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To want stew and dumplings

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Trippingthelighteddaylight · 02/01/2026 02:54

I’m on my own since DH passed away. Cooking feels like a massive chore. I’m lying here craving stew and dumplings. I think I’ll start a stew and dumplings takeaway. Do you think it would work?

OP posts:
vanillalattes · 02/01/2026 14:30

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 13:48

That does indeed look delicious - but it's a million miles from British stew & dumplings!

It's not sniffy not to have had stew & dumplings - I've just never had it and it doesn't appeal to me to have big white blobs of floury fat balls floating atop a stew!

What kind of dumplings have you been seeing? 😂

RampantIvy · 02/01/2026 14:26

and it doesn't appeal to me to have big white blobs of floury fat balls floating atop a stew!

Big white blobs of floury fat balls floating on a stew wouldn't appeal to me either.

I make dumplings the way my late MIL made them. They are light with a crispy top as I bake them in the oven.

My dumplings look more like the ones here.

https://www.taste.com.au/recipes/beef-casserole-parmesan-dumpling/74dd2974-e11a-4709-9935-c5d6127a7ba7

LibertyLily · 02/01/2026 14:20

Sorry for your loss @Trippingthelighteddaylight 💐

We love stew (we're not from up north, born and grew up on the south coast) although DH hates dumplings.

I don't like suet dumplings so make mine with just self-raising flour and water, steam, then pour the stew over them to serve.

My maternal grandparents were from Norfolk and I just about remember that one of their traditions in the mid/late1970s was to serve a non-suet dumpling with beef gravy ahead of Christmas dinner.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/01/2026 14:10

I think she means that only in the backward north of the country would such a weird notion as stew and dumplings appeal to people looking for takeaway food. Hmm

I live in London where there are still quite a number of shops selling pie and mash and/or jellied eels. Not a million miles away from stew and dumplings, and yet not up north! Mindblowing.

(I come from the far north of the British Isles myself, before anyone gets the wrong end of the stick.)

upstairsdownstairscardboardbox · 02/01/2026 14:07

Gentlydoesit2 · 02/01/2026 04:22

I've never had dumplings! Where do you live? Probably work up north I guess

😂😂"probably work up North I guess" - WTF does this mean @Gentlydoesit2

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/01/2026 14:05

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 13:48

That does indeed look delicious - but it's a million miles from British stew & dumplings!

It's not sniffy not to have had stew & dumplings - I've just never had it and it doesn't appeal to me to have big white blobs of floury fat balls floating atop a stew!

It really isn't a million miles from British stew and dumplings. Do you perhaps not cook very much?

British stew, as made in my family, anyway = meat, probably most often beef or lamb, but could be chicken; onions and other vegetables; a little flour; bayleaf and sometimes other herbs; stock; salt and pepper; some fat to brown the meat and soften the vegetables. Beef in ale is very similar but with all or part of the stock replaced by ale. In that case mustard is an excellent addition. A dash of Lea & Perrin's is good.

The stew I've linked to is really not that different except that there's a lot of tomato in it, some garlic and chilli flakes.

Dumplings: flour, fat, water, seasoning, herbs, possibly cheese. This is what is in the recipe you've just said looks delicious, and this is what's in British dumplings to be cooked in stew. In both cases the dumplings are not 'big white blobs of floury fat balls' floating atop a watery stew. They absorb liquid from the stew and make the stew thicker. Just like other things made from fat and flour, e.g. pastry, they cook and you don't taste the flour in the finished product.

Thortour · 02/01/2026 13:52

I often make a savoury cobbler and put cheese in the scone mix. Yum.

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 13:48

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/01/2026 13:25

Perhaps those who are too modern to even consider eating traditional British stew and dumplings would be less sniffy about this, which is delicious.

https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/chicken-arrabbiata-stew-parmesan-dumplings

That does indeed look delicious - but it's a million miles from British stew & dumplings!

It's not sniffy not to have had stew & dumplings - I've just never had it and it doesn't appeal to me to have big white blobs of floury fat balls floating atop a stew!

OttersMayHaveShifted · 02/01/2026 13:47

God - I really want stew and dumplings now! I'd definitely buy some from your takeaway, OP. But unfortunately only if you had gluten-free dumplings! I've not been gluten-free for that long and haven't really built up a tried-and tested list of gf recipes yet. Dumplings definitely need to be on it though!

LatteLady · 02/01/2026 13:40

Since my oven decided to die a couple of days before Christmas, my slow cooker has become my best friend... Can I suggest you jazz up your dumplings, too? I usually split the mix in two when dry and will make, mixed herb, carraway seed, mustard, cheese etc dumplings... caraway seeds are brilliant with pork.

New cooker is due to arrive next week.

randomchap · 02/01/2026 13:28

@sashh

Thanks for the recipe, but I'll ask my mum. She's been feeling a bit useless since retiring and likes to make herself useful. She loves cooking with her grandkids and she'll enjoy teaching us all.

Topsy44 · 02/01/2026 13:07

I am sorry you lost your DH.
I lost my DH 11 years ago and I know how painful it is.
Definitely have the stew and dumplings. Anything that can give you a little bit of comfort at this difficult time will help and grieving is exhausting so you need to keep your strength up.Sending a big hug. x

SameShitDifferentDate · 02/01/2026 13:03

Will you be offering overcooked cabbage as a side dish?

Tillow4ever · 02/01/2026 12:46

TFImBackIn · 02/01/2026 12:45

I'd love that recipe.

OP, I'm so sorry you lost your husband. That must have been heart breaking. Flowers

I shared it a few mins ago if you scroll back slightly!

TFImBackIn · 02/01/2026 12:45

Tillow4ever · 02/01/2026 06:27

Bloody love stew and dumplings! We tend to have it weekly in the autumn and winter months, a little less frequently in spring and just every so often in the summer. I love putting on the slow cooker before I start work and the smell drives you crazy as the day goes on lol. Our family favourite at the minute is a chicken stew/casserole - I seem to have found the right balance of everything that makes it really rich in flavour and is one of the few dishes where everyone has the exact same meal and very little waste. Love the idea of the stew takeaway!

I’m really sorry for your loss - I hope you get your stew.

I'd love that recipe.

OP, I'm so sorry you lost your husband. That must have been heart breaking. Flowers

Soluckyinlove · 02/01/2026 12:36

I've just remembered that I have three double portions of beef stew boxed up in the freezer. I'm now going to see if I have any suet. I usually buy vegetarian suet these days to accommodate extended family. If the cupboard is bare it will go on Tuesday's supermarket delivery.

BoredZelda · 02/01/2026 12:31

Yes. I would get stew and dumplings from a takeaway.

You could expand the menu to do mince and tatties, bangers and mash, Stovies etc.

KaleidoscopeSmile · 02/01/2026 12:31

Tillow4ever · 02/01/2026 12:28

It’s a bit boring and I don’t weigh anything but sure! All on a large slow cooker.

ingredients:

1 of the huge packs of whole chicken breasts from Tesco (I’ve found whole chicken breasts turn out so much nicer than diced chicken). It’s about £10 a pack - 1.6kg or something like that, I try to do 1 large chicken breast per person and a couple spare for the next day/the freezer.
1 rasher of smoked back bacon per portion
Maris piper potatoes (loads)
Fresh carrots (6 large or a loaf of small)
Tomato Puree
White pepper
Bisto beef gravy granules (ordinary not the best version)
1 x oxo Beef stock cube
Lots of Worcester Sauce
Onion Granules (if you like onions, put onions in instead - I switched to these as me and the kids hate the texture of onions but love the flavour, so were always picking bits of onion out)
Boiling water

For the dumplings;

130g Atora Suet
260g Self Raising Flour
Pinch of Salt
Water to mix

Method:

Peel and chop your potatoes into quite small chunks - the smaller you go, the better flavour they take on (but not so small they disintegrate). Fill the bottom of the slow cooker with enough for a portion for each chicken breast/person you are cooking for.

Peel the carrots and chop into small chunks rather than slicing, put these in on top of the potatoes.

If putting onion in, chop it however you prefer it and add it in.

Add the ground pepper, a shit ton of Worcester sauce, lots of tomato puree, a load of onion granules (unless you did an an actual onion) and the crumbled oxo cube. Next sprinkle a layer of gravy granules across everything.

Add in enough boiling water to start to dissolve the granules and cover your vegetables but don’t fill it.

Put your rashers of bacon individually into the slow cooker.

Place your chicken breasts into the pot on top of the veg and bacon but try not to stack them on each other, squeeze them in next to each other like they’re a lid for the veg.

If you have any space, add boiling water to fill it. Using a wooden spoon, push each chicken breast as far under the water as possible.

Turn it onto high and leave it. I only check it by opening it maybe once to stir it and add more water.

After it’s been on for around 12 hours (the longer it gets left, the better it tastes), I make the dumplings (weigh out your suet them twice as much self raising flour, add a good sprinkle of salt then add a small amount of water - give it a stir and keep adding water a small amount at a time until it is well mixed but not running and also not too dry. I use the mixing spoon to dish out small lumps (you can use your hands to make balls but I don’t bother) of mix and use a teaspoon to push it off into the casserole. I do 2 very small per person or a larger one each, plus spares for the freezer portions.

Leave the dumplings around 45 mins to cook as they do take longer in the slow cooker.

I always serve with warm crusty bread - home made if I had the time and inclination to make it early enough, but usually go for the par-baked baguettes you can buy in the supermarket. These take around 10-12 mins to bake, so I do them whilst the dumplings are cooking. Butter them up whilst warm.

Serve everything up in “pasta bowls” with the bread on the side.

If you are less fussy than me you can of course add more veg in. Swede and parsnip are good ones to add, some people like peas. My mum used to add a ton of marrow fat peas and Heinz baked beans to her casseroles as my dad loved them. The juices/sauce do help with the flavour!

Many, many, many thanks!

sashh · 02/01/2026 12:30

kiwiane · 02/01/2026 09:04

It is possible to use veg suet to make dumplings; I’m going to look into it now!

Yes, and they taste the same.

@randomchap you don't need to 'learn' buy the suet and the recipe is on the packet.

My stew and dumplings. Well the basic one, I often add other things, different veg, red wine, mushrooms maybe swede.

Put slow cooker on

Get a pack of diced beef.
Onion(s)
Carrots
Flour
Oxo
Boiling water
Salt and pepper
What ever herbs I fancy

Dumplings

Suet and self raising flour

Open the meat and dredge with seasoned flour, you want a coating on all sides of the meat.

Finely chop an onion or use frozen chopped onion.

Slice the carrots but leave them quite chunky. The same for other root veg if you are using them.

Crumble the oxo into the dish.

Pour over boiling water. Or water with wine or stock if you have it (obviously no stock cube with beef stock)

Add any seasonings, dried or fresh herbs.

Put the lid on the slow cooker.

About 15 - 20 mins before you eat make the dumplings.

I make this in my 1.5 litre slow cooker so I only make a few dumplings.

Mix 50g self raising flour and 25g suet. Mix it together. You can add dried herbs or mustard or any flavouring you fancy.

Add water in small amounts and stir with your fingers until it clumps together.

Divide into walnut sized dough and drop in the stew. Leave a lot of room around them because they will double in size.

I usually turn mine over after 10 mins.

Serve and eat.

Tillow4ever · 02/01/2026 12:28

KaleidoscopeSmile · 02/01/2026 09:28

Oh c'mon, give us your recipe, please!

I can't do a chicken stew to save my life for some reason

It’s a bit boring and I don’t weigh anything but sure! All on a large slow cooker.

ingredients:

1 of the huge packs of whole chicken breasts from Tesco (I’ve found whole chicken breasts turn out so much nicer than diced chicken). It’s about £10 a pack - 1.6kg or something like that, I try to do 1 large chicken breast per person and a couple spare for the next day/the freezer.
1 rasher of smoked back bacon per portion
Maris piper potatoes (loads)
Fresh carrots (6 large or a loaf of small)
Tomato Puree
White pepper
Bisto beef gravy granules (ordinary not the best version)
1 x oxo Beef stock cube
Lots of Worcester Sauce
Onion Granules (if you like onions, put onions in instead - I switched to these as me and the kids hate the texture of onions but love the flavour, so were always picking bits of onion out)
Boiling water

For the dumplings;

130g Atora Suet
260g Self Raising Flour
Pinch of Salt
Water to mix

Method:

Peel and chop your potatoes into quite small chunks - the smaller you go, the better flavour they take on (but not so small they disintegrate). Fill the bottom of the slow cooker with enough for a portion for each chicken breast/person you are cooking for.

Peel the carrots and chop into small chunks rather than slicing, put these in on top of the potatoes.

If putting onion in, chop it however you prefer it and add it in.

Add the ground pepper, a shit ton of Worcester sauce, lots of tomato puree, a load of onion granules (unless you did an an actual onion) and the crumbled oxo cube. Next sprinkle a layer of gravy granules across everything.

Add in enough boiling water to start to dissolve the granules and cover your vegetables but don’t fill it.

Put your rashers of bacon individually into the slow cooker.

Place your chicken breasts into the pot on top of the veg and bacon but try not to stack them on each other, squeeze them in next to each other like they’re a lid for the veg.

If you have any space, add boiling water to fill it. Using a wooden spoon, push each chicken breast as far under the water as possible.

Turn it onto high and leave it. I only check it by opening it maybe once to stir it and add more water.

After it’s been on for around 12 hours (the longer it gets left, the better it tastes), I make the dumplings (weigh out your suet them twice as much self raising flour, add a good sprinkle of salt then add a small amount of water - give it a stir and keep adding water a small amount at a time until it is well mixed but not running and also not too dry. I use the mixing spoon to dish out small lumps (you can use your hands to make balls but I don’t bother) of mix and use a teaspoon to push it off into the casserole. I do 2 very small per person or a larger one each, plus spares for the freezer portions.

Leave the dumplings around 45 mins to cook as they do take longer in the slow cooker.

I always serve with warm crusty bread - home made if I had the time and inclination to make it early enough, but usually go for the par-baked baguettes you can buy in the supermarket. These take around 10-12 mins to bake, so I do them whilst the dumplings are cooking. Butter them up whilst warm.

Serve everything up in “pasta bowls” with the bread on the side.

If you are less fussy than me you can of course add more veg in. Swede and parsnip are good ones to add, some people like peas. My mum used to add a ton of marrow fat peas and Heinz baked beans to her casseroles as my dad loved them. The juices/sauce do help with the flavour!

femfemlicious · 02/01/2026 12:18

I love meef/lamb stew with mash. I hate dumplings

TheProvincialLady · 02/01/2026 12:16

My 17 year old’s favourite meal is (vegetarian) stew and dumplings. We aren’t northern…don’t own a whippet or wear flat caps or anything. We once went to London, can you imagine?! It’s silly to mock something you haven’t even tried.

FestiveFruitloop · 02/01/2026 12:15

I'd order. Something so comforting about stew and dumplings. So sorry for your loss, OP. 💐

TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 02/01/2026 12:07

I really fancy stew and dumplings now! It's one of my 19 year olds favourite meals so he won't object.

And FWIW, we aren't in the north.