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NYE - PITA

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sashaymashay · 31/12/2025 14:42

Not a serious thread but is anyone else not doing anything for NYE.

AIBU to think that NYE is a PITA and staying in is the new going out.

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Parsleyforme · 01/01/2026 12:33

Tinsles · 01/01/2026 00:03

Its called JOMO....joy of missing out.😁
I am collecting adult children as there are few taxi's, even in a city.
NYE is a bore IMO.

Oo I like JOMO, I’m going to start using it!

Tinsles · 01/01/2026 00:03

Parsleyforme · 31/12/2025 16:59

I am staying in tonight with no FOMO at all. £35 uber each way (plus surge pricing), everywhere overcrowded, full of teens and people getting aggy because they’ve drunk too much. I used to like it in my 20s but a hot chocolate and book is calling me. I am hoping for 2026 to be a calm and positive year so I will meditate at midnight (never ever thought I would be this person!!)

Its called JOMO....joy of missing out.😁
I am collecting adult children as there are few taxi's, even in a city.
NYE is a bore IMO.

HipHopDontYouStop · 31/12/2025 22:49

Had a lovely supper at my dd’s bf’s family. Home by 10pm. Perfect.

ohtowinthelottery · 31/12/2025 21:02

Went out with friends this afternoon instead. Had a few drinks then a meal at 4pm. Train home at 6.30pm. That's NY done for us. Don't intend staying up until midnight, but one of the neighbours is having 10 mins of fireworks at midnight and DS will crawl in , making loads of noise trying to be quiet, at some ungodly hour, so not expecting to get much sleep.

Waitfortheguinness · 31/12/2025 19:37

Just discussing with the DP whether we’re going to to go our local tonight, just a village locals pub…….
nice place, good enough crowd, but both of us have agreed we’d be happy to go and have a few drinks before coming back home before the nye arrives to have our own glass of fizz etc.
both of us have said yes, we’re happy to go but can’t be arsed with the getting ready and the cold walk there and back (only 10 mins away 🙄)

Tana433 · 31/12/2025 19:29

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 31/12/2025 19:26

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Here you go @Tana433 although that might not even be enough. Maybe try hitting your head just hard enough to knock yourself out for an hour or so. The splitting heading afterwards would be a small price to pay!

Thankyou so much but no not enough.......not nearly enough!

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 31/12/2025 19:26

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Here you go @Tana433 although that might not even be enough. Maybe try hitting your head just hard enough to knock yourself out for an hour or so. The splitting heading afterwards would be a small price to pay!

MeinKraft · 31/12/2025 19:25

NYE makes me very nostalgic and emotional! I prefer the spring high days, valentine’s day, Easter and pancake tuesday don’t have this effect 😄

RaraRachael · 31/12/2025 19:17

Thankfully our neighbours have cancelled their fireworks so I will go to bed just after midnight and the cat won't be scared half to death.

Tana433 · 31/12/2025 19:09

Nearlyadoctor · 31/12/2025 18:51

I think you’ll find Mrs BB’s is tomorrow as I heard Dd discussing it friends earlier before heading out

Thankyou, i thought that but apparently she hasnt seen the Christmas day one either so she will watch that tonight ready for the second part tomorrow!! Happy New Year to me!!

Jinglejells · 31/12/2025 19:06

Definitely. Everyone I know is staying in. We are watching movies, relaxing and I wouldn’t have it any other way. No desire to go out see friends etc.

IthinkIsawahairbrushbackthere · 31/12/2025 18:54

As a child/young teen NYE was as much fun as Christmas. We would go to my parents' friend and her parents. My best friend and her family would also go, along with other spare people - maybe 15 people squeezed into the sitting room in a tiny cottage.

No party I have ever attended as an adult has been able to compare with those nights. They followed a strict routine - dinner around the dining table with crackers and Christmas cake. Then we children would help with the clear up followed by the trip to the toilet at the bottom of the garden, After dinner we would play games until midnight when we kids would stand in wait in the dining room watching the countdown on tv and then rush in to tell the adults the New Year had arrived.

It was so simple yet the excitement of those NYE parties are such a tough experience to beat.

MCF86 · 31/12/2025 18:54

I used to go out to my (then) local 15-20 years ago, when I was young and carefree and a regular so knew everyone else there. Then it was a great night because everyone was guaranteed to be out and there wasn't anyone who wasn't a regular so it was a really "feel good" atmosphere, and I could walk home.

But I was also in my early 20s, and now my priorities are being warm and comfortable and not surrounded by drunk people. In fact I generally I don't want to go anywhere if I'm not guaranteed a table, and even then it's probably not going to be worth the effort of getting home 😂

DC is with dad, I'm home along with a couple of beers and a cheese board and I am not sad about it!

Nearlyadoctor · 31/12/2025 18:51

Tana433 · 31/12/2025 16:07

Staying in and having a beige buffet! Daughters here for a few days and is wanting to watch Mrs Brown's Boys later so i will be making sure i have enough vodka to get through that (probably not enough vodka in the world quite honestly!) will probably stick my headphones on and listen to an audiobook whilst she watches that and then Ronan is on later for the New Year Eve celebrations so i'll definitely stay up for that!

I think you’ll find Mrs BB’s is tomorrow as I heard Dd discussing it friends earlier before heading out

TheeNotoriousPIG · 31/12/2025 18:49

I live miles out in the countryside. Hopefully, I won't be able to hear the fireworks from the nearest town. I need to be in bed at a reasonable hour, as I'm up early to milk the cows again in the morning!

Enjoy your nights in, everyone!

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 31/12/2025 18:44

I love staying in on NYE.
Takeaway ✅
Pyjamas ✅
Glass of fizz ✅
Chocs ✅
Telly✅

Toastandjam16 · 31/12/2025 18:40

Judellie · 31/12/2025 16:35

For the first time in YEARS I am planning to be asleep at midnight as my daughter is staying over at her friend's house and I don't have to pick her up til tomorrow morning.
This is a fab birthday present to myself as I have the misfortune of having my birthday on 31 December.

Happy birthday @Judellie ! 🎂🥳 but also 😴

Topseyt123 · 31/12/2025 18:39

Just got back from visiting my mother for a couple of days so I am certainly not going out again.

I'm another who can't remember the last time we celebrated New Year and that's how we like it. We may watch a film or two, and have a glass of wine 🍷 but that's it. We'll be in bed soon after midnight, if I haven't actually fallen asleep in my chair beforehand anyway.

New Year is way overrated. I am not a party animal and prefer being a boring old fart.

Mermaidsarereal · 31/12/2025 18:32

We are doing nothing also - takeaway ordered, may have a few glasses of fizz but at the moment I've been nodding off on the sofa after eating too many Ferrero Rocher!

Littletinytarzanswingingfromanosehair · 31/12/2025 18:30

I used to love NYE as it also brings in my birthday but nowadays Im in bed for 10pm.
Restaurants do set dinners that cost the earth, so many pubs charge to get in, you need tickets for everywhere. It's £££. After the Christmas week itself its hard to justify the cost.

Nothing better now than chilling, eating tapas and feeling cosy.

Even our DC's 18, 21 & 24 have no desire to go out.
DD 18, is going to the pub for a couple and then home for a takeaway with Bf.

Maybe times are changing?

Anyhoo, happy new year all, I hope 2026 brings you all the best xx

MarvellousMonsters · 31/12/2025 18:29

I absolutely can’t be arsed. I never liked going out for new years even when I was younger. Happily nestled on my sofa with the dog, who luckily isn’t phased by the fireworks that have already started Angry

RaraRachael · 31/12/2025 18:28

UniquePinkSwan · 31/12/2025 18:11

I miss NYE in Scotland. Since moving to England it’s boring

Used to love Hogmanay with random people coming to the door or raking around the town, rolling home at 4am.

Far too old for that sort of shenanigans now!

pictoosh · 31/12/2025 18:27

Yup, staying in and happy to be doing so.
Will venture out tomorrow for a New Year hike followed by a steak pie at home.

Seeing pals for a drink on the 2nd. In someone's house. Grand. Xx

miamo12 · 31/12/2025 18:24

@SearchingFirst I think small town living comes into its own at this time of year. I cant imagine living somewhere you need a taxi to go out now though to be fair to the bus company there’s buses until 10pm at least

miamo12 · 31/12/2025 18:18

We stay local, we had 8 options within 15 minutes walk.

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