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To believe that we can unpack from a move in under a week, and ask for your best tips to be able do so?

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OptimisticReindeer · 01/01/2026 09:41

We'll be staying in a local holiday let for the week of the move, and I really want to take advantage and get as much done as we can at the house.

Much preferable than to be living amongst the boxes, and we can dedicate a fair amount of time to it each day.

We have movers and opted for the packing service, so hoping that the boxes will be better organised than if we had done opted DIY. We've never had packers, or movers before so have no idea what to expect.

Is it manageable for a four-bed? How long did it take on your last move? Any tips also very welcome.

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JemimaTiggywinkles · 01/01/2026 12:21

I took about a day to unpack. But I’d spent nearly a week packing and decluttering so I already knew where most stuff was going. The teens will (presumably) do their own stuff which will help. A week is doable unless you have loads of clutter to sort through imo.

FallingIntoAutumn · 01/01/2026 12:13

Shittyyear2025 · 01/01/2026 12:07

Realistically, what on earth have you got still packed from before your last move?

Bin them. Biggest hurdle to any move is bringing shit with you that you don't want or need.

I've usually unpacked the same weekend. A week would be mental - I've not known anyone ever pay for a hotel to avoid living with a few boxes.

It is tricky when renting. Because your grannies dining table might not fit this house, but it might fit the next.
those fancy mugs you got as a wedding present, don’t have a home here. But they may the next.

so you’ve a layer of sentimentality as well as not wanting to have to rebuy stuff.

Dutchhouse14 · 01/01/2026 12:11

Very easily we did it in a long weekend with 4 kids, just get on with it.
We were lucky in that my mum had kids fir 1 day and the house had been deep cleaned before we moved in so didnt need to clean anything.
If you need to shampoo carpets , clean cupboards etc it would take longer.
But you really dont need to stay in a hotel whilst you do it

Shittyyear2025 · 01/01/2026 12:07

Realistically, what on earth have you got still packed from before your last move?

Bin them. Biggest hurdle to any move is bringing shit with you that you don't want or need.

I've usually unpacked the same weekend. A week would be mental - I've not known anyone ever pay for a hotel to avoid living with a few boxes.

Stoufer · 01/01/2026 12:05

I think OP mentioned that it was a long-term rental property that they were moving into? Hopefully it will be clean and well-maintained prior to move-in (by the landlord).

@OptimisticReindeer Do leave enough time in your schedule to thoroughly go round the house in the first day (before your stuff is moved in), and check that you agree with the inventory (ie the condition of everything that is in the house). I think you only get approx a week to challenge anything. Take photos of things that you feel need to be amended on the inventory, and note it all down in an email.

When moving, I have found it works best if you really plan where and how things are going to be stored at the new place, before you move in. So then you don’t need to spend ages deciding, or working out how to make each room work, when what you need to be doing is unpacking really fast.

So I will plan out where everything goes in the kitchen (take photos of the new kitchen to help you plan). And on moving in day, I will put post-it notes on all the drawers and cupboards in the new kitchen to identify what will go where, so that it is really quick to unpack, and if someone is helping you then they know where to put everything.

I also work out where furniture will live (and draw a plan of the room with proposed furniture locations in, so that things can be placed in exactly the correct place). I also work out beforehand if any new storage furniture is needed and try and get that beforehand.

The last few times we have moved, we got the removals company to pack, and also to dismantle and re-build things like beds and wardrobes - that really helps save time, especially if they can re-build them into the correct location. They bring clothes on hanging rails during the move, so they can go straight into the wardrobes that they have built.

I also organised our things before the move - so, a trip to ikea to get lots of drawer dividers and storage boxes (that will be used on an ongoing basis) - it becomes really easy to just unpack a box that contains clear storage boxes full of things in, that then just lives on a shelf in the utility room, for example. (So I have shelves in my utility room and they are full of small, clear plastic boxes - for example, one with sewing kit and ribbons and buttons etc, one with a whole load of different greetings cards, one with shoe cleaners / polish and insoles, one with pens/pencils and school equipment). It makes life so much easier when you move if everything has been planned and organised!

FallingIntoAutumn · 01/01/2026 12:04

Moving into bigger places is fairly easy. It’s the sideways or downsize that’s more tricky

HolidayPlanningAgain · 01/01/2026 12:04

OptimisticReindeer · 01/01/2026 09:58

So pleased to read these, though I now feel like the only person with boxes in the loft still unpacked from our last move years ago. 😮

Day 1 we get the keys and the removal company is in to pack. We've booked carpet cleaners for this day also. Day 2 is moving day.
House is ready to move into, no major work needed.

We've booked to stay locally in order to have somewhere for teens and pets to hang out for the duration.

If you haven’t unpacked it, do you need to keep it?
whenever I’ve moved I’ve used it as a good time to get rid of anything we didn’t need.
our last move we had bought all new bedroom furniture and we built that (including the beds) within the first 2 days (got the keys 2pm on day 1 and an additional ikea run on day 2 whilst we had the van) and by day 4 everything was sorted xx

FallingIntoAutumn · 01/01/2026 12:03

RessicaJabbit · 01/01/2026 11:51

Well ,if it's been in boxes over month.... Get rid of them!

We rent so it’s also been a case of cleaning the old rental, the new rental.
I did do a decent declutter (or so I thought), but it’s stuff like baking tins, house plant food, first aid kit, that sort of stuff.

HateThese4Leggedbeasts · 01/01/2026 11:58

I unpacked all boxes within the 3 child free days I had available. Also the moving company came to collect their boxes around day 5. However things like hanging up photos, pictures, mirror etc took longer.

I have difficulty finishing tasks so I knew if I didn't unpack straight away it would not happen.

(I needed to buy more hangers as I had more hanging wardrobe space which was annoying when I was midway through my clothes unpacking just in case that's relevant for you)

RessicaJabbit · 01/01/2026 11:51

FallingIntoAutumn · 01/01/2026 11:24

I know, those pesky elves haven’t done it for me. I just can’t work out where it should go, chuck in Christmas into the mix.

Well ,if it's been in boxes over month.... Get rid of them!

RessicaJabbit · 01/01/2026 11:49

OptimisticReindeer · 01/01/2026 09:58

So pleased to read these, though I now feel like the only person with boxes in the loft still unpacked from our last move years ago. 😮

Day 1 we get the keys and the removal company is in to pack. We've booked carpet cleaners for this day also. Day 2 is moving day.
House is ready to move into, no major work needed.

We've booked to stay locally in order to have somewhere for teens and pets to hang out for the duration.

Lol. Those loft boxes can go in the skip! Problem solved

TerrysCIockworkOrange · 01/01/2026 11:47

This depends entirely on how big your homes are, much stuff you own and how organised your current home is.
Your moves will pack literally everything and label by room - if your belongings are in the ‘wrong’ room when packed, you’ll be starting at a big, disorganised disadvantage.
declutter ruthlessly, and try to ensure everything is in the right place in your current home. A week is probably not unreasonable if you’re able to dedicate your time to it fully, and obviously notwithstanding any works that need completing

Glittertwins · 01/01/2026 11:38

We had everything out of our flat and into a 3 bed house inside a day.
Had the packing service from the removals company so everything was logically packed and put into the correct rooms. Four adults doing the unpacking. Cat went to the cattery for a couple of days.

Tinsles · 01/01/2026 11:38

I hope the new house doesn't need a fresh painting as its so worth doing before you move in and empty.

We numbered each room in the house and corresponded with the boxes.

I made a lists of roughly what was in each numbered box, before taping.

We were unpacked in 2 days.
Our movers placed the boxes in its correctly numbered room.
The house was freshly painted and spotless.
We also had a box of emergency stuff, kettle, coffee etc.chargers

user65342 · 01/01/2026 11:35

Moved into a 3 bed and was completely unpacked the same day except for 3 boxes which were still in the garage two years later. Also did the packing and move myself with a couple of people to help lift things. Only worked as everything was packed early and labelled with the room it was needed in. Furniture moved with contents where possible, clothes left on hangers, that sort of thing. So yes, easily done. Have moved house three times and never had significant unpacking left by the end of move in day.

CottageLoaf · 01/01/2026 11:32

As you have a bit of time and are staying in another place, I'd start by spending the first day or two doing a really deep clean. I'd then tackle it room by room. I think you can take your time as you've given yourself a window, and then get things how'd you'd like them, with a day or two at the end to relax and get comfortable.

jnh22 · 01/01/2026 11:29

PurpleThistle7 · 01/01/2026 11:26

I don’t consider that part of unpacking so yes, we are talking about different things. I meant that we got rid of all the boxes within a week and all the rooms were functional. It took a lot longer to replace all the light fittings and curtains and carpets and whatnot so it was constant change for a while. But that’s not really part of moving for me

Exactly this - unpacking is to have the rooms functional and everything out of the boxes.

You’re never going to get everything unpacked and in the “perfect” place immediately. It takes time to settle into a house - but you want to aim for the house to be useable.

Crofthead · 01/01/2026 11:29

FallingIntoAutumn · 01/01/2026 11:24

I know, those pesky elves haven’t done it for me. I just can’t work out where it should go, chuck in Christmas into the mix.

my advice would be to declutter! Be ruthless and get rid of a lot of things and make sure everything remaining has a place. When I tidy I initially just put like by like items together, then once you see how much space they take up you can delegate where to store.

Paaseitjes · 01/01/2026 11:27

Start with throwing out those unpacked boxes ;) it took me 3 days last time, but I was 37 weeks pregnant. There were a few boxes left over which contained curtains that i was too pregnant to hang and a box of knick-knack type things without a clear home which ended up being unpacked into the bin.

Clutterbug2026 · 01/01/2026 11:27

It would surely be much easier if you were living there. Pre kids we did it in a day including scrubbing the large kitchen. Surely you will need the teenagers there so they can sort their own stuff.

jnh22 · 01/01/2026 11:26

Gothamcity · 01/01/2026 10:54

Yes, and this! Have a box of "essentials". We took this in our car with us so it didn't get wound up with everything else, with the kettle, tea bags, mugs, cleaning supplies, snacks, a handheld hoover, chargers, and anything that might be needed straight away. We also had the best new neighbours who brought round sandwiches and drinks for us and the movers, which made me cry 🥹

Yes - I forgot to say to take the box of essentials with you! Otherwise, it would be the last box to be unpacked or put in a random room where you won’t find it.

PurpleThistle7 · 01/01/2026 11:26

Allthecoloursoftherainbow4 · 01/01/2026 11:21

I think some people on here must be talking about moving smaller houses, a family member moved a few months ago and even with decluttering beforehand and paying for a packing a moving service the actual removal company did not manage to unload everything the first day!! It was left in a lorry overnight.
So no boxes weren't all unpacked same day because they weren't in the house to unpack!
Also when you move house surely the windows are never all exactly the same size so you can rarely just reuse all the same curtains, you often need to put up new curtain track or poles eg if the previous owners had poles but all your curtains are the style that need a track?
I can only assume people talking about unpacking it all in an afternoon are talking about moving from a smaller property and are aren't counting all the finishing touches.

I don’t consider that part of unpacking so yes, we are talking about different things. I meant that we got rid of all the boxes within a week and all the rooms were functional. It took a lot longer to replace all the light fittings and curtains and carpets and whatnot so it was constant change for a while. But that’s not really part of moving for me

FallingIntoAutumn · 01/01/2026 11:24

Crofthead · 01/01/2026 11:19

You need to empty the boxes and rearrange the furniture? It’s not just going to fall into place!

I know, those pesky elves haven’t done it for me. I just can’t work out where it should go, chuck in Christmas into the mix.

Sneesellsseashells · 01/01/2026 11:24

BertieBotts · 01/01/2026 11:23

It's always taken me months to unpack but when we did our last move DH went through every box in a couple of days Confused I find this kind of speed baffling. That said we've been here 18 months and certain stuff he never uses is still arranged in a way I wouldn't have put it and I haven't got round to sorting it properly.

I think maybe like people are saying the key is to not have too much stuff to begin with. Definitely a weakness of mine Blush

You don’t give stuff its final spot until you’ve lived in it, you give it provisional spots and move things as you improve the functionality over time.

PurpleThistle7 · 01/01/2026 11:24

Your teens can pack and unpack, appreciate it will be chaotic for pets but it really shouldn’t take long. We got keys at 5pm and slept there that night with our then 4/7 year olds. Next day my husband did the kitchen and I did the kids rooms with them. We left any decorative stuff packed as we were getting the floors replaced so had packed carefully so that stuff was separate and could go straight into the garage.

anything still packed up in the loft should honestly go straight in the tip. If you haven’t needed it in years, you never will.