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To be secretly fuming about my colleague ruining the early finish today for everyone?

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felixnavidad · 24/12/2025 19:21

I work in the public sector and apparently it’s an unwritten rule that if work is quiet and there’s no emergencies, we get an early finish from the office. We were warned by other colleagues that this is by no means guaranteed. It’s an arrangement between the managers and the staff.

One colleague this morning swans in and starts talking about how happy she is to finish at lunchtime today. Nothing mentioned by the managers, just her decision. The manager immediately side eyes her and says it’s not a guarantee.

All morning she craps on about it to the point that the manager says “if you sit down and do your work we’ll see, and get off your phone”. Said colleague refuses, keeps going on and by lunch the manager says that unfortunately we won’t be leaving early, because of this colleague.

We’re all pretty annoyed by that point but this colleague is now going about the office whinging about the fact that we didn’t get to go early, but it was her fault.

Now I know this is pretty crappy management by the manager, but AIBU to be pretty fuming about the colleague not just sitting down and doing her work?!

OP posts:
Fupoffyagrasshole · 24/12/2025 19:26

Where do you work where management are such power trippers? This is nuts ! The manager is a dick that’s who’s fault it is

you aren’t children - couldn’t work somewhere I’m treated like that

ToKittyornottoKitty · 24/12/2025 19:24

She didn’t have to leave that colleague there either, she did it out of spite. Very festive

felixnavidad · 24/12/2025 19:24

ToKittyornottoKitty · 24/12/2025 19:22

You should be annoyed at both, both caused this on purpose 🤷‍♀️

I know the manager was pretty crappy in what she did, but in her defence said colleague would probably kick off if they were the only one left in the office. I just feel so frustrated about that colleague not being able to keep a lid on it and act normally for half a day.

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ToKittyornottoKitty · 24/12/2025 19:22

You should be annoyed at both, both caused this on purpose 🤷‍♀️

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