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To think Christmas has descended into a pile of landfill?

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TheLostMonopolyTopHat · 27/12/2025 18:15

I’ll start by saying this way of thinking is getting me down. I find it overwhelming and depressing as it takes the magic away but I can’t unsee it.

Everywhere you look there’s Christmas tat. As I was shopping in the lead up all I could see was shelves and shelves of total shit: plastic stocking fillers that wouldn’t last two minutes, plastic toys that’ll sit in landfill long after the children who receive them have grown up, plastic polyester Christmas pyjamas for the whole family you’ll wear for one night, Temu shit, SHEIN shit, loads of shit. People buying ‘token gifts’ or secret Santa crap, new colour themed decorations every year, shelves full of cheap stuff, it never ends.

I used to get swept up in it but the past few years I’ve found myself struggling to buy toys children in the family ask for because it’s adding to the destruction of the planet. I, like everyone else, have been guilty of buying things for the sake of buying and I hate it.

Christmas has become a consumerist hellscape. How much worse will it get? We’re all full of microplastics yet very few people seem to stop and think before buying it all only to chuck it all away.

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TangerinePlate · 27/12/2025 18:31

It’s been like that for years.

I remember saying to my colleagues at work years ago (around 2006)that I was displeased with a pile of presents that I didn’t want or need and being called ungrateful as “somebody made an effort to go out and buy you something”

I still remember —not so— lovely set of pj’s with top barely reaching my waist and 3 buttons at the front the size of a saucer each.

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 27/12/2025 18:30

Agree, posted about this before Xmas and people came out in defence of tat.

sigh

bumblebee1000 · 27/12/2025 18:29

We are about to visit the local B and M for hay etc for the pets...its basically a whole store of delayed land fill....aisles of plastic tat....shops do seem quieter this year....maybe people have had enough of glitter cushions and polyester santa sacks and elf outfits...!!...a lot was on sale before xmas.

Ihateboris · 27/12/2025 18:28

Totally and utterly agree. All pointless crap. I know people who are constantly buying cheap tat from Temu. Everything smells, feels and looks cheap and tatty. Just why?

TerrierCharmer · 27/12/2025 18:26

I agree. Thankfully, after years of trying, I finally persuaded my family not to exchange gifts with me this year and then we all decided no gifts would be given for adults and we’d all just chip in a bit more for extra nice food instead. Least stressful Christmas ever.

themerchentofvenus · 27/12/2025 18:26

No plastic tat and consumerism here. Just a couple of sensible gifts and lots of family fun. We have had a great few days.

I think that those that buy into consumerism are also the ones that are obsessed with social media so post the tacky photos of their kids with 100s of presents. Feels a bit like Dudley Dursley from Harry Potter book 1!

My kids have been raised to not be materialistic and appreciate what they were gifted.

TheLostMonopolyTopHat · 27/12/2025 18:24

Are we the only mammals who destroy their own habitat? Or maybe, the only non-extinct ones..

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omggggggg · 27/12/2025 18:23

Agree. Hate giving tat for the sake of it

InterestedDad37 · 27/12/2025 18:22

Totally agree. It's plastic that will ultimately finish us off.

Thecows · 27/12/2025 18:17

Totally agree 😥

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