So a girlfriend (45yo) stays over at my 3 bed house at my invitation for Xmas to NYE following some recent hard times. My own DS (24) recently split from his GF, about whom I was not mad. He has his own place and a motorhome type contraption which he intended to stay in while he sorts himself out. I was worried it would be hard for friend if DS stayed in the house due to anxiety issues. In any case he is very independent and doesnt want to stay here, even for one night. I tried to organise some activities to make the post mealtimes less awkward. Board games, quizzes etc.All went ok.but I am shattered now and worried I won't sleep.