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To want stew and dumplings

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Trippingthelighteddaylight · 02/01/2026 02:54

I’m on my own since DH passed away. Cooking feels like a massive chore. I’m lying here craving stew and dumplings. I think I’ll start a stew and dumplings takeaway. Do you think it would work?

OP posts:
Katemax82 · 02/01/2026 10:39

I love stew and dumplings!!! I'll put it on my meal plan for next week

itsthetea · 02/01/2026 10:37

Blimy no flour! in a typical month we would have

cakes, biscuits , scones, bread , pizza
sauces and gravy
pancakes and pies and Yorkies

LorenzoCalzone · 02/01/2026 10:33

I made a veg stew and dumplings last night, for the first time I ages, and it was delicious.

My dumplings were made from flour, baking powder, salt and water - with a sprinkle of sage added. Google told me the recipe.

Sorry for your loss OP x

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/01/2026 10:32

It's not a big deal but I would say it's unusual not to have flour always in the cupboard if there's much cooking done in the household. If our house burned to the ground and I had to re-stock the kitchen from scratch flour would be one of the first things on my shopping list.

x2boys · 02/01/2026 10:25

RampantIvy · 02/01/2026 09:59

Why?
Baking
Thickening sauces and gravy
Coating meat for frying for casseroles
Macaroni cheese
etc etc

I cook from scratch most of the time so, for me, flour is a basic store cuboard ingredient, just as stock cubes, spices and herbs, tins of tomatoes and pulses, pasta, rice etc are.

Do you not cook very much?

Yes i just don't have any use for flour ,im not sure why this is such a big deal?

TeaRoseTallulah · 02/01/2026 10:24

I second ordering COOK meals on line if you can't face cooking,they are very tasty and comforting which I suspect you need a lot of at the moment.

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 10:20

RampantIvy · 02/01/2026 09:59

Why?
Baking
Thickening sauces and gravy
Coating meat for frying for casseroles
Macaroni cheese
etc etc

I cook from scratch most of the time so, for me, flour is a basic store cuboard ingredient, just as stock cubes, spices and herbs, tins of tomatoes and pulses, pasta, rice etc are.

Do you not cook very much?

Flour rarely makes it on to my shopping list!

I cook a lot and always have a good supply of basic store-cupboard ingredients, however I rarely bake so have little need for flour, apart from the occasional bechamel sauce or dusting meat, etc.

So it's not unusual for me not to have flour at hand - currently I have a half used bag as recently made puddings for guests but when that will be used up, who knows!

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 02/01/2026 10:18

I have been known to add dumplings to one of my substantial main meal vegetable soups.

CinnamonBuns67 · 02/01/2026 10:08

I love Stew and dumplings and yes I'd get some for a takeaway if there was a place where I live that did a decent one.

TeaRoseTallulah · 02/01/2026 10:07

I'm so sorry about your husband OP ,that must be incredibly hard.

Stew and dumplings is what I do in the slow cooker for when im back late and that way everyone can just help themselves.

Easy peasy-

Diced beef - no need to brown first ,I've tried and compared and makes no difference.

A knorr beef stock gel pot

Squirt of garlic paste

Big squirt of tomatoes puree

Put the gel stock,puree and garlic in a mug and dissolve in boiling water and add to the slow cooker and also more boiling water ,just enough to cover the meat.

Turn it on high and leave it all day, the meat will melt like butter and you'll get a delicious gravy.

Add Aunt Bessie's frozen dumplings on top and hour or so before you eat.

Sounds like it'll be awful but it's lovely and so easy. We have it with veg or just peas on the side.

RampantIvy · 02/01/2026 10:04

Gentlydoesit2 · 02/01/2026 10:01

Why is it odd?!

Because to me it is like someone saying they have never eaten pasta or rice. Dumplings aren't exactly exotic.

I wonder if it is a generational thing? Are those who have never eaten dumplings under 40??

WinoTime · 02/01/2026 10:03

kiwiane · 02/01/2026 09:04

It is possible to use veg suet to make dumplings; I’m going to look into it now!

It is ! I made a veg stew with dumplings just yesterday.

i sometimes use beans as my protein source, other times soy chunks. Yesterday used some vegan Richmond sausages chopped up.

sueelleker · 02/01/2026 10:02

QforCucumber · 02/01/2026 09:15

@PhantomAfternoonTea it's my 9 year olds favourite dinner, he asks for it as soon as it starts getting colder and for tea on the first day back to school in September.

I add herbs and also a handful of grated sharp cheddar, just like my granny did.

I sometimes make chili with a cheese cobbler topping.

Gentlydoesit2 · 02/01/2026 10:01

RampantIvy · 02/01/2026 07:57

What an odd comment.
I grew up in London and ate dumplings as a child. My mum grew up in Germany and dumplings were part of her childhood as well.

Why is it odd?!

sueelleker · 02/01/2026 09:59

DeftGoldHedgehog · 02/01/2026 08:14

My other half isn't keen on suet but I do make a nice cobbler. It's just half fat to flour rubbing in method savoury scones on top of a stew.

Edited

Cobbler is the same proportions as dumplings-they're just baked instead of simmered. When I make cobbler ir's with suet.

RampantIvy · 02/01/2026 09:59

x2boys · 02/01/2026 09:24

Why?

Why?
Baking
Thickening sauces and gravy
Coating meat for frying for casseroles
Macaroni cheese
etc etc

I cook from scratch most of the time so, for me, flour is a basic store cuboard ingredient, just as stock cubes, spices and herbs, tins of tomatoes and pulses, pasta, rice etc are.

Do you not cook very much?

oviraptor21 · 02/01/2026 09:53

Yes - I could definitely get behind that as a takeaway option.
Seems like it could be fairly easy to manage from a cooking/keeping/not wasting any point of view.

Egglio · 02/01/2026 09:51

I am the only one who eats stew and dumplings in my house (I am old fashioned, vintage, antique, ancient etc.). I make a batch of stew and dumplings and freeze it in portions for me.

x2boys · 02/01/2026 09:46

NorWouldTilly · 02/01/2026 09:41

Do you never bake, @x2boys? Or make a bechamel sauce (or similar)?

I guess we’re all different! I like being in the kitchen, and find baking wonderfully meditative. And making proper macaroni cheese. I think I’d die if I couldn’t throw some speedy scones in the oven to assuage a bad mood occasionally!

No.

NorWouldTilly · 02/01/2026 09:41

Do you never bake, @x2boys? Or make a bechamel sauce (or similar)?

I guess we’re all different! I like being in the kitchen, and find baking wonderfully meditative. And making proper macaroni cheese. I think I’d die if I couldn’t throw some speedy scones in the oven to assuage a bad mood occasionally!

TheCurious0range · 02/01/2026 09:34

I've got a Tesco delivery today and I'm now kicking myself that I didn't get stew ingredients!

TheCurious0range · 02/01/2026 09:33

I love stew and dumplings, when I lived alone I just made a pot and ate it all week in the winter

KaleidoscopeSmile · 02/01/2026 09:31

PhantomAfternoonTea · 02/01/2026 07:58

How old are you? I've never had stew and dumplings in my life, I think of it as a very old fashioned meal!

That was a charming contribution to the thread. Are you an old fart OP?

eleanorwish · 02/01/2026 09:28

Love stew and dumplings! Also love stew topped with suet pastry and baked in the oven. We always had pickled red cabbage with stew when I was a child.

KaleidoscopeSmile · 02/01/2026 09:28

Tillow4ever · 02/01/2026 06:27

Bloody love stew and dumplings! We tend to have it weekly in the autumn and winter months, a little less frequently in spring and just every so often in the summer. I love putting on the slow cooker before I start work and the smell drives you crazy as the day goes on lol. Our family favourite at the minute is a chicken stew/casserole - I seem to have found the right balance of everything that makes it really rich in flavour and is one of the few dishes where everyone has the exact same meal and very little waste. Love the idea of the stew takeaway!

I’m really sorry for your loss - I hope you get your stew.

Oh c'mon, give us your recipe, please!

I can't do a chicken stew to save my life for some reason