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Who got the worst gift?

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arcticpandas · 25/12/2025 21:47

Very very lighthearted. Some people are starving so no whining about not getting the perfect gift. Instead looking at it from a humoristic perspective: who got the worst gift in our family? Please add yours as well..
In our family;

  1. DH got 200 ml cologne while he wanted/needed 100 ml to bring with him on airplane (travels every week).
  2. I got fine chocolate with alcohol from uncle again (everyone has told him I do not like it but he just can't get it). He even added "I know you can't get enough of those". Not passive aggressive- that would be sinister. He really likes me and is convinced I like them.

Also got a large hand bag from DH. Not wildly expensive but still- the cords are too thin- I keep loads of stuff in my handbag. He bought it 3 months ago so can't return it.

  1. DS1 got a sort of a travel bag for mobile Phone to attach on bike from an aunt. He hasn't been riding his bike for years.

4.DS2 got a shirt of his favourite team that was so large on him it looked like a dress. Can't return it. Bil said he will grow in it😅

  1. Dh got Mil a a stylish coat size L. It was too small. Yet Mil isn't a big woman. I'm a medium and it was perfect on me but she's got bigger breasts. She wasn't happy about large being too small.. didn't say anything because very polite but it was obvious she was unhappy.
  1. Aunt got a big box of chocolate. She's on wli and barely eats anything. Def not chocolate. She discreetly passed them on to dh.

So who wins?

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Ebok1990 · 26/12/2025 23:53

MidnightMeltdown · 26/12/2025 23:19

I’ve never been given a Baylis and Harding gift set but am almost tempted to buy one to find out what all the fuss is about. Seems to be the most hated gift on MN! Having recently finished a Molton Brown shower gel, I actually think there’s sod all difference between the cheap stuff and expensive stuff. Detergent is detergent. The scent doesn’t even last any longer than the stuff you buy in the supermarket.

Don't waste your money. It's awful stuff. Cheap n nasty. It's nothing like Molton Brown or even cheaper brands like Nivea.

MidnightMeltdown · 26/12/2025 23:39

Rockfordpeach · 26/12/2025 11:19

This was last year but a Boots gift set in a battered box so old it had the old 90's Boots logo on and the moisturising cream had evaporated to a quarter an inch at the bottom of the pot

Ooof. That is someone who really doesn’t like you!

MidnightMeltdown · 26/12/2025 23:19

MerryChristmasFilthyAnimals · 26/12/2025 03:36

3 Baylis & Harding gift sets…

Knowing how much mumsnet hates them I’d say I’m in the running to win.

One was off a neighbour, one from my friends daughter which was really sweet but the 3rd one was (amongst other lovely gifts) from my DP.
He was so proud of himself saying he’d got the brand I always use and got it at a really good price as I don’t normally let him use it and say it’s too expensive.
I use Molton Brown and can’t bear to tell him and hurt him so I’ll be using the B&H stuff as quickly as possible so I can replace it!

I’ve never been given a Baylis and Harding gift set but am almost tempted to buy one to find out what all the fuss is about. Seems to be the most hated gift on MN! Having recently finished a Molton Brown shower gel, I actually think there’s sod all difference between the cheap stuff and expensive stuff. Detergent is detergent. The scent doesn’t even last any longer than the stuff you buy in the supermarket.

Cheryllou · 26/12/2025 22:59

I asked my mum for inexpensive trainers or money for them if she couldn’t manage the internet (she can’t). Instead I got an ornament of a cockerpoo. She knows I hate ornaments but ‘thought I’d like this one’…

JaquelineHide · 26/12/2025 22:52

Please stop arguing about the voucher. You're not going to change the poster's mind and it's clogging up the thread..

CountryMusicFan · 26/12/2025 22:09

WtP · 26/12/2025 20:44

Could you not see if you can get the money back?

No. It’s in the bin, but I wouldn’t have bothered putting any effort into doing that anyway. I finding it so bizarre that anyone would care.

WtP · 26/12/2025 20:44

CountryMusicFan · 26/12/2025 20:26

No because it’s better for the animals if less meat is used/consumed. It really shouldn’t be an issue. My point was about the inappropriateness of the gift and the malice behind it on a thread about worst gifts.

Could you not see if you can get the money back?

CountryMusicFan · 26/12/2025 20:26

Chonk · 26/12/2025 19:41

Announcing that you're doing something painfully illogical was bound to warrant a response! The butchers have now had money for nothing, which is better for them than if you'd given the voucher away!

No because it’s better for the animals if less meat is used/consumed. It really shouldn’t be an issue. My point was about the inappropriateness of the gift and the malice behind it on a thread about worst gifts.

Ilovemychocolate · 26/12/2025 19:57

I got an 8kg kettle bell from my brother.
i can’t even lift the fucking thing!

SusanChurchouse · 26/12/2025 19:48

My son apparently as he literally chucked half of his gifts straight in the bin after opening them. Sweets, a book and a few other bits. Reason no 3576 I hate Christmas. He is PDA autistic so I suppose it’s all a demand for him but I’d be lying to say it doesn’t get me down.

I’m sorry for those who are genuinely dealing with some shit though, cheating spouses and the like. So thanks for helping me get some perspective.

Chonk · 26/12/2025 19:41

CountryMusicFan · 26/12/2025 19:14

Good grief, how is this such an issue to anyone? There were 5 boxes of chocolates in one gift bag for the 5 of us (all containing milk). My partner and 2 of our children are vegetarian, so they’ll just eat the 5 boxes between the 3 of them, probably mostly eaten by the kids as my partner is fairly health conscious. Although 2 of the boxes were given knowing 2 of us are vegan, they were addressed to all of us, so no, I don’t have an issue letting the vegetarians have them. I was vegetarian when all of my children were born and they were brought up vegetarian. One chose to be vegan as a teen. They can choose what they eat.

None of us have any use for a steak vouchers but poignantly it was addressed only to me, a vegan. In previous years she has given me and my partner vouchers to a steak restaurant, me some local honey, our vegan child wool and knitting needles. It’s deliberate, she thinks it’s funny. I refuse to engage with it.

Sorry OP, your thread is being derailed because people seem to have an issue with me binning a steak voucher. People can eat what they like, but I don’t have a responsibility to feed other families as has been suggested and I don’t wish to get into a debate on my principles.

And people moan about preachy vegans, of which I’m not one, but please leave me alone. I answered the thread and it’s being turned into something else. Voucher has been binned earlier so that’s the end of the matter. 😅

Announcing that you're doing something painfully illogical was bound to warrant a response! The butchers have now had money for nothing, which is better for them than if you'd given the voucher away!

Dolly0 · 26/12/2025 19:34

A calendar… for 2025 Grin

CountryMusicFan · 26/12/2025 19:14

Chonk · 26/12/2025 18:02

Does it not go against your principles giving the chocolate to your children?

Good grief, how is this such an issue to anyone? There were 5 boxes of chocolates in one gift bag for the 5 of us (all containing milk). My partner and 2 of our children are vegetarian, so they’ll just eat the 5 boxes between the 3 of them, probably mostly eaten by the kids as my partner is fairly health conscious. Although 2 of the boxes were given knowing 2 of us are vegan, they were addressed to all of us, so no, I don’t have an issue letting the vegetarians have them. I was vegetarian when all of my children were born and they were brought up vegetarian. One chose to be vegan as a teen. They can choose what they eat.

None of us have any use for a steak vouchers but poignantly it was addressed only to me, a vegan. In previous years she has given me and my partner vouchers to a steak restaurant, me some local honey, our vegan child wool and knitting needles. It’s deliberate, she thinks it’s funny. I refuse to engage with it.

Sorry OP, your thread is being derailed because people seem to have an issue with me binning a steak voucher. People can eat what they like, but I don’t have a responsibility to feed other families as has been suggested and I don’t wish to get into a debate on my principles.

And people moan about preachy vegans, of which I’m not one, but please leave me alone. I answered the thread and it’s being turned into something else. Voucher has been binned earlier so that’s the end of the matter. 😅

Isayitasitis · 26/12/2025 19:09

PeeledOranges · 26/12/2025 06:18

I got some old lady slippers and a super warm blanket from my DP and a few generic bits from my Amazon wish list which I mostly keep updated for the dcs to choose gifts from.
Overall he spent less than £100 on me - I'm not bothered about the amount of money he spent. However I know he's spent £450 on the other woman which I've recently discovered. He's booked a weekend away in a beautiful cottage for them both. They are going this weekend. He doesn't know that I know but he will when he gets back!!

Omg you poor woman!

RoseAndShone · 26/12/2025 19:00

MauveLibrary · 26/12/2025 09:01

A manky looking pair of oven gloves with the £5 price tag still on them.....from my snotty cow SIL

Keep them, and the next time you pull off a rather high price tag, cover the £5 tag and give them back to her next year.

dpbarbie9 · 26/12/2025 18:53

Auntie told me my hair was thinning at the beginning of the year
opened Xmas present to a set of thickening hair shampoo lol

Chonk · 26/12/2025 18:02

CountryMusicFan · 26/12/2025 14:27

Because I’m vegan and it goes against my principles. It’s not my responsibility to feed other people’s families, least of all something I don’t agree with.

Does it not go against your principles giving the chocolate to your children?

MrsDutchie88 · 26/12/2025 16:53

GrinchoftheNorth · 25/12/2025 23:43

A romantic weekend away in London with partner, lovely I thought, because I usually have to take charge of booking everything when we go away.

Turns out he's booked us in a 'capsule hotel'. So separate rooms, in separate areas of the building. The room itself is actually just a bed you crawl into and a shutter you pull down. Like sleeping in a self storage facility. Don't worry though, apparently he'll buy me a combination lock so I can lock myself in and feel safe...... FML

😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Pollyanna87 · 26/12/2025 16:44

housethatbuiltme · 26/12/2025 13:48

Not actually a gift he got but on new years eve while out shopping my DH phoned to ask 'Have I got DS any smellies?' because he had spotted an 'Old Spice' gift set in the sale.

Thankfully I had got DS a car themed aftershave set so could answer yes but DH claims he genuinely though a 17 year old would be excited to open Old Spice on Christmas morning.

Maybe as a middle aged woman Im out of touch but I think even Lynx is better than Old Spice. The only person I have even known that used Old Spice was my 90 year old grandad who used it after he had shaved with his old animal hair lather up shaving brush. The man looked the spit of Jim Bowen, obviously the epitome of teenage cool lol.

He got Fifa for the PS5 instead which while we will never know for definite but I'm pretty certain was the preferred choice.

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I think Old Spice is somewhat in fashion?!

Tacocat2 · 26/12/2025 16:43

My 7 year old got me a packet of supermarket napkins, no idea why! Bless her🤣

CountryMusicFan · 26/12/2025 16:41

tabulahrasa · 26/12/2025 16:04

I got a 2 ft inflatable velociraptor… with a slow puncture 😐😂

That’s funny. Patch him up and give him pride of place in the hallway to greet visitors. 🦖 😂

Maryaliceyoungx · 26/12/2025 16:30

MIL gave us charcuterie.

we have hosted Christmas. It included an extensive charcuterie board. I never want to see charcuterie again and it all goes off next week.

arcticpandas · 26/12/2025 16:27

JollyMintWasp · 26/12/2025 15:32

The 200 ml cologne for someone who flies every week wins for me. That’s pure chaos energy. Runner up is the bike phone bag for someone who doesn’t ride anymore. At least the chocolate can be re gifted and the coat might fit someone else. The cologne is just aggressively impractical.

Ha- I got a whole thread on that subject titled "DH and entitled brat" because he got very upset receiving this. He hadn't specified why he wanted 100 ml and it wasn't bought maliciously. Mil is generous so wanted to get him 200 ml instead of 100. Plenty of posters talked about decanting so I will try to find a nice bottle to decant.

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Pinkwhales · 26/12/2025 16:14

ElatedFox · 26/12/2025 15:39

No it isn't !!

Oh bore off

AlwaysTheRenegade · 26/12/2025 16:12

Jesus @PeeledOranges are you alright?

I hope you have the best year moving forward Flowers

We didn't do presents for adults this year on my side. MIL normally gets some bonkers gifts for us adults though, wind up robot toy, tiny bongo drum, a lint roller, a pack of serviettes 😄