I know I have another thread going. Dh has I just lost it with me because I spilt some food whilst serving him- it just fell on the side, not on him and wasn’t on purpose. He says I deliberately made a mess of his food? FUCK. Teenage children bewildered, I’ve had to run & hide…but really…. He’s finally shown his unreasonable arse hasn’t he? How can I be blamed for accidentally spilling his food? All others now eating in silence. I have nowhere to go and he has all the £. Don’t ever be a sahm - you think it’s fine, it’s not, ever. It takes away any agency you may have in your life forever.