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What do you have in savings if you’re in your forties?

145 replies

Wjjayso · 27/12/2025 20:12

Just that really. I have 32k. I have tried to overpay mortgage though so a lot of money goes into that rather than savings. I feel a bit behind and wonder what changes I should try and make coming into the new year!

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ThatGladTiger · 27/12/2025 23:09

MidnightMusing5 · 27/12/2025 21:27

I have 6k but will soon be gone as house needs new windows (42) I wish there were interest free finance options for windows ?so I could pay a bit at a time . The 6k I try not to touch as it’s emergency money.

Edited

There are lots of 0% credit cards at the mo. Buy the windows on one and set up a direct debit to pay it off before the 0% runs out.

JHound · 27/12/2025 23:07

Winterburn · 27/12/2025 20:36

39yo, less than 10 years left on my mortgage (sole name) £50k savings, £6k in current account.

Not amazing, but secure at the moment.

No I don’t earn mega bucks, didn’t even earn over £20k per year til I was 29!! Higher rate tax payer now, have been for about 5 years. If that gives some context. I just don’t tend to fritter money.

People like you inspire me! I definitely am wasting my money somehow.

JHound · 27/12/2025 23:06

I will say I have no debt, but also a good 5-8 years away from getting on the housing ladder (expect to buy my first property at 55).

MiddleAgedDread · 27/12/2025 23:04

Late 40’s. About £65k which is more than a year’s gross salary. Lucky to have a fairly small mortgage
so overpaying that by 50% to try and clear it.

ClassicalQueen · 27/12/2025 23:01

You will have some on here telling you they don’t have a penny spare and others saying they have 14 million in the bank. The fact is any savings are better than none and that puts you in a better position than many. Comparison really is the thief of joy.

JHound · 27/12/2025 22:59

calminggreen · 27/12/2025 20:17

I always find these kind of threads bragging and smug….lots of people don’t have tens of thousands in savings and that’s pretty normal in this day and age. I’m 43 ….i don’t have any 🙄

45 - I only have about 4k

JHound · 27/12/2025 22:58

Nowhere near that. But my pension(s) are decent and I have modest investments.

Statsquestion1 · 27/12/2025 22:40

Littlemisscapable · 27/12/2025 22:05

This. And the variables around all this...LTV, student loans, children, credit cards, car debt. In this day and age it is soo difficult for many of us to save. Let's just all do our own thing.

Yeah I forgot this detail
Value of our property is approximately 525k we purchased this year and it has increased in value already …mortgage is approximately 400k

no student loans
2 dc
no credit card debt
no car payments
no childcare.

Adelle79360 · 27/12/2025 22:36

I have £1,700. I’m 40. Also have approx £9,000 debt. Don’t overpay mortgage as just don’t have the money to be able to do that. As the children get older and the childcare costs get less, hopefully there will be a little bit spare to pay off the debt, add an extra couple of hundred pounds to the mortgage repayment each month, and maybe even save a little more.

louderthan · 27/12/2025 22:33

44 and in my overdraft.

ChristmasHug · 27/12/2025 22:30

Quite a lot in investments, mortgage paid, pension pot likely to be sufficient to retire at 55/60.

We're both pretty well paid, live frugally compared to our incomes, don't buy all the stuff.

But absolutely no inheritance to come and 3 ND children who look unlikely to ever be truly independent, I'm hoping we can save enough to support them indefinitely, I realise that seems unlikely.

2026Panther · 27/12/2025 22:19

We're 39/42 and have £53k joint savings and zero debt.

Sounds decent enough except we rent. And we're in a fabulous area which is in a top-notch catchment - and we cant quite afford to buy here.

The aim is to keep saving and buy in Autumn 2028. Ds3 (8) will have just started Y7 in the catchment Comp ds 1 and 2 have gotten into so we then have more freedom. We won't go far because we love it here but moving a mile away and just out of catchment will save us well over £100k for the same size house.

Then...we'll be aged 42/45 with zero savings 😂

alwaysstressed · 27/12/2025 22:18

I am 43, I have 7k in savings and 23k in a sipp. I have 53k left on my mortgage

Allbymyself123 · 27/12/2025 22:17

I’m 41 & i have £80k thanks to some
inheritance. I have a mortgage (10 years left & for about half of what the house is worth so equity in it) but about £50k will be spent this year between a florida holiday (literally once in a lifetime for me and my kids thanks to the inheritance) & a new bathroom & getting our garden done. £20k is roughly what we sit with normally and will be back around that mark

we would have been mortgage free in a few years but moved house a few years ago so had to jump back up 7 years onto the mortgage.

my husbands wage has gone up quite a bit so hoping to save another £10k this year & start building it up. Pensions etc all in place. Plan when kids are older to downside and give them money so they can get on property ladder etc.

Notmyreality · 27/12/2025 22:13

About 90k between ISAs and current account. Mortgage and debt free. Mid forties.

Londonrach1 · 27/12/2025 22:06
  1. We just bought a house. Last year same time we had a good deposit.
Littlemisscapable · 27/12/2025 22:05

calminggreen · 27/12/2025 20:17

I always find these kind of threads bragging and smug….lots of people don’t have tens of thousands in savings and that’s pretty normal in this day and age. I’m 43 ….i don’t have any 🙄

This. And the variables around all this...LTV, student loans, children, credit cards, car debt. In this day and age it is soo difficult for many of us to save. Let's just all do our own thing.

blackrabbitwhiterabbit · 27/12/2025 22:00

£50

LiftAndLetLift · 27/12/2025 21:59

Didimum · 27/12/2025 21:55

£80k, 40yrs old. But don’t overpay mortgage and it’s uncomfortably high.

Any reason you don't want to overpay? It may be better long term. You should be able to overpay a certain % without incurring additional costs.

IdreamedAdreamINtimesGONEby · 27/12/2025 21:58

MidnightMusing5 · 27/12/2025 21:27

I have 6k but will soon be gone as house needs new windows (42) I wish there were interest free finance options for windows ?so I could pay a bit at a time . The 6k I try not to touch as it’s emergency money.

Edited

We've recently done windows which was about £13,000 in total and a local company we used offered a 0% for 9 months pay scheme. So we're doing that - had to start with a 25% deposit so we did that, will use the 9 months no interest to pay off as much as possible and then for the last month dip into savings to clear the remains.

Worth asking around for companies that do this.

Betty1625 · 27/12/2025 21:57

Im nearly 40, have 25k in savings but house needs repairs and my car is getting old, I haven't had a foreign holiday in ages so the amount might reduce by the end of next year

LiftAndLetLift · 27/12/2025 21:57

Quite a lot.

But I don't have kids, and own two properties (one inherited) without mortgages. That helps a lot in terms of being able to save a chunk each month.

Also keep my outgoings low (easy for just two adults).

No pension though.

CoralOP · 27/12/2025 21:57

Genuinely interested, you must be savvy with money to have a good chunk in savings. I am to. I have looked many times what average savings people have by data sites. Have you never looked?

It's 6k for people in your age range.

So you must know you are significantly better off than the average person, surely you need to acknowledge this to yourself?

Didimum · 27/12/2025 21:55

£80k, 40yrs old. But don’t overpay mortgage and it’s uncomfortably high.

Makingpeace · 27/12/2025 21:53

TediousTim · 27/12/2025 21:51

About 96k. DH and I are both late 40s.
6 years ago we had about 35k of debts and we've worked really bloody hard to get to where we are. We don't spend much money at all. No big holidays for years, we probably go out to eat about 4 times a year, don't drink alcohol, our car is 16 years old, TV is about 12 years old.

Edited

From -35k to +96k in 6 years is impressive! Rough savings of 21k per year! You must have a huge salary and very low outgoings to be able to save 21k a year!

Well done!