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Important reminder re Santa

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KabukiNoh · 24/12/2025 22:00

AIBU to remind you to go put the stocking presents in your kids’ rooms? I can feel the post-Christmas-Eve-party-hosting-wine-induced lethargy setting in. Those stockings seem so far from my sofa right now. There’s been so much trauma over the years from that unreliable Tooth Fairy character. Surely Santa won’t let us down…

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Didimum · 25/12/2025 08:07

BringBackCatsEyes · 24/12/2025 23:27

Bless her. That's so sweet. At least she gave Father Christmas a heads up!

They got a chocolate each 😂

Fizbosshoes · 25/12/2025 07:36

Pandasarethebest · 25/12/2025 06:48

My daughter age 2 at the time, didn't want father christmas in her bedroom. Fair enough so always been downstairs phew

As a kid I didnt even want father christmas in the house at all so used to ask for my stocking to be in the porch. I think my parents "collected it from the porch" and brought it inside at an appropriate time!😉

TheHillIsMine · 25/12/2025 06:57

For years I used red, blue and green dot stickers to denote whose gift was whose. This year I ran out of one colour. Substituted another, came to fill the stocking and can't work out whose is whose as apparently there are two new colours. Kids don't believe anymore but even so. I've Amazon primed new stickers in all the doors for next year.

We always had stockings downstairs, one year they wanted them on their beds. It was awful as they opened their gifts when they woke up and I really missed seeing them do it. Everyone agreed to stockings downstairs again after that.

Pandasarethebest · 25/12/2025 06:48

My daughter age 2 at the time, didn't want father christmas in her bedroom. Fair enough so always been downstairs phew

EatShitDel · 25/12/2025 06:08

TheWonderhorse · 24/12/2025 23:05

I'm currently in my DDs bed, as part of the mass Christmas sleepover, and waiting for my eldest (who is fifteen!) to fall asleep so I can text DP to come and do the stockings. I'm here as a mole 🤣

" I'm here as a mole 🤣"

Lmao, maybe I'm delirious from lack of sleep but this has cracked me up 😂

EatShitDel · 25/12/2025 06:04

MammaTill2Pojkar · 24/12/2025 22:37

Must say I loved waking up to a heavy stocking weighing my legs down on Christmas morning though, so it is a bit of a shame (I had a freakishly large stocking, at least twice the size of my sisters' ones 😅).

I loved that feeling too! It felt like real magic that you could actually feel..having gone to with the empty stocking and then waking to it weighing down on you!

Katkincake · 25/12/2025 05:00

Santa got caught filling stocking in the spare room last night. I thought DS was asleep about 11 but he wandered in saying he couldn’t sleep. I had my back to him with the clothes airer between us so I’m hoping he didn’t spot me. Dumped out the parcels whilst he went for a wee and put empty sack back on door handle and resigned myself to setting an alarm.

10 mins later DS wandered downstairs saying he couldn’t sleep and has spent the night next to me. DH went to sleep in the spare room and thankfully sorted it.

might be the last year of playing the “is he asleep game” as DS is 11 so probably sussed it by next Xmas. Gutted I didn’t get the memo on duplicate stocking, that would have been a game changer.

springtome · 25/12/2025 04:31

My kids are 16 and 18. I put their stockings out before they went to bed (18 year old went out to say goodbye to his girlfriend and 16 year old was falling asleep in the living room). I was tired and wanted to go to sleep myself 😂

Shelby2010 · 25/12/2025 01:35

One good thing about Covid meant the stockings were hung up on the outside of the bedroom doors. So much easier to fill that it’s stayed the tradition….

AInightingale · 25/12/2025 01:34

Thank God my children now wake so late that Santa is able to fill the stockings at 7am.

TheNameWasOnceChosen · 25/12/2025 01:34

Stocking are delivered to my bed room so we can open them while I'm in bed !!

Hairymaryfairy · 25/12/2025 01:30

Stockings are hung on the wall in the frontroom here no fire place to hang them on. When I was a child they was hung on the fireplace.

BrokenWingsCantFly · 25/12/2025 01:20

EmbroideredGardener · 24/12/2025 22:42

We do stockings on the beds so they would play with the smaller toys from them at 5am and not be dragged downstairs at a god awful hour!

Haha, same.

When I was a child my DB would come into my room all excited, stupidly early, to open them together. I would always have prefered to sleep a bit more (sleep issue since childhood), but my DM would be glad for the extra sleep. My dad would hear we were up so he would head downstairs to put the fire on and Xmas music to make the room cosy for us, ready for the main presents.

With my DD the sticking would be put out empty downstairs before she went up, I would then fill it and take it up on my way to bed. As she got older and harder to get to sleep i would leave it leaning against her door. She had no siblings but her coming in to share what she had had in her stocking give me time to come around fully before heading downstairs

Mama2many73 · 25/12/2025 01:04

KabukiNoh · 24/12/2025 22:00

AIBU to remind you to go put the stocking presents in your kids’ rooms? I can feel the post-Christmas-Eve-party-hosting-wine-induced lethargy setting in. Those stockings seem so far from my sofa right now. There’s been so much trauma over the years from that unreliable Tooth Fairy character. Surely Santa won’t let us down…

Santa never came into our rooms as kids, stocking were also on the couch /chair with your presents.

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 25/12/2025 01:02

We used to put them in their rooms and it was a pain creeping in. Now at 19 and 17 I just leave them by the bedroom door and pray they don't trip over them in the night
I did suggest leaving them downstairs a few times but was told that wasn't the same, they wanted them in their bedroom (and DH agreed with them).
Thankfully I don't need to worry about DS. He doesn't understand Christmas due to autism so just put a few bits in his stocking and let him look at it when he's ready but the stocking stays in our room.

Mmmnotsure · 25/12/2025 00:51

Stockings go at the end of the bed here.

I remember sitting on the stairs one year until around 4 am because DD had still not gone to sleep. I must have been mad.

Just taken and filled DS (20s) stocking, and he very sweetly pretended to be asleep.

Bagpuss2022 · 25/12/2025 00:50

Youngest has hera on the end of her bed (she’s 15) she LOVES the stocking always has our two adult sons our bay granddaughter and husbands under the tree
I’m awake on the sofa waiting for DH to get in from work

Welikebeingcosy · 25/12/2025 00:48

Blimey, right after reading through this thread, DD has just woken up, stomped right out of bed past her full sack, gotten into to my bed and not noticed a thing...😂😂😂

Welikebeingcosy · 25/12/2025 00:37

KnottyKnitting · 25/12/2025 00:23

Years ago, we put a stocking in our DDs room when she was three and she woke up at about 2 am and kept us awake asking for it every 20 mins- we were shattered as also had a non sleeping 15m old at the time. Wrecked Christmas as we were all horribly tired. Since then we had stockings in the lounge under the tree!

I can remember age around six, hearing my dad crying out "the f*ing birds are singing', as they'd been waiting up all night for me to sleep as I was too excited.....I just assumed in my head at that time that they had to be up to let SC in through the front door as we didn't have a fireplace...

😂😂😂😂

ZeldaFighter · 25/12/2025 00:35

Slimmed down stocking this year after complaints about tat (and uneaten treats) one is a duplicate stocking so that's done ready for a bait and switch but I'll do them all when I go for a night time wee in a few hours

Welikebeingcosy · 25/12/2025 00:35

Randomlygeneratedname · 24/12/2025 23:15

We do pillow cases, just random ones each year. We pick which one they will use as part of the elf of a shelf thing early in December (a sort of saw-esque game, which one will you choose? 🤣 -its only sinister in my head). Then I fill the chosen one's match and shove them in the garage under some tarpaulin. The empty ones go on the end of the beds, dc go to sleep and the swap happens.

I like the end of the bed, if downstairs they get muddled up with tree gifts and would want to open them all then and there. I need a break from the presents for a bit, stockings pillow case gifts get open in our bed when they wake up, go downstairs, eat the chocolate in their stockings, play with the toys till breakfast is ready. After breakfast, get dressed then tree gift time. Breaks it all up for me.

Side note: when I was a kid, I tried to trick father Christmas and put a duvet cover instead of a pillow case, hoping he would give me more presents. I woke to a full pillow case and a note saying 'nice try'.

Hahaha that's so funny about the duvet cover....did your mum know you'd done before bed it or was it a surprise as she came to fill it with presents?

We also had pillowcases as a kid alongside our stocking on the end of the bed. They lived in the Christmas decorations box and they were giant pillowcases for pillows I've never seen the same size as in real life. I've no idea where my parents got them from, we definitely had no pillows that size at home. The pillowcase was filled with the big gifts and the stocking with the smaller ones.

Hallywally · 25/12/2025 00:32

We’ve always done presents in the living room & opened together. Just seems so much easier!

KnottyKnitting · 25/12/2025 00:23

Years ago, we put a stocking in our DDs room when she was three and she woke up at about 2 am and kept us awake asking for it every 20 mins- we were shattered as also had a non sleeping 15m old at the time. Wrecked Christmas as we were all horribly tired. Since then we had stockings in the lounge under the tree!

EdinaTheConfessor · 25/12/2025 00:23

When I say sorted I obviously mean putting the stuff I chose, wrapped and organised into named bags, ready to be decanted into stockings, into the stockings.

RandomUsernameHere · 25/12/2025 00:22

Done, they hung them above the fireplace before they went upstairs. Much easier than sneaking around in bedrooms!