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To urge you to get your flu jab…

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sundriftwanderer · 01/01/2026 20:38

i got flu over Christmas and it’s genuinely been the most poorly I’ve ever been. It hit me out of nowhere on Monday night and I’ve been so unwell. Night sweats, fevers, diarrhoea, the most horrendous cough, sinus congestion, a three day headache. I tested positive on Wednesday (I only tested because my dad had it), but I knew before that I had it.

Im at the point now where I slept until 11am today, had a bath at 7pm and I could go back to bed now and probably do another fifteen hours. It’s been horrendous. I’m hoping I’ve turned a bit of a corner, but I can’t imagine how it would be if I hadn’t been vaccinated.

My dad tested positive on Monday and had to have an ambulance today, thankfully he’s not gone in to hospital but he’s been asleep for pretty much five days now. He’s also vaccinated and I dread to think what would’ve happened if he wasn’t. I think we could’ve lost him.

It’s been awful. Please get your vaccine, it could’ve been a lot lot worse.

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HaveANiceFuckingDay · 01/01/2026 23:27

I'd take back the covid vaccine if I could. Stupidly I listened to the government and was forced into it . I had a holiday booked August 2020 to Barcelona and that's when we had to have covid 'passports ' id have cancelled and rather have lost all the money in hindsight.
If never put another poison jab in my arm again , including the flu jab
You do you .

Mucholderlittlewiser · 01/01/2026 23:25

Berlinlover · 01/01/2026 20:53

Whatever about posting several paragraphs on Mumsnet, I’ve never heard of anyone with a genuine case of ‘flu taking a bath, just saying.

I managed, with help from DH, to take a bath when I had pneumonia.

Just saying.

Smoosha · 01/01/2026 23:23

Katemax82 · 01/01/2026 23:17

If you had the Jab why so poorly? It always makes me confused...I've not had a flu jab since probably 2013 and I've not had flu since I was a kid. People who seem to get really ill are often people who are vaccinated? Why?

I (knowingly) had flu in 2008 whenever I’d never had a flu vaccine in my life. I still didn’t get the vaccine for the next 10 years. Never had it again that I know of. I now get vaccinated. Still haven’t had it again. There isn’t a conspiracy where people who get vaccinated get it more.

sundriftwanderer · 01/01/2026 23:22

Katemax82 · 01/01/2026 23:17

If you had the Jab why so poorly? It always makes me confused...I've not had a flu jab since probably 2013 and I've not had flu since I was a kid. People who seem to get really ill are often people who are vaccinated? Why?

Because the flu is a very, very nasty illness. It would be much worse without the jab!

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Katemax82 · 01/01/2026 23:17

If you had the Jab why so poorly? It always makes me confused...I've not had a flu jab since probably 2013 and I've not had flu since I was a kid. People who seem to get really ill are often people who are vaccinated? Why?

INeedAnotherName · 01/01/2026 23:14

Nowhere near me sells it. None of the independent pharmacies or those attached to the supermarkets have had any stock since the beginning of November and I live in a large city. I'm fortunately covered as I was eligible for a free one but my DD can't get hers at all and she's been trying since November.

Vaguelyclassical · 01/01/2026 22:32

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Unless one's immune system has been blasted by chemo or by lupus or by all kinds of autoimmune diseases or is lowered because you've had an organ transplant and you are taking drugs to suppress the immune system that would reject it.. What an ignorant comment.

Comefromaway · 01/01/2026 22:24

The local pharmacy (but they don’t have any available anyway at the moment) are attached to my GP & all my prescriptions are sent there.

OriginalUsername2 · 01/01/2026 22:09

That sounds awful!

I’ve just tried to book us all in but there are none available anywhere. At least that means lots of people are getting it I suppose.

Youdontseehow · 01/01/2026 21:53

Comefromaway · 01/01/2026 21:31

I just use a blue ventolin inhaler.

Just tell a wee porkie! Honestly, they are extremely unlikely to check unless it’s your own GP who is very familiar with your meds.

Comefromaway · 01/01/2026 21:46

Ds loves and works in a major city. Availability is very different there.

I rarely use my inhaler. Just occasionally, maybe every few months.

HoppityBun · 01/01/2026 21:45

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Vaccines work precisely because we have an immune system. The H3N2 strain affects the elderly more than younger people and is continually evolving

AgnesMcDoo · 01/01/2026 21:45

lost my hearing as a result of flu several years ago and now have to wear hearing aids

had my jag every year since and encourage others to do the same.

it’s a horrible illness.

yes you can still catch it if vaccinated but the jag can help minimise the effects of
full blown flu and decrease your likelihood of hospitalisation or worse

Tonkerbea · 01/01/2026 21:42

This thread has highlighted that, despite a pandemic, some people can't grasp how vaccinations work. Or that flu, like any other virus, can induce severe symptoms in some, but mild symptoms in others.

Get well soon OP.

sundriftwanderer · 01/01/2026 21:42

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Erm what? Of course they do! As per the paramedics who attended my dad this afternoon, he’d have been hospitalised and potentially in ICU without the vaccine!

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Elizabethandfour · 01/01/2026 21:34

Your vaccine didn’t work and you are urging people to get it?

Vaccination doesn’t always stop you getting infected. It usually reduces the symptoms. It can mean being hospitalised but not needing the ICU. Or it can mean you’re unwell but don’t need hospitalisation. It also helps protect others by reducing the spread of infections:

“You have a group of 500 people who have been exposed to an outbreak of a rare disease. Of those 500 people, 490 have been vaccinated; 10 have not. Different vaccines provide different rates of protection, but in this case, let's assume that 98 of every 100 people who are vaccinated will successfully develop immunity against the disease.

When exposed to the outbreak, all 10 of the unvaccinated individuals get the disease.

What about the 490 who were vaccinated?
Based on the assumption of 98 of every 100 people developing successful immunity (leaving two of the 100 unprotected), about 10 of the 490 vaccinated individuals will get the disease—the same as the number of unvaccinated individuals.

Those numbers, however, don’t take into account the percentage of vaccinated and unvaccinated individuals who got sick. Of those who fell ill, 10 had been vaccinated and 10 had not. But the 10 who had been vaccinated are only (10 / 490) = 2% of the individuals who had been vaccinated in the population of 500. The 10 who hadn’t been vaccinated are (10 / 10) = 100% of those who weren’t vaccinated.”

https://historyofvaccines.org/vaccines-101/misconceptions-about-vaccines

Cadenza12 · 01/01/2026 21:40

I'm vaccinated but from what I understand it depends on what variety you actually get as to whether it's effective or not. It sounds miserable, hope you are better soon.

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jenny38 · 01/01/2026 21:38

I didn't get the vaccine, although I was offered it. Big mistake. I'm on day 17 of flu. Still coughing, today is the first day I felt a little interest in getting dressed, I'm exhausted. It has been brutal.

IdreamedAdreamINtimesGONEby · 01/01/2026 21:36

Comefromaway · 01/01/2026 21:31

I just use a blue ventolin inhaler.

You can just tell them you have a steroid brown one.

However, to be honest having asthma doesn't mean you're at greater risk of catching it, but it may mean that if you did you may have an asthma exacerbation.

As an aside, the guidelines in the UK have vastly shifted away from just using blue inhalers now, and patients should be offered an anti-inflammatory plus bronchodilator inhaler instead. This can be taken either as and when needed (same as the blue but with better & longer lasting effect) or as a regular twice daily inhaler.

If you're needing your blue more than a couple of times a month I would really recommend asking for a review.

sundriftwanderer · 01/01/2026 21:34

Elizabethandfour · 01/01/2026 21:34

Your vaccine didn’t work and you are urging people to get it?

It worked exactly as it’s supposed to. It’s made sure I’m not deathly unwell

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Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 01/01/2026 21:34

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 01/01/2026 21:10

The vaccine isn't available where I live. I have tried booking with Boots, Tesco pharmacy, and 2 local independents. They have no slots at all.

Try private GP.
Ours had them the week before Xmas.

Elizabethandfour · 01/01/2026 21:34

Your vaccine didn’t work and you are urging people to get it?

IdreamedAdreamINtimesGONEby · 01/01/2026 21:32

To anyone querying about the different strain.

Yes, the virus mutated after the vaccine was created. So there is a different strain which the vaccine will not fully protect you from. However, the vaccine will still ensure that you do not get as sick as if you didn't have it at all. The mutated strain is the one causing most issues, but the vaccine is still very very helpful.

sundriftwanderer · 01/01/2026 21:32

Itsthesameeveryday · 01/01/2026 21:31

I've never ever been so ill as I was when I contracted the flu. Could barely open my eyes for 3 days or even think about parenting my 1 year old. I get the vaccine religiously now.

This has definitely convinced me to keep getting it every year. This is the third year I’ve had the jab, and it’ll be something I do religiously now as soon as I’m able to.

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