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To not like Grandad tickling grandkids??

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CrandyCrush · 28/12/2025 21:40

Okay… I’m fully expecting to get flamed here. I’ve always got weird vibes about DH’s dad. Due to proximity, we don’t see much of him, and he has always made quite minimal effort with DC. However, DC are now 12 and 9 and he has started doing this thing where he comes over and tickles their legs (knee area). I don’t know why, but it’s making me uncomfortable, although the kids seem okay. I just find it weird for some reason. I obviously haven’t said anything to anyone irl because I have nothing other than a weird feeling.

Is it me? AIBU?

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CrandyCrush · 28/12/2025 21:45

Arlanymor · 28/12/2025 21:41

Talk to your husband who grew up with him.

I have spoken with DH previously about the weird vibes I get. DH had no sisters and so doesn’t have any prior experience of him around girls. I will speak to DH about the tickling, but wanted to sound it out on here first.

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TomatoSandwiches · 28/12/2025 21:43

I would pipe up loudly we don't play those games. They're your children, you say what goes and like fuck would I let a man start up tickle games when my DDs are hitting puberty.

uhtredofbattenberg · 28/12/2025 21:43

Trust your gut and Tell him to stop. It does sound weird tbh.

Arlanymor · 28/12/2025 21:41

Talk to your husband who grew up with him.