I am probably just tired but feeling so blooming fed up today, my pollock of a husband (I say lighthearted because he has the heart of gold and will always help his family)decided to guarantor his nephew. January last year nephew stopped paying his rent, between us we covered about 12k and eventually he’s ended up moving in with us. I know it’s saved us money BUT I’m blooming exhausted it’s been 5 months and he won’t work, doesn’t help out sends money to his girlfriend but not towards food shopping. I
work long and odd hours and he never leaves the house so even a shower is harder work because he’s always here and I guess I feel uncomfortable with it. I worked till 4am New Year’s Day and got back up for other job at 7 and couldn’t sleep because he was on the phone and playing his stupid rumbling games on his pc, I am normally such an upbeat person and it is so getting me down. I feel I can’t talk to my husband about it as I know he’s already stressed by it and has loyalty to his family.
I guess I’m almost at the stage that I am considering moving out till he’s gone but I don’t want to lose my marriage because of someone that I’d quite happily never see again… any advice?