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To want stew and dumplings

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Trippingthelighteddaylight · 02/01/2026 02:54

I’m on my own since DH passed away. Cooking feels like a massive chore. I’m lying here craving stew and dumplings. I think I’ll start a stew and dumplings takeaway. Do you think it would work?

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Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 11/01/2026 10:33

Love stew and dumplings, but gluten free ones are a sad affair. DH always said he didn't like stew, this winter after 40 odd years he says he does. We have ours with Yorkshire puddings.
A small slow cooker sounds a great idea, be enough for 2 days.Flowers

singthing · 11/01/2026 09:55

This will change your life: CURRY and dumplings!

It was a revelation and scratched two itches at once for me.

BeMellowAquaSquid · 11/01/2026 09:47

Nitgel · 02/01/2026 07:03

I buy the m an s beef stew and dumplings meal for one. Its very nice

This is my guilty pleasure when DH and kids are out and I want to Netflix and chill on my own!

Tillow4ever · 11/01/2026 09:41

Chocolatebuttonanyone · 11/01/2026 09:03

Can you share your recipe? I make a beef one but my chicken stew is usually a bit bland. Thanks

I’ve already shared it on this thread if you read a bit further through it!

Chocolatebuttonanyone · 11/01/2026 09:03

Tillow4ever · 02/01/2026 06:27

Bloody love stew and dumplings! We tend to have it weekly in the autumn and winter months, a little less frequently in spring and just every so often in the summer. I love putting on the slow cooker before I start work and the smell drives you crazy as the day goes on lol. Our family favourite at the minute is a chicken stew/casserole - I seem to have found the right balance of everything that makes it really rich in flavour and is one of the few dishes where everyone has the exact same meal and very little waste. Love the idea of the stew takeaway!

I’m really sorry for your loss - I hope you get your stew.

Can you share your recipe? I make a beef one but my chicken stew is usually a bit bland. Thanks

RampantIvy · 11/01/2026 08:43

Isthistoomuchoestrogen · 11/01/2026 03:24

@Ponderingwindow have you an allergen friendly dumpling recipe? Been searching for a gluten free one for a while

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Suma make a gluten free suet. All you need is half the suet in weight to GF self raising flour, a pinch of salt and enough water to make it into a dough.

You can add herbs and grated cheese as well. We prefer our dumplings to have a crispy top so I bake them on top on the stew/mince at 200 deg fan for 20 minutes. You need to make sure the dish has plenty of gravy if you do them this way as the liquid evaporates as the dumplings cook.

Isthistoomuchoestrogen · 11/01/2026 03:24

@Ponderingwindow have you an allergen friendly dumpling recipe? Been searching for a gluten free one for a while

Ijwwm · 11/01/2026 03:06

Cook do a very tasty steak and stout stew with mini cheese scone dumplings - one of my favourite meals for a cold and wet winter evening.

Davros · 10/01/2026 23:08

M&S does beef stew with proper suet dumplings. I’ve also discovered they’ve (re)introduced suet jam roly poly, haven’t tried it yet but plan to very soon. With custard of course

TeaRoseTallulah · 10/01/2026 22:40

Trippingthelighteddaylight · 10/01/2026 19:44

I tried the Aunty Bessie dumpling mix, as it’s just me. They are nothing like the proper dumplings you make yourself. I’ve bought some suet now.

Should've got the frozen sort ,they're nicer.

Trippingthelighteddaylight · 10/01/2026 19:44

I tried the Aunty Bessie dumpling mix, as it’s just me. They are nothing like the proper dumplings you make yourself. I’ve bought some suet now.

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Comtesse · 10/01/2026 10:56

Finally got round to making my stew and dumplings last night - found a Mary Berry beef and ale recipe online, added more veg, and just made the Atora box recipe for dumplings. What a delight that was siiiigh.

But have concluded I definitely prefer dumplings when they have been cooked with the casserole lid on - tried without the lid last night and did not love the crusty tops, maybe I should have flipped over halfway through? We live and learn!

Anyway thanks OP for the idea - I hope you had had an equally cosy stew yourself Flowers

LatteLady · 03/01/2026 10:34

Catullus5 · 03/01/2026 02:19

Why not use butter instead of vegetarian suet?

Because then you would be making scones or a cobbler...

AnOldCynic · 03/01/2026 09:31

Cooking an be a chore when you ‘have to’ do it. I sometimes enjoy setting some time aside during the day at a weekend and spend a bit of time in the kitchen doing a bit of batch cooking for the freezer as PP have said.

Can you look to do this, radio on, nice drink, having a chat with DH whilst you do it? I often have conversations in my head with people who aren’t around or I haven’t seen in ages.

And you’ll end up with some nice food you can go to when you need that comfort.

Catullus5 · 03/01/2026 02:19

Why not use butter instead of vegetarian suet?

Trippingthelighteddaylight · 03/01/2026 00:52

Some lovely posts on here, thank you. ❤️

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DrinkingIssues · 02/01/2026 17:25

This was my sons one request when he was home for just 48 hours this week! Bliss!

NorWouldTilly · 02/01/2026 17:24

It is freezing outside - so stew and dumplings would be very welcome. I’ve been pescatarian for a couple of decades and don’t miss most meat. But right about now, the memory of an oxtail stew takes over my brain …

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:59

Thank you!

I would liked to have gone out as it's a gloriously sunny day in London but just not up to it.

Enjoy your soup - now that's a theme for a thread... is soup a meal? 😄

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/01/2026 14:52

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:50

Do you perhaps not cook very much?

I cook a lot - I'm the proverbial MN batch-cooker. Just don't do pesky dumplings or use much flour!

In fact I was going to do some batch cooking today with the yellow sticker beef and lamb from M&S but I'm laid low with The Lurgy so it will have to wait 😊

Best wishes for a speedy recovery! Good idea not to be outside today. It's brass monkeys out there. We were out for a walk earlier and thankfully now safely installed inside with the heating on. I only wish we were going to have stew tonight but I am going to make the next best thing - soup.

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:50

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/01/2026 14:05

It really isn't a million miles from British stew and dumplings. Do you perhaps not cook very much?

British stew, as made in my family, anyway = meat, probably most often beef or lamb, but could be chicken; onions and other vegetables; a little flour; bayleaf and sometimes other herbs; stock; salt and pepper; some fat to brown the meat and soften the vegetables. Beef in ale is very similar but with all or part of the stock replaced by ale. In that case mustard is an excellent addition. A dash of Lea & Perrin's is good.

The stew I've linked to is really not that different except that there's a lot of tomato in it, some garlic and chilli flakes.

Dumplings: flour, fat, water, seasoning, herbs, possibly cheese. This is what is in the recipe you've just said looks delicious, and this is what's in British dumplings to be cooked in stew. In both cases the dumplings are not 'big white blobs of floury fat balls' floating atop a watery stew. They absorb liquid from the stew and make the stew thicker. Just like other things made from fat and flour, e.g. pastry, they cook and you don't taste the flour in the finished product.

Do you perhaps not cook very much?

I cook a lot - I'm the proverbial MN batch-cooker. Just don't do pesky dumplings or use much flour!

In fact I was going to do some batch cooking today with the yellow sticker beef and lamb from M&S but I'm laid low with The Lurgy so it will have to wait 😊

vanillalattes · 02/01/2026 14:43

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:41

Something like this 😄

Well, that does look revolting. Even my school dinner stew and dumplings looked nicer than that 😂

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:42

Obviously too sensitive to show!

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:41

vanillalattes · 02/01/2026 14:30

What kind of dumplings have you been seeing? 😂

Something like this 😄

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