possibly by Trading Standards, can’t honestly remember) into the stuff being imported by third party resellers, so Amazon etc as well as Temu et al. So, mainstream and used by loads of people. The stuff was safety tested and 95% of it failed to meet UK safety standards! Children’s toys fared better, only 80% failed safety standards! Most shops are selling stuff made in China, yes in sweatshops, but avoiding them altogether takes time, effort, and money that frankly most of us don’t have (myself included). So I just try to stick to shops selling things that meet the safety standards.

Re: ethics, that is a really hard call. I’m still trying to buy better quality, more consciously, do without certain things etc., but on a low budget it often boils down to buy unethically or don’t have it - and when it comes to making my child miss out, I hate to say it but my ethics have not won. I will do without stuff for me, but she goes without so bloody much already, that I’m afraid that yes, I bought her the Chinese made toys, just the slightly more expensive ones not from 3rd party importers, so where I had a reasonable expectation that they would be safe at least.

QuietComet · 05/01/2026 14:19

UncannyFanny · 05/01/2026 14:07

In case you hadn’t noticed we are all contaminated from multiple historic nuclear disasters, we all contain an excess burden of harmful chemicals which are going to cause disease and early deaths anyway and none of us can escape. We’re all doomed. But at least I’ll go smelling of lavender and meadow pansy 😃

That is quite possibly the worst argument I've ever heard. If we're all fucked, I'm just going to take up smoking again and, why not, maybe start a crack habit?
If our organs are getting destroyed anyway, I'll drink away my liver, why not ?

VikaOlson · 05/01/2026 14:19

Health and safety gone mad, we should go back to the good old days of lead paint and radium girls' faces rotting off.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radium_Girls

Radium Girls - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radium_Girls

VikaOlson · 05/01/2026 14:17

UncannyFanny · 05/01/2026 14:07

In case you hadn’t noticed we are all contaminated from multiple historic nuclear disasters, we all contain an excess burden of harmful chemicals which are going to cause disease and early deaths anyway and none of us can escape. We’re all doomed. But at least I’ll go smelling of lavender and meadow pansy 😃

Do you think there's no point to any safety regulations or chemical limits at all then?

VoodooQualities · 05/01/2026 14:14

I went on Temu but hated it - things popping up and flying around all over the place!

We've done several electrics orders on AliExpress recently for my campervan. DH started it by buying a new speedometer which runs off GPS (only £20) which we fitted together a while ago, it's brilliant and now I'm hooked.

Currently got an order on its way with a new Bluetooth/mp3 car stereo (£10) and all the fixings needed to connect up my new speakers!

UncannyFanny · 05/01/2026 14:07

QuietComet · 05/01/2026 13:50

The air fresheners we buy here have to comply with relevant standards and regulations, such as REACH, CLP, COSHH, etc. and have to be CE marked to demonstrate compliance.

The ones from Temu don't, have been tested and found to contain formaldehyde, MIT, CMIT, lead, benzene and acetaldehyde, which are released into the air you breathe when they heat up.

All of these can cause long-term health issues.

There is a reason they're so cheap:

  1. They don't have to pay for testing for compliance with UK law.
  1. They put in any crap, mostly stuff that's not allowed here.

In case you hadn’t noticed we are all contaminated from multiple historic nuclear disasters, we all contain an excess burden of harmful chemicals which are going to cause disease and early deaths anyway and none of us can escape. We’re all doomed. But at least I’ll go smelling of lavender and meadow pansy 😃

YellowPixie · 05/01/2026 14:01

But they're cheap and smell nice.... who cares if they're made by slaves and with stuff which will potentially make you ill.

Jesus wept, critical thinking is a dying art.

QuietComet · 05/01/2026 13:50

UncannyFanny · 05/01/2026 12:12

Exactly the same things as the ones you buy here. We have no idea if they are safe either. Crazy eh?

The air fresheners we buy here have to comply with relevant standards and regulations, such as REACH, CLP, COSHH, etc. and have to be CE marked to demonstrate compliance.

The ones from Temu don't, have been tested and found to contain formaldehyde, MIT, CMIT, lead, benzene and acetaldehyde, which are released into the air you breathe when they heat up.

All of these can cause long-term health issues.

There is a reason they're so cheap:

  1. They don't have to pay for testing for compliance with UK law.
  1. They put in any crap, mostly stuff that's not allowed here.
VikaOlson · 05/01/2026 13:10

UncannyFanny · 05/01/2026 12:12

Exactly the same things as the ones you buy here. We have no idea if they are safe either. Crazy eh?

How do you know they contain the same things?

You can be fairly sure that products sold in shops here meet basic safety standards, for plug in air fresheners:

  • Chemical Safety (UK REACH & CLP): Products must comply with UK REACH (Registration, Evaluation, Authorisation and Restriction of Chemicals) and the Classification, Labelling and Packaging (CLP) Regulation, requiring manufacturers to:
  • Disclose potential chemical hazards.
  • Use standardised warning labels (e.g., P102: Keep out of reach of children; H317: May cause an allergic skin reaction).

Stuff you buy from Temu doesn't have to comply with anything, doesn't have to be tested, and doesn't have to accurately list ingredients or disclose hazards.
When Temu products have been tested, dangerous chemicals, incorrect labelling and unsafe design has been found in cleaning products, cosmetics, toys, clothes, plates, bottles, electronics - lots that would be illegal to be sold in the UK.

Kalimeras · 05/01/2026 12:29

It’s absolutely wild that people can’t connect the dots and realise if they’ve something on Etsy and temu it’s very likely that temu has actually stolen the design off the real designer.

all that stuff you’re returning is getting dumped straight into landfill

UncannyFanny · 05/01/2026 12:14

Rescuedog12 · 05/01/2026 10:31

Surely thay don't meet safety regulations.i would contact trading standards.

What do trading standards do about things made the other side of the world that don’t have British regulations?

UncannyFanny · 05/01/2026 12:12

VikaOlson · 05/01/2026 10:25

What do they contain?? Crazy that you'd want to inhale that having no idea if it's safe.

Exactly the same things as the ones you buy here. We have no idea if they are safe either. Crazy eh?

BrendaSmall · 05/01/2026 12:04

ExtraOnions · 03/01/2026 17:29

Temu slave labour sweat shops … robbing a Chinese child of thier childhood, so yours can cheap shite.

Not to mention harvesting your Card details …

🤣🤣🤦🏻‍♀️
Don’t save your details on the site!!

Rescuedog12 · 05/01/2026 10:31

PinkPonyClubb · 03/01/2026 07:36

Does anyone else get annoyed by Temu gifts that break?

My young child is continually gifted Temu gifts from family members for birthdays and Christmas.

They are cheaply made and don’t last - two examples an aeroplane that wing broke when my child caught it’s side on a wooden floor while playing with it. A car that’s wheel snapped of when it travelled down a ramp.

And the latest - a light gun that batteries containers has smashed after being knocked of the table.

I know there has been a few knocks but these are children toys. So fed up of my 3 year old becoming upset because there toys are broken.

Please stop buying my child cheap tat.

Anyone else?

Surely thay don't meet safety regulations.i would contact trading standards.