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To be fed up of the constant bashing of the UK?

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Drind · 28/12/2025 17:46

I am currently away for Christmas with extended family and family friends in a very nice part of southern Europe.

It is lovely here, but I’m thoroughly fed up with the endless comparison to the UK. We all come from a smallish town in the midlands and if we see something nice here it is immediately ‘yes that’s lovely. Not like the shit hole we live in’. We see a palace and it’s ’you wouldn't see that in our town centre, would you?’ Well clearly fucking not because we live in a old fishing town not in the middle of London.

Then we’ll go to a nice restaurant and it’s ’no point in opening a Michelin restaurant where we live, it’s too deprived’. Or walking back to the hotel it’s ’at home you’d be watching chavs vomiting in the streets, not like these lovely clean streets’.

It is so wearing. I defend the UK and I’m told they’re joking and not to take it so seriously but it is endless.

Various mentions of the ‘lower class’ people at home too. It is driving me mad. Why are people so obsessed with doing the UK down? I know it has got its problems, but it is not that different from other European countries which also have their prosperous and struggling areas.

Not sure it matters but these are left leaning people too, not people desperate to criticise the country as a way of voicing political criticism.

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Endofyear · 28/12/2025 18:40

I think the dreadful state of most of our public services, coupled with years of a high cost of living, has made many people feel dissatisfied with life in the UK. I live in a beautiful part of Wales, we have woodland, rolling hills and beaches all within a short distance from home and I love it. If I lived in a run down industrial town/city, I might feel the same as your companions!

I live there too. We have rolling countryside, waterfalls, mountains and beaches on our doorstep. But they’re never going to be on the local high street.

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Drind · 28/12/2025 18:45

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Fucking Hell it is regional dialect and it’s Mumsnet.

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Endofyear · 28/12/2025 18:40

I think the dreadful state of most of our public services, coupled with years of a high cost of living, has made many people feel dissatisfied with life in the UK. I live in a beautiful part of Wales, we have woodland, rolling hills and beaches all within a short distance from home and I love it. If I lived in a run down industrial town/city, I might feel the same as your companions!

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moderate · 28/12/2025 18:34

Ask ChatGPT what the equivalent town to your hometown is in the south of France (socio-economically, size-wise etc.) then suggest a day trip to that town. Any time anyone rags on Britain, just say “let’s go and hang out in <equivalent town>”. This can become your go-to phrase for “compare like with like or shut up please”.

Davros · 28/12/2025 18:34

It sounds like they doth protest too much. To make themselves feel good about where they currently are, they have to exaggerate problems in the UK. It’s like bonding against a common enemy. Tedious

Drind · 28/12/2025 18:30

Going for a drink later before food and it’s already started. ‘Well they don’t need Wetherspoons here do they because they live to a better standard than us’. Give me strength. The negativity is so draining.

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