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“Husband accused me of an affair” threads… not ATAAT but a question.

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CunningLinguist2 · 26/12/2025 12:34

Is @devoed okay? Threads disappeared & I am rooting hard for her & her kids against the KH.

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MonGrainDeSel · 26/12/2025 16:38

@Devoed thinking of you and hope your Christmas with DC was truly lovely. Very best of luck for all that is to come and I am crossing my fingers for you.

TheFormidableMrsC · 26/12/2025 16:23

Devoed · 26/12/2025 14:06

I am still here…I felt I’d shared too much info that would mean it was obviously me if anyone found it, and that I’d be shown as in contempt of court.

I am happy to update as things go on, but I don’t think it’s wise for me to share a lot until after things are finalised. I just don’t want to give a desperate KH anything to use against me.

But thank you all so much for your advice and support. It’s really helped keep me sane.

I can tell you that I had similar threads to yours and 3000 posts. Somebody recognised them and told ex and OW. They printed the whole lot out and gave to court. Judge was completely disinterested. It is not contempt. As long as you don’t share orders/court names/judges, you can seek whatever means of support you need. I hope it all goes well and do let us know how you get on.

CarpeVitam · 26/12/2025 15:10

Still rooting for you, @Devoedxx

BookArt55 · 26/12/2025 15:04

Good luck @Devoed! Wise move, don't blame you at all! Hope you've had a lovely Christmas with the kids.

Swiftie1878 · 26/12/2025 14:59

Still thinking of you and wishing you all the best @Devoed 🩵

fivetriangulartrees · 26/12/2025 14:54

Best of luck @Devoed

Lennonjingles · 26/12/2025 14:10

Devoed · 26/12/2025 14:06

I am still here…I felt I’d shared too much info that would mean it was obviously me if anyone found it, and that I’d be shown as in contempt of court.

I am happy to update as things go on, but I don’t think it’s wise for me to share a lot until after things are finalised. I just don’t want to give a desperate KH anything to use against me.

But thank you all so much for your advice and support. It’s really helped keep me sane.

I think you’ve done the right thing, I hope your Christmas Day with your DC went well, and looking forward to the New Year when you get everything with ex sorted.

TinselTitts · 26/12/2025 14:10

Don't MNHQ say why they're removing a thread anymore?

Nevermind17 · 26/12/2025 14:07

I do hope Devoed is okay, and have a lovely Christmas. Hopefully she just got a bit twitchy about KH potentially finding the thread and asked for it to be removed.

Devoed · 26/12/2025 14:06

I am still here…I felt I’d shared too much info that would mean it was obviously me if anyone found it, and that I’d be shown as in contempt of court.

I am happy to update as things go on, but I don’t think it’s wise for me to share a lot until after things are finalised. I just don’t want to give a desperate KH anything to use against me.

But thank you all so much for your advice and support. It’s really helped keep me sane.

TheFormidableMrsC · 26/12/2025 13:56

I’m not surprised at this.

LunchtimeNaps · 26/12/2025 13:53

I assumed KH or someone attached to him realised they were about them and they had to be removed.

Aroundthebend · 26/12/2025 12:44

I wondered where they had gone and if KH had found them.

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