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Stop telling me to watch The bloody Traitors!

86 replies

dreamiesformolly · 02/01/2026 20:41

Obviously not a particularly serious thread, just feeling a bit grouchy about this as it's happened a number of times just this week. I'm really not interested in watching it and people keep assuming I am, trying to discuss it with me and then acting like it's the most astonishing thing in the world that I'm not and going on to try to persuade me that I simply must watch it. What the flip is it about this programme that everyone's getting so excited about?

(Usual disclaimers apply: everyone has different viewing tastes, live and let live, yadda yadda. I'm just so bored of being told I MUST watch it! 🙄)

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TeenLifeMum · 02/01/2026 23:57

We tried it but it was so tedious and drawn out. I’ve decided I must be weird because everyone loves it and seems hooked. Then they are shocked when someone stabs someone in the back (following lots of dramatic pauses so long I could go and make a cup of tea only to return to nothing having happened). Why are people shocked? It’s literally the point of the game. I feel like an alien.

bumblenbean · 02/01/2026 23:53

I’m baffled by it too. Tried to watch an episode of the last series and it didn’t grab me at all. It’s weird that certain shows seem to gain a cult following despite being no more interesting than the next reality show (imo!)

I also never got on board with Bake Off, Masterchef, or I’m a celeb.

I’m certainly no TV snob mind, I’m hopelessly addicted to MAFS and sometimes Love Island...

TheFireHorse · 02/01/2026 23:34

Oh I hear you OP!!

EVERYBODY at work was talking about the celebrity one. At every team meeting on every morning.

"Oh TheFireHorse, you MUST watch it!!"

As their manager I felt I should show some willing and watch one episode. Fuck me! Ended up watching the whole thing in a week! Loved it! Hahahaha

Gribouille · 02/01/2026 23:13

'One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other'. I'm happy to leave it at that. 🙂

Mary46 · 02/01/2026 23:06

I loved it but its not everyone's taste!!

Sweetiedarling7 · 02/01/2026 23:06

I agree. I tried the celebrity version after much prompting by friends and found it boring and stupid.
That said I don’t like any game show type things at all hence why I had never watched the ordinary series.

Ukefluke · 02/01/2026 23:05

I dont get it either, and I do watch every series.
Its ok but not unique TV that they go on about .
Its a glorified guessing game and its mildly entertaining seeing all their theories based on NOTHING because there hs nothing to base them on. Its just herd think.
Mildly interesting TV of a winters evening with good scenery. But nothing great.

usedtobeaylis · 02/01/2026 23:05

dreamiesformolly · 02/01/2026 22:38

But... that's not what I'm doing? (The competitive disinterest, I mean.) I didn't start the thread to tell people I don't watch it, the thread is about how annoying it is when people tell you you 'must' watch something. Why would you assume from that that I was trying to seem cool? It's quite a leap...

I'm with you OP. I've been told I need to watch it and that I would love it and when I looked it up I was a bit baffled. I rarely watch TV and I don't watch this kind of TV because I... don't like it. I don't enjoy it. I'm not opposed to it existing or to other people enjoying it, just stop trying to beat me over the head with it. I didn't harass them when they didn't watch Game of Thrones!

MovedlikeHarlowinMonteCarlo · 02/01/2026 23:01

Anna1mac · 02/01/2026 22:39

Joke. Don't take my tongue in cheek seriously. I have many great, intelligent friends who, for some strange reason watch this shit , but they are still great people. I just don't watch much TV. I enjoy reading more.

A lot of people manage to read AND watch some TV.

Kingscallops · 02/01/2026 22:58

I was talked into watching a repeat of the first series. Long drawn out crap.

AmyDuPlantier · 02/01/2026 22:58

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 02/01/2026 22:32

These threads appear every time a new series starts, filled with people who are falling over themselves to tell us all just how cool and uninterested they are in the Traitors and competing to be the least interested "I don't watch TV", "well I don't have a TV", "well I don't even have eyes" etc.

Traitors is great. No one actually cares if you aren't watching it, it's just fun to discuss it with other people that are.

Really laughing at ‘I don’t even have eyes’ 🤣🤣

My neighbour manages to shoehorn into every chat the fact that she doesn’t own a tv - but she watches all the usual shit we all watch on her laptop 🤣

Calliopespa · 02/01/2026 22:57

devildeepbluesea · 02/01/2026 20:49

I watched a bit of the last one, where Alan Carr won.

It was deeply underwhelming. Hold firm OP.

Oh come on: Alan is great viewing!

Gribouille · 02/01/2026 22:55

If you want to see the worst of the human condition, just watch the News... 😟

LLJETO · 02/01/2026 22:45

I’ve watched all the series up to now and for some reason, when DH told me it started yesterday and we should watch, I felt very ‘meh’. We’ve watched both episodes and I have to admit, it bores me.

cariadlet · 02/01/2026 22:45

I'm generally not interested in Reality tv so didn't bother with the first few series of The Traitors.
Then I saw a bit of an episode of the Celebrity series when I was channel hopping and was hooked straightaway.

I've watched the first 2 episodes of the new series and am finding it very enjoyable. I wouldn't say it's something that anyone "should" watch but would encourage anyone who hasn't watched it to watch one episode. It's not for everyone but I don't think that people can give an informed opinion on something that they haven't seen.

Itiswhysofew · 02/01/2026 22:42

I get ya. I don't watch any TV.

GrannyTeapot · 02/01/2026 22:40

I thought maybe the children would like it, tried an episode and turned it off. Very dull. It reminds me of the hype around Fifty Shades, I couldn’t understand that either.

Anna1mac · 02/01/2026 22:39

ilovesooty · 02/01/2026 22:35

"the council telly"?

Rude.

Joke. Don't take my tongue in cheek seriously. I have many great, intelligent friends who, for some strange reason watch this shit , but they are still great people. I just don't watch much TV. I enjoy reading more.

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 02/01/2026 22:39

ilovesooty · 02/01/2026 22:35

"the council telly"?

Rude.

Don't feed the troll

dreamiesformolly · 02/01/2026 22:38

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 02/01/2026 22:32

These threads appear every time a new series starts, filled with people who are falling over themselves to tell us all just how cool and uninterested they are in the Traitors and competing to be the least interested "I don't watch TV", "well I don't have a TV", "well I don't even have eyes" etc.

Traitors is great. No one actually cares if you aren't watching it, it's just fun to discuss it with other people that are.

But... that's not what I'm doing? (The competitive disinterest, I mean.) I didn't start the thread to tell people I don't watch it, the thread is about how annoying it is when people tell you you 'must' watch something. Why would you assume from that that I was trying to seem cool? It's quite a leap...

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Whoneedsanamesuggestion · 02/01/2026 22:36

Yanbu. I don't want to watch it either. I just can't get that excited about a reality tv game show type of thing. I do watch bake off tbf, but that's nice and calming to me. I do not want to watch something which I think is kind of trivial yet is also a little bit stressful with all the backbiting and back stabbing. I hate love island too and I did actually watch some of that as people kept telling me to. I didn't like it at all, so I am trying not to fall for Traitors! I'll read my book or blabber on mumsnet or WhatsApp instead thank you!

dreamiesformolly · 02/01/2026 22:36

Namechangerage · 02/01/2026 22:27

I don’t get why you wouldn’t just try watching it before you judge it? If you like it, happy days, if you don’t then fine, don’t watch it. Is it just to be “different”? I recommended it once to my ILs - they are retired and watch about 10 hours of TV a day, I know they would like Traitors but they also refuse to watch it for some reason. Weird…

Fair question but nope, not just to be different. I don't get much time to watch TV and that's already filled by programmes I know I enjoy. I'd maybe have given it a shot if I had a bit more downtime.

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ilovesooty · 02/01/2026 22:35

Anna1mac · 02/01/2026 22:34

I agree with you. I have no intention ever to watch the traitors or the love island or whatever else pish is on the council telly... I'd rather stab myself in the eye with a fork, the truth be told ... I quite like looking down on people who watch these programmes 😁😁😁. I'm sorry but I'm just more intelligent than the common folk 🤓🤷

"the council telly"?

Rude.

Anna1mac · 02/01/2026 22:34

I agree with you. I have no intention ever to watch the traitors or the love island or whatever else pish is on the council telly... I'd rather stab myself in the eye with a fork, the truth be told ... I quite like looking down on people who watch these programmes 😁😁😁. I'm sorry but I'm just more intelligent than the common folk 🤓🤷

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 02/01/2026 22:32

These threads appear every time a new series starts, filled with people who are falling over themselves to tell us all just how cool and uninterested they are in the Traitors and competing to be the least interested "I don't watch TV", "well I don't have a TV", "well I don't even have eyes" etc.

Traitors is great. No one actually cares if you aren't watching it, it's just fun to discuss it with other people that are.