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To not agree with how some people make their money, specifically landlords and letting agents?

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RealNavyEagle · 27/12/2025 11:40

I’m not saying every landlord or agent is evil, before anyone jumps in. But I do think there’s something deeply uncomfortable about profiting from people’s basic need for shelter, especially when that profit often comes with minimal accountability and maximum power over tenants’ lives. Rent increases “because the market allows it,” poor maintenance, opaque fees and agents acting as unchallengeable gatekeepers… it doesn’t always sit right with me as a way to earn a living.

AIBU to feel uneasy about this being a normal, socially accepted income stream?

OP posts:
CrystalSingerFan · 28/12/2025 14:44

Interesting thread. I am a landlady. When I met my partner, I moved into his house and had to decide what to do with my little one bedroom mortgaged house. I rented it out with a lovely letting agency, who maintain it better than I could.

Every year Lloyds Bank sent me a letter saying 'you're letting out our mortgaged property. When will you be moving back? We need this info to grant you letting permission."

Eventually I spoke to a human and said "how can I know the answer to this question? If you know when my boyfriend will kick me out and I need to return to my backup property that I sensibly maintain, please let me know." I have now paid off my mortage. 😀

I believe my long term tenants are happy, This seems like a sensible approach for single women to take too. Maybe someone can also comment on why continentals are much happier renting than the English?

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 14:37

saraclara · 28/12/2025 14:31

When someone asked you why you didn't leave the property empty, you said because there was care debt to be paid

Ah. I see. As I said in that post, I didn't quite understand what was being asked. My response was to try and figure it out.

I couldn't 'Leave it empty' because it wasn't empty in the first place. And I couldn't leave it empty when the tenants departed because it needed to be sold to finance the care debt.

Evicting the tenants immediately and leaving the property empty for 18 months while the lawyers were doing their thing, would have been pretty immoral, imo.

Edited

I asked because you didn’t explain any of that originally. You just said it was incredibly hard to be a landlord after your mum passed and you hated it. I simply asked why you did it then. You hadn’t mentioned sitting tenants or legal issues holding up the sale.

saraclara · 28/12/2025 14:31

When someone asked you why you didn't leave the property empty, you said because there was care debt to be paid

Ah. I see. As I said in that post, I didn't quite understand what was being asked. My response was to try and figure it out.

I couldn't 'Leave it empty' because it wasn't empty in the first place. And I couldn't leave it empty when the tenants departed because it needed to be sold to finance the care debt.

Evicting the tenants immediately and leaving the property empty for 18 months while the lawyers were doing their thing, would have been pretty immoral, imo.

Fargo79 · 28/12/2025 14:11

saraclara · 28/12/2025 13:58

Ultimately you kept the tenants in situ because you calculated it that it was financially beneficial to do so, whether or not you used that to service debt.

@Fargo79 it seems you haven't read my posts properly. The rent didn't service the debt in any way. Most of it went to the work I had to have done on the property when the tenants left.

When someone asked you why you didn't leave the property empty, you said because there was care debt to be paid. Hence my subsequent comment.

Regardless, none of this demonstrates anything other than the fact that privatised housing rentals, without ample social housing at cost for all who want it, is a poor system. You are also a victim of it, despite how niche your circumstances and choices (or your mum's choices) are.

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 14:03

saraclara · 28/12/2025 13:58

Ultimately you kept the tenants in situ because you calculated it that it was financially beneficial to do so, whether or not you used that to service debt.

@Fargo79 it seems you haven't read my posts properly. The rent didn't service the debt in any way. Most of it went to the work I had to have done on the property when the tenants left.

This is what faro is saying- this capitalist system of housing is making victims of many people. You included. If it was never possible for your mum to rent her house out this situation wouldn’t have happened

saraclara · 28/12/2025 13:58

Ultimately you kept the tenants in situ because you calculated it that it was financially beneficial to do so, whether or not you used that to service debt.

@Fargo79 it seems you haven't read my posts properly. The rent didn't service the debt in any way. Most of it went to the work I had to have done on the property when the tenants left.

saraclara · 28/12/2025 13:53

Fargo79 · 28/12/2025 13:44

Outstanding debt from an estate could have been paid for by the sale of the house, surely. Ultimately you kept the tenants in situ because you calculated it that it was financially beneficial to do so, whether or not you used that to service debt.

Really your mum's/your situation is further evidence of the fact the current system where everything is privatised for the profit of the elite just doesn't work for normal people. Your mum didn't rack up hundreds of thousands of debt because that's what it cost to provide her care. The vast majority of that was just profit for a private business owner. And then you charge tenants an inflated sum for the roof over their head, so you can pass some (Most? All?) of that profit onto the wealthy care home owner.

Outstanding debt from an estate could have been paid for by the sale of the house, surely. Ultimately you kept the tenants in situ because you calculated it that it was financially beneficial to do so, whether or not you used that to service debt.

The debt will be (partially) paid when the sale of the property goes through, hopefully soon.
But see above. I could not sell the property until the legal team managing the estate and the creditors claim, gave me permission to. I'd love to have put it up for sale on day one, but I couldn't.

Throwing the tenants out and leaving their home empty for 18 months would have been pretty shitty behaviour on my part, when there's so little rental property about.

And then you charge tenants an inflated sum for the roof over their head,

They were paying half the going rate. My mum hadn't put up the rent in 15 years.

Fargo79 · 28/12/2025 13:44

saraclara · 28/12/2025 13:38

I don't understand your question. There were long term tenants in it when my mum died. And my mum had hundreds of thousands of pounds of care debt that had to be paid. I have no idea what you're suggesting I should have done.

Outstanding debt from an estate could have been paid for by the sale of the house, surely. Ultimately you kept the tenants in situ because you calculated it that it was financially beneficial to do so, whether or not you used that to service debt.

Really your mum's/your situation is further evidence of the fact the current system where everything is privatised for the profit of the elite just doesn't work for normal people. Your mum didn't rack up hundreds of thousands of debt because that's what it cost to provide her care. The vast majority of that was just profit for a private business owner. And then you charge tenants an inflated sum for the roof over their head, so you can pass some (Most? All?) of that profit onto the wealthy care home owner.

saraclara · 28/12/2025 13:40

Fargo79 · 28/12/2025 12:22

For many, many landlords it really is extremely easy money. They have multiple properties, sometimes dozens, hundreds or even thousands, and it's totally passive income that's all managed by third parties. The fact that your individual circumstances did not make it an attractive investment does not mean it's not a system that doesn't massively benefit other very privileged people. Otherwise obvious nobody would do it. You still kept the place tenanted for the entire 18 months so you obviously calculated that it was financially advantageous to you.

I kept it tenanted because I had no choice. I couldn't sell it until I got the legal go-ahead. My mum's estate and debts were very complex.

saraclara · 28/12/2025 13:38

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 12:19

Why couldn’t you leave it empty?

I don't understand your question. There were long term tenants in it when my mum died. And my mum had hundreds of thousands of pounds of care debt that had to be paid. I have no idea what you're suggesting I should have done.

Fargo79 · 28/12/2025 13:35

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 13:13

Me too! They GAVE A MORTGAGE TO A STUDENT WITH A CALL CENTRE JOB!!! What a time to be alive 😭😭😭😭

My husband was a newly qualified plumber who bought a few tools with a small inheritance from his grandfather, and was in business as a sole trader for less than 6 months before applying for a mortgage at 21. This was before the 2008 crisis. He told the mortgage company he made £30k (which he didn't, it probably wasn't half of that) and they didn't even check 😱 Just said "yeah that sounds about right" and lent him what he asked for.

Fargo79 · 28/12/2025 13:32

Coconutter24 · 28/12/2025 13:00

About as irritating and pointless as how your comments are?

Looks like it's a recurring theme with you, the inability to actually engage with the substance of a conversation.

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 13:13

JHound · 28/12/2025 13:06

It wasn’t even a golden age for me.
I was a student in the early 2000s with no savings and lots of debt.

Me too! They GAVE A MORTGAGE TO A STUDENT WITH A CALL CENTRE JOB!!! What a time to be alive 😭😭😭😭

JHound · 28/12/2025 13:06

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 11:48

Yes you’re quite a bit older than the golden age I was referring to. It was far easier in the early 2000s for people 40-50 now

It wasn’t even a golden age for me.
I was a student in the early 2000s with no savings and lots of debt.

JHound · 28/12/2025 13:04

Clarehandaust · 28/12/2025 11:08

Fortunately, you’re unfortunately depending on how you want to look at it the absolute dives haven’t existed for awhile because you know Law
And therefore they have to be paid for
I don’t look back romantically at the shit holes. We lived in in Bristol with no heating damp everywhere no hot running water and the price reflected that obviously. But today’s kids wouldn’t stand for that and they’re not wrong.

Rags to Riches stories like your friends are becoming rare and rare because again student loans, even applied to the OU.

Absolute dives not only exist they seemingly make up the majority or properties available. Rental stock is shocking in the UK

Coconutter24 · 28/12/2025 13:00

Fargo79 · 28/12/2025 12:28

The thread has moved on somewhat from the OP. Your question has been answered already many times. To actually add anything to the thread, you'd need to read it and then respond to those answers. That's what conversation is. Just plopping a superficial line that doesn't engage with the conversation is irritating and pointless.

About as irritating and pointless as how your comments are?

Bushmillsbabe · 28/12/2025 12:58

Clarehandaust · 28/12/2025 11:08

Fortunately, you’re unfortunately depending on how you want to look at it the absolute dives haven’t existed for awhile because you know Law
And therefore they have to be paid for
I don’t look back romantically at the shit holes. We lived in in Bristol with no heating damp everywhere no hot running water and the price reflected that obviously. But today’s kids wouldn’t stand for that and they’re not wrong.

Rags to Riches stories like your friends are becoming rare and rare because again student loans, even applied to the OU.

Really, absolute dives don't exist? Tell that to all the families living in 'beds in sheds'. I work with children with life limiting conditions, visiting children in their own homes, and I have seen some truly horrific places, often occupied by people with an uncertain immigration status, who won't make a fuss for fear of drawing attention to themselves with the authorities, or have no recourse to public funds, or because the 'dive' is all they can afford as the new rules and regulations have driven up rents even further with the fewer decent landlords left. Making something harder to do legally just pushes it underground and actually makes it worse.

Some of these places - the council has placed people in them but they are truly awful, much worse than anywhere I ever lived, and they are trying to raise really unwell children in them. Priority for social housing should be given to those with disabilities, lifelong tenancies should be reserved for those who have a specific housing need which isn't going to change, and for others it should be a short term leg up when struggling, there will never be enough for all who want it, so it has to be focused on those who need it.

JHound · 28/12/2025 12:33

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 12:28

there are millions of not for profit housing units rented at social rents already in the uk, owned by housing associations and other investors. The model exists and is successful. This simply extends it.

In my Utopia this is what the rental market would be. Entirely not for profit but I don’t think that’s likely / possible.

Fargo79 · 28/12/2025 12:31

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 12:27

My parents kept their first house house they bought in 1977 for £18k, in SE London.

it was tenanted, on and off until 2017. When they sold it for £560k.

can anyone really argue that that was a level of work that necessitates a £540k profit? There were many years they barely did 50 hours work a year for it. Some years they did nothing. They had all major repairs paid for (by tenants or insurance) and hadn’t even paid out for a new kitchen in all that time.

they didn’t clear much profit monthly or annually- maybe £5k a year- but it wasn’t much work to earn £500k on top of the day job was it?

Shocking isn't it? Absolutely mental that so many people will defend a system that works for so few. Turkeys voting for Christmas.

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 12:28

Coconutter24 · 28/12/2025 12:26

Surely a not for profit means someone still has to invest something (which is what I said) and as it’s not for profit that invested gets no profit (which is what I said)

there are millions of not for profit housing units rented at social rents already in the uk, owned by housing associations and other investors. The model exists and is successful. This simply extends it.

Fargo79 · 28/12/2025 12:28

Coconutter24 · 28/12/2025 12:22

OPs question
To not agree with how some people make their money, specifically landlords and letting agents?

My Answer
Of course the landlord should make a profit, they have put a huge investment into that property so why shouldn’t they gain from it?

What was wrong with that?

The thread has moved on somewhat from the OP. Your question has been answered already many times. To actually add anything to the thread, you'd need to read it and then respond to those answers. That's what conversation is. Just plopping a superficial line that doesn't engage with the conversation is irritating and pointless.

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 12:27

Fargo79 · 28/12/2025 12:22

For many, many landlords it really is extremely easy money. They have multiple properties, sometimes dozens, hundreds or even thousands, and it's totally passive income that's all managed by third parties. The fact that your individual circumstances did not make it an attractive investment does not mean it's not a system that doesn't massively benefit other very privileged people. Otherwise obvious nobody would do it. You still kept the place tenanted for the entire 18 months so you obviously calculated that it was financially advantageous to you.

My parents kept their first house house they bought in 1977 for £18k, in SE London.

it was tenanted, on and off until 2017. When they sold it for £560k.

can anyone really argue that that was a level of work that necessitates a £540k profit? There were many years they barely did 50 hours work a year for it. Some years they did nothing. They had all major repairs paid for (by tenants or insurance) and hadn’t even paid out for a new kitchen in all that time.

they didn’t clear much profit monthly or annually- maybe £5k a year- but it wasn’t much work to earn £500k on top of the day job was it?

Coconutter24 · 28/12/2025 12:26

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 12:20

Read the thread- it’s very clear. A not for profit model

Surely a not for profit means someone still has to invest something (which is what I said) and as it’s not for profit that invested gets no profit (which is what I said)

Coconutter24 · 28/12/2025 12:24

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 12:23

Well, it’s a nothing contribution.

Like your reply here?
A question was asked and I answered

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/12/2025 12:23

Coconutter24 · 28/12/2025 12:22

OPs question
To not agree with how some people make their money, specifically landlords and letting agents?

My Answer
Of course the landlord should make a profit, they have put a huge investment into that property so why shouldn’t they gain from it?

What was wrong with that?

Well, it’s a nothing contribution.

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