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Really nervous - first Hollywood wax

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AbsolutelyRavenousCaterpillar · 26/12/2025 17:17

hope this is ok to post here. I’m not a troll, I’m a longtime poster who has name changed (MN can verify!)

basically I’ve decided to go for my first body waxing session- I’ve had eyebrows etc before but not intimate waxing. I’ve been wanting it for a while but just kept putting it off and I’ve decided enough is enough and I’m going to get a Hollywood wax.

ive got hormone issues and it has given me excessive body hair and I hate it so much. Shaving lasts a day at most and no matter what I use the results are never great, hair removal cream doesn’t work, and I can’t afford laser or anything like that. I also play a lot of sports and wear shorts and while I understand some people are fine with body hair, that’s absolutely fine but I personally don’t want it and i want to see if waxing gives better results

but im just so, so scared. I don’t even know why, im just embarrassed about someone seeing down there and im so self conscious. I’m also scared about the pain levels as I’ve heard it’s excruciating- I tried waxing myself but really struggled because of the pain and kept doing it too slowly because I was scared to do it quickly but I think I ended up just making it hurt more!

does anyone have any advice on how to get past the initial embarrassment and also how to deal with the pain? I’ve not been for a smear test so am not used to this sort of thing, the only similar thing I’ve had was colonoscopies where I was so drugged up I was basically on another planet hence no embarrassment 😅

thanks in advance x

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Hankunamatata · 26/12/2025 17:30

I'd seriously look at lazer for bikini line. It's game changer

Hankunamatata · 26/12/2025 17:29

Take some ibuprofen and paracetamol and hour before. Don't get waxed just before your period

AbsolutelyRavenousCaterpillar · 26/12/2025 17:28

LordEmsworth · 26/12/2025 17:24

I really recommend that you start with a more restrained bikini line tidy, and work up to a full Hollywood. It will be less scary and you will get used to it; you can keep your pants on so less stressful; and can try taking a couple of aspirin first to help the pain.

The more you do it, the less it hurts! And get hot wax rather than strip wax...

Thank you so much, yeah I see what you mean that it might be best to work up to a Hollywood. Stupid question but would putting ice on the area before I leave the house help by numbing it or realistically would that not work? I’m a wimp with pain but don’t want to sob throughout it and embarrass myself haha

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AbsolutelyRavenousCaterpillar · 26/12/2025 17:26

chailatte8 · 26/12/2025 17:24

Have you booked someone who specialises in this or somewhere that does nails/lashes etc too? There’s a few specialist places where I live and they are always very fast which makes it much less painful.

Thank you! Yeah I read online that it’s best to go to a specialist waxing place for it, there’s a place nearby which have really great reviews and specifically do intimate waxing xx

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LordEmsworth · 26/12/2025 17:24

I really recommend that you start with a more restrained bikini line tidy, and work up to a full Hollywood. It will be less scary and you will get used to it; you can keep your pants on so less stressful; and can try taking a couple of aspirin first to help the pain.

The more you do it, the less it hurts! And get hot wax rather than strip wax...

chailatte8 · 26/12/2025 17:24

Have you booked someone who specialises in this or somewhere that does nails/lashes etc too? There’s a few specialist places where I live and they are always very fast which makes it much less painful.

AbsolutelyRavenousCaterpillar · 26/12/2025 17:24

Shittyyear2025 · 26/12/2025 17:21

You don't need a Hollywood to stop the spider legs poking out under shorts...

Just go for bikini.

I totally get what you mean but It’s not just for wearing shorts, I just want to get it done because it’s my own preference and also I guess to at least see if the results are better than shaving x

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Shittyyear2025 · 26/12/2025 17:21

You don't need a Hollywood to stop the spider legs poking out under shorts...

Just go for bikini.

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