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Neighbours called cops on me.

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Happyjoe · 31/12/2025 17:31

For reference, I live in a terraced house, been here 14 years with no problems, though currently put an offer in another house far away, then need to sell this somehow.. My next door neighbours have been hell since they moved in about 14 months ago and are council tenants (which I think the council should be responsible for). They have a small 4 year old child that runs up and down some badly fitted laminate and screams her head off all day long, result is a loud banging on my wall/floor. Every footstep, from child or two adults is like someone is hammering next door. Can actually feel the vibrations through the wall.

The kid is up til the parents are up, as all sleep in same room. That can be anything from 10pm to 1.30am. I cannot sleep til they sleep and am up when they are up, as no option. I cannot read a book, I cannot watch TV. I've tried noise cancelling earphones, ear buds. Thump thump thump all day long.

They don't clean up their rubbish, recently had to get the council involved for them to clean their general waste that was full in their garden and blocking a shared alleyway at the bottom of the garden. Rotting, liquified food, been there over 6 months.. They smoke dope, it comes through the shared space under the floor. This is the point I contacted the council. Horrific. Started well with the council, next door said they would put a rug down for the footsteps. Of course, never happened. The council then just walked away from it all leaving me with my home completely destroyed by neighbours.

Anyway, the only thing that blocks them out is music. I put the radio on most days, just loud enough to cover the screams and shouts, but not loud enough to block out the bang noises. Occasionally, like today, I lose it as I've just had my fill for the day. I then put on the stereo, which is a very very powerful stereo and put some old punk music on loud, shake the ground loud. It's just an albums worth, about 40 mins worth but enough for me to feel better.

So about 30 mins ago they called the cops on me. 3 policemen came indoors. I explained, played them a video of the noise they create. All 3 were totally understanding, one of the policemen couldn't believe the noise I had to endure daily, another had just been through the same with his own neighbours. So they are going to write to the council, complain on my behalf, explain that I am at my wits end and that they do not appreciate the tenants wasting police time.

So kinda backfired, I don't suppose the neighbours expect that outcome? Best thing, I said to the police that I was going to put the music back up when they leave and they said totally understood.

Why is it that people are so bloody entitled these days that they cannot see the issue they cause others? Or do they just not give a toss?

YABU to keep playing more music, more than I normally would just to piss them off back?

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Whosthetabbynow · 31/12/2025 17:39

You sound as bad as them. Trying to get one over never works

Facecreamon · 31/12/2025 17:39

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Happyjoe · 31/12/2025 17:39

JohnofWessex · 31/12/2025 17:37

I would be trying hard to avoid winding them up as you need to sell the house

Cannot sell with them there at the mo. Anyone viewing will see, plus we have to declare issues, which I did last year with the council. The best we can do is sell it to someone who wants to rent it out and doesn't care.

Plus, asking them nicely at the start made no difference. They will do what they want to do regardless.

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Happyjoe · 31/12/2025 17:37

WonderfulSmith · 31/12/2025 17:35

Why did the police come out to you? What did the neighbour say? In England (it’s different in Scotland) noise nuisance is the council, the police don’t come out for it.

I asked them that as knew noise a council issue. They said they heard screams. A lie from my neighbours, which annoyed the police..

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JohnofWessex · 31/12/2025 17:37

I would be trying hard to avoid winding them up as you need to sell the house

WonderfulSmith · 31/12/2025 17:35

Why did the police come out to you? What did the neighbour say? In England (it’s different in Scotland) noise nuisance is the council, the police don’t come out for it.