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How many of you love your job

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Lyra25 · 29/12/2025 14:05

I am genuinely interested having been weighing up my options and going round in frustrating circles.
I would like to know how many people feel fulfilled by and enjoy their work and if you do, what work do you do?

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bushproblems · 29/12/2025 23:19

Iamuhtredsonofuhtred · 29/12/2025 21:34

I used to love my job. Like wpuod have still done it even if I won the lottery loved it. Was a midwife on labour ward. Then I switched roles to a community based role that fit around the kids better, I don’t hate it but I’m perimenopausal, knackered and I take it home with me now. I feel like I’m losing the love for my job to be honest. It’s sad, I used to feel so lucky to adore what I did.

Midwife is my dream job. I’m fascinated by conception, pregnancy and birth, so much so that I actually read one of the text books needed for the degree!

But it’s so competitive and the NHS is such a mess, I’d probably never get a job if I got the degree.

Mummadeze · 29/12/2025 22:59

Mostly. I work in TV broadcasting. It can be very rewarding and creative. My manager is difficult to work for however which puts a dampener on the job. And my job security always feels up in the air. I really like the actual work itself though.

FeeLipa · 29/12/2025 22:50

I'm a dog walker and pet sitter. Absolutely love it. (Decent thermals and boots 100% needed to make it bearable in some weather.)

I got burnt out from working in dog rescue. It went from eyeless breeding bitches following the COVID puppy boom, to XLs being dumped at the gate. People can be awful.

I can pick my own hours, be very choosy with what clients I accept and it fits in well with DC, weekends and school holidays. I'm earning more now with much fewer hours than in a kennel.

Marble10 · 29/12/2025 22:43

I do, although it’s a challenging role with complex people. I work for a council in housing.

EggsBen · 29/12/2025 22:43

I worked in childcare for decades and genuinely loved it. I spent 15 fantastic years as a nanny before taking a break and changing direction.
I’m now self employed making memory bears, and can’t believe I’ve been so fortunate to have found a second career that I absolutely love.

BatshitIsTheOnlyExplanation · 29/12/2025 22:39

marriednotdead · 29/12/2025 21:12

I love my job. I’m a specialist bra fitter and work with some lovely people, both staff members and customers. There’s often an element of personal counselling, emotional support and body confidence boosting, being half naked seems to embolden people to confide in you!
The difference you can make to someone’s entire existence in as little as half an hour cannot be overstated. Job satisfaction is unmatched.

@marriednotdead
I love that you do your job in such a lovely way. I'd love to be fitted by you and have a lovely conversation 💕

Daisy54 · 29/12/2025 22:38

I would, if I instructed fewer classes.
I am a mat and reformer Pilates’ instructor.

ChaliceinWonderland · 29/12/2025 22:36

Wow, so positive. I detest my job. The thought of going back makes me feel ill. I feel trapped. It's a low paid school role. I'm searching for anything else but at 54 it's hard

Loloblue · 29/12/2025 22:33

I do! Artist practitioner and academic

Greyrock2828 · 29/12/2025 22:32

Fashion designer- love it

Pinkladyapplepie · 29/12/2025 22:31

ConnieHeart · 29/12/2025 14:16

I love mine. I'm a senior youth mentor. No 2 days are the same, very rewarding, rarely boring & meet some lovely young people & my colleagues are just the best

This is me but I am a maths teacher in FE.

Bubble567 · 29/12/2025 22:31

Not classed as a 'job' as I don't earn but I'm a stay at home mum, have been for the last 13 years and I just love being at home with my children 😊

Yuja · 29/12/2025 22:17

I do! I work in Learning & Development for a large,corporate professional services firm. The work is fun, I get quite a lot of autonomy, hybrid with an amazing office but quite a lot of time at home and lovely colleagues. Can’t complain really.

Adviceseeker35 · 29/12/2025 22:16

Secondary School librarian. My day is never boring. I'm surrounded by books. I can be creative and home in the holidays for my son. It definitely has its challenging moments but on the whole I love it.

MandScookiesrule · 29/12/2025 22:11

I do! NHS dentist for 20 years and still love going to work. I’ve never moved practice, so known my patients for years and love seeing them.

Potteryclass1 · 29/12/2025 22:04

I did until it became toxic.
head of department for a start-up building tech infrastructure ( think data centres / energy). Started from almost nothing to building UK-wide.
lots to learn and develop in the job. No time for training or qualifications (although promised) so all learning was self-led out of necessity.
i built a team and enjoyed using my 20 years of experience in developing them, watching them get promoted and take-on new projects…
then the guy who could never quite accept his boss was female started causing problems. His cultural background is one where men are in charge (regardless of skill) and nepotism is quite normal.

He wasn’t getting noticed like others in my team because his work style was very old-fashioned. He didn’t trust any automated formulas (even simple ones I explained to him in excel) or apps built by our data guy. His colleagues didn’t like him as he was rude. He started talking behind people’s backs, monitoring people working from home, etc and things quickly became toxic.

its incredible how one bitter person can create such problems with politics and be the cause of people dreading to come to work.

Kneenightmare · 29/12/2025 22:02

I’m so encouraged after reading a previous thread that there are some teachers who still enjoy their job. DD is applying for teaching courses and wants to work with primary age. Interesting that it’s doing something meaningful to help others that is the key for a lot of you who enjoy work. My job is good on paper, can work from home with flexibility for family life, like my manager and reasonable pay and benefits and broadly plays to my strengths- writing/ analysis / policy advice. I would give it up in a heartbeat though if I didn’t need to work and holidays make me dread going back.

walkingaroundsostrenegrene · 29/12/2025 22:00

I love my job too - I work in a Preschool with 2 to 5 year olds. Hard work, but no two days are the same!

SparklyGreenTiger · 29/12/2025 21:57

I do, I’m a company secretary in-house in financial services. It’s not exciting or as rewarding as some of the posters here but I’m good at what I do, that’s recognised and acknowledged. I have a great working relationship with my manager and his manager as well as many other colleagues. I suspect I wouldn’t love it as much if I didn’t have the working relationships that I do have. I’ve been through a LOT personally in the five years I’ve been in this company and the care and support I’ve received has been incredible. I feel very lucky and privileged.

PeachBlossom1234 · 29/12/2025 21:55

I do! Also a charity worker and I’ve been in the sector for around 16 years and worked at some awful places but my current charity, not a cause I particularly support or feel affiliated with, is wonderful. I have a great manager, my work is fulfilling and enjoyable, and it fits around family life. I also get paid incredibly well.

ECT22 · 29/12/2025 21:55

I love my job. Secondary teacher. It’s also a nightmare 😆 but I adore it.

whyexactlythough · 29/12/2025 21:54

I'm an ASN teacher and absolutely love my job

The kids and staff are great and we have so much fun

notquiteruralbliss · 29/12/2025 21:51

I do. I work in IT in the front office of an Investment Bank. Its absorbing and I'm always learning new things.

hyacinth1973 · 29/12/2025 21:45

I generally love mine. I'm a litigation lawyer.

Pros:

Intellectually stimulating
Never boring
Varied and interesting workload
Opportunity to help people
Well paid

Cons:

Hours can be long
Can be high pressured
Heavy responsibility

AquaShark · 29/12/2025 21:41

Me 👋
After 20 years in financial services I retrained as a Pilates instructor and genuinely love my job

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