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Who got the worst gift?

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arcticpandas · 25/12/2025 21:47

Very very lighthearted. Some people are starving so no whining about not getting the perfect gift. Instead looking at it from a humoristic perspective: who got the worst gift in our family? Please add yours as well..
In our family;

  1. DH got 200 ml cologne while he wanted/needed 100 ml to bring with him on airplane (travels every week).
  2. I got fine chocolate with alcohol from uncle again (everyone has told him I do not like it but he just can't get it). He even added "I know you can't get enough of those". Not passive aggressive- that would be sinister. He really likes me and is convinced I like them.

Also got a large hand bag from DH. Not wildly expensive but still- the cords are too thin- I keep loads of stuff in my handbag. He bought it 3 months ago so can't return it.

  1. DS1 got a sort of a travel bag for mobile Phone to attach on bike from an aunt. He hasn't been riding his bike for years.

4.DS2 got a shirt of his favourite team that was so large on him it looked like a dress. Can't return it. Bil said he will grow in it😅

  1. Dh got Mil a a stylish coat size L. It was too small. Yet Mil isn't a big woman. I'm a medium and it was perfect on me but she's got bigger breasts. She wasn't happy about large being too small.. didn't say anything because very polite but it was obvious she was unhappy.
  1. Aunt got a big box of chocolate. She's on wli and barely eats anything. Def not chocolate. She discreetly passed them on to dh.

So who wins?

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Rockfordpeach · 26/12/2025 11:19

This was last year but a Boots gift set in a battered box so old it had the old 90's Boots logo on and the moisturising cream had evaporated to a quarter an inch at the bottom of the pot

LauraHopkins · 26/12/2025 11:16

6 New Zealand wool dryer balls from my mum. 1) We don’t have a tumble dryer and 2) dryer balls for Christmas??!

BigButtons · 26/12/2025 11:10

PeeledOranges · 26/12/2025 06:18

I got some old lady slippers and a super warm blanket from my DP and a few generic bits from my Amazon wish list which I mostly keep updated for the dcs to choose gifts from.
Overall he spent less than £100 on me - I'm not bothered about the amount of money he spent. However I know he's spent £450 on the other woman which I've recently discovered. He's booked a weekend away in a beautiful cottage for them both. They are going this weekend. He doesn't know that I know but he will when he gets back!!

Omg!

Sarahw33 · 26/12/2025 11:09

I got a toaster of hubby to be. The wedding is soon. We will see ….

Gremlins101 · 26/12/2025 11:09

Every year my MIL gets me pyjamas which is a lovely thought. But the ones she buys are unwearable. They are fleecy (not terrible in itself but you couldnt sleep in them) and they are always cutesy designs, with puppies and love hearts. I cannot put into words how much they are not my thing, and i thought she would know this about me by now. I crossed my fingers this year theyd be different but she got me literally the same ones. No receipt but this year I will try to exchange them for some nice cotton plain ones. Previous years they went to charity shop. Anyway, its a nice thought. But she is a person you could absolutely not say it to without her getting the hump.i sound so ungrateful - sorry. Im not really. I got very few presents and im totally OK with that. Very happy with what I did get!

usernamealreadytaken · 26/12/2025 11:02

Trumpton · 26/12/2025 02:52

A screw driver. A hand screwdriver. I have my own tool kit and apparently the screwdriver I have is unpleasant to use.
I was bemused. I do all the DIY in the house. If I wanted a new screwdriver I would buy a new screwdriver!
Actually I checked the old one and the handle is degrading so I have thrown it away and replaced it with the shiny new one! But still….
Married 51years and he still surprises me!

Oh and an Apple Watch. Hmmm I have no interest in one I like my Fitbit and think Apple Watches are a bit fancy for the life I lead. My phone, one the other hand, is an iPhone 11 and beginning to show its age. But I feel mean that both were a bit off and my diamond shoes are too tight!

Is it at least a SnapOn fancy screwdriver? I thought all screwdrivers were the same, until DS bought DH a SnapOn screwdriver for Christmas last year. It’s bloody awesome; feels lovely to hold, good weight, good quality changeable bits, and the shaft can be turned by hand as well as the handle. I am officially a screwdriver fangirl.

Isanyonereallyanonymous · 26/12/2025 11:01

MumoftwoNC · 26/12/2025 10:33

Lol I've literally considered this! Dh says "we just won't use them very often" which I think is a compromise but yes it's just such a shame because she'd have really wanted to get something I like.

As it's MIL and they were expensive, are you close enough that you could explain and see if you could return them for an exchange/ could DH have that conversation if you can't?

IthinkIsawahairbrushbackthere · 26/12/2025 10:58

Every year our family does a white elephant with a different theme. This year the theme was "something you have in your house that you don't want/need" aka The Wrapped Tat Exchange. We played our game passing around our parcels and then opened them together. There was a fair number of scented candles, plant pots etc but the winning gifts were an old box of Laterfal Flow tests and a mystery tin from my son's food cupboard - he had taken the label off before wrapping. My daughter who has sized 3 feet ended up with a pair of inner soles sized 7 - 12.

Alwaystired23 · 26/12/2025 10:54

Palaminoponyclub · 25/12/2025 22:01

My mil got me an old lady house coat. Akin to the picture attached. But it’s pink. 😶

I'd probably wear that 🤣

Emigree · 26/12/2025 10:46

I made a mistake this year - grabbed a very 'in' fantasy book as a stocking filler for my son after a recommendation from a friend, without really researching it as she said her teens thought it was great . He came siding over to ask - did I mean to give him this? Reading the back apparently it's a much more explicit romantasy than I had expected , and he likes his imaginative worlds and Sci fit undiluted with any annoying stuff about emotions, relationships or sexual tension. 😂
Now I need to ask my friend if she's read it...

Soonenough · 26/12/2025 10:45

@MumoftwoNC Could you get DH to ask her for the receipt? Would she be offended ? Seems such a shame as I know how expensive they are . Even without the hole phobia thing I would hate a pattern I just didn't like .

fouroclockrock · 26/12/2025 10:40

Im just remembering a time where i was asked what i wanted as a gift and asked for a specific salt and pepper mill set that id been admiring for a couple of years. Ok then….. much excitement for me to open the gift from the giver…. It was a pepper mill from a different brand. Chosen because it was even better. Not sure why but it somehow put me off ever buying the salt and pepper mills for myself anyway so now I have a pain to use pepper mill in a style that I wouldn’t choose and no salt mill years on!

Cornishqween · 26/12/2025 10:39

I got a stick of chub rub/anti chafe gel from dhConfused…luckily I also got an ember mug which I asked for and was over the moon about but lots of my gifts were things I’d never want or use. I’d take aftershave and a handbag all day long

StephensLass1977 · 26/12/2025 10:34

edwinbear · 25/12/2025 23:20

DS got 2 identical Lynx gift sets. One from us and one from MIL. He took it all in good humour as he’s 16 and actually loves the stuff. His view was well, I have plenty to keep me going for the year 🤣

So nice and pleasant to hear of someone actually appreciating what they got! Especially as that age group get so much shit for being "ungrateful".

MumoftwoNC · 26/12/2025 10:33

OlympicWomen · 26/12/2025 10:27

Oh my goodness, I don't suppose you could drop the whole box on a hard floor?
It's such a shame because it's a generous gift, given with good intentions.

Lol I've literally considered this! Dh says "we just won't use them very often" which I think is a compromise but yes it's just such a shame because she'd have really wanted to get something I like.

HoorayHattie · 26/12/2025 10:30

Teddleshon1 · 26/12/2025 10:29

Men’s deodorant from FIL (I am a woman).

I do wish we had the "laugh" button . . . .I would definitely have used it for this PP!!!!😂

Ebok1990 · 26/12/2025 10:29

NeverDropYourMooncup · 25/12/2025 23:33

DP's father sent him an expensive bottle of whisky and two glasses.

After he started a health kick following his dad having a series of strokes aged 63, DP hasn't drunk alcohol for about nine years.

The glasses will be used for juice, the whisky will probably sit in a cupboard somewhere with any other alcohol we've been given for the next decade or so.

Keep it as long as poss and then send it to auction to be sold.

Teddleshon1 · 26/12/2025 10:29

Men’s deodorant from FIL (I am a woman).

OlympicWomen · 26/12/2025 10:27

MumoftwoNC · 26/12/2025 10:25

Just to add - I specifically asked this family member to buy me "one or two plates or bowls from a charity shop as I love vintage mismatched plates" - honestly I would have been beyond delighted with that, £10 on a couple of ye olde style English plates/bowls.

Instead I've had £150 worth of a set of 16 very ugly Modern speckled things and I'll have to use them because I can't bear to offend her! It's my MIL and she's so lovely...and she's coming to babysit in the new year and will notice if they're not in use!!

Edit - gosh there's 16 not 8!!

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Oh my goodness, I don't suppose you could drop the whole box on a hard floor?
It's such a shame because it's a generous gift, given with good intentions.

pitterypattery00 · 26/12/2025 10:27

I asked for pyjamas - the only thing I specifically asked for. I received very lovely pyjama bottoms - but no top. Partner didn't realise you had to order that separately ('in the photo she was wearing both' 🙄). Top now sold out.

MrsofClaus · 26/12/2025 10:26

icantgetnosheep1 · 25/12/2025 22:37

I got a used candle - ExH decided to wrap me a candle from our old home that was gifted to me years before .. apparently it was a mistake. Complete with dusty dented lid .. He didn’t make it to the dinner table. I told him to f-off half hour before. I will never attempt to co-parent at Christmas ever again. On the plus side he left in such a huff he forgot to take his gifts I bought him from the kids 😆

You win. Well done for turfing him out.

MumoftwoNC · 26/12/2025 10:25

MumoftwoNC · 26/12/2025 10:17

Thank you for understanding! I said privately to dh (not the giver) that I'm grateful but hate them... Well actually I said "don't you see how they look like they're covered in specks of headlice" but he does not understand. The headlice flecks are even raised bumps not flat.

I already have a trypophobic mixing bowl from the same giver that I have never used. Looks like it's erupted in pimples. Also raised.

It's just such a heartbreaking waste, I looked it up and they were quite expensive, and some nicer things I would have liked from the same shop.

Just to add - I specifically asked this family member to buy me "one or two plates or bowls from a charity shop as I love vintage mismatched plates" - honestly I would have been beyond delighted with that, £10 on a couple of ye olde style English plates/bowls.

Instead I've had £150 worth of a set of 16 very ugly Modern speckled things and I'll have to use them because I can't bear to offend her! It's my MIL and she's so lovely...and she's coming to babysit in the new year and will notice if they're not in use!!

Edit - gosh there's 16 not 8!!

Judellie · 26/12/2025 10:22

Despite putting the name of the book I wanted TWICE on our Whats App char my brother and his partner got me real granny grey slippers and a grey dressing gown. I already own 4 dressing gowns, I don't need another and thankfully the slippers don't fit - and happily my sister got me some lovely new slippers anyway.
Also got a scarf from my friend but I don't suit scarves so that may end up being regifted. She bought me a big bar of chcolate as well so she is forgiven, lol

OlympicWomen · 26/12/2025 10:20

MumoftwoNC · 26/12/2025 10:17

Thank you for understanding! I said privately to dh (not the giver) that I'm grateful but hate them... Well actually I said "don't you see how they look like they're covered in specks of headlice" but he does not understand. The headlice flecks are even raised bumps not flat.

I already have a trypophobic mixing bowl from the same giver that I have never used. Looks like it's erupted in pimples. Also raised.

It's just such a heartbreaking waste, I looked it up and they were quite expensive, and some nicer things I would have liked from the same shop.

What a shame, that genuinely sounds awful, and not something people can generally understand.

Snackpocket · 26/12/2025 10:20

notcomfortable · 26/12/2025 07:22

Me and my partner got each other the same book 🤣 its a Gavin & Stacey one.
But he saved the day because he booked me a holiday to New York 😱

Ha ha we got each other that book too. We’ve got each other the same gift about 50% of our 20 christmas’s together!