To be angry woman at soft play told ds to stop bothering her

Then stop reporting them, just ignore them.
Other people are reading them going by responses.
As you can tell by this thread, no one likes a snitch.

Exactly

Aww bless him 🤣🤣🤣

Your child shouldn't be bothering the other child. The mum was probably hoping you'd correct his behaviour.

Yes sorry OP I’m with the others - I think the other woman was quite right. Your son sounds annoying, if it were my child I would have told him to go play on something else and leave the lady (and other child) alone.

Why are you teaching you child to be a mithering tattle tale? Sounds like he was annoying the other Mum, I'd have told him to gtf go away as well.
Also your son was in the wrong anyway.

OP's kid sounds like the entitled type that can't see another kid have something without wanting it. I wonder where he gets that from.

What?? This is such weird guidance to have given. I'm afraid this situation is down to you. I'm sure your intentions are good but you're way out of line with most people's expectations of normal behaviour. You don't make the resolution between a child and an adult they don't know. It's child to child or adult to adult. Child to adult is only in an established relationship. Why would you put him in this position?

I dont know why but I am a magnet to chatty small children and do not enjoy it. Its ok if its a relative but a strange small child chattering away is awkward and parents dont seem to think its in any way intrusive. I have even had a mum say while William is having a lovely chat, I will just pop to the bakery across the road when I was accosted by a child in a cafe. Im not a bloody babysitter. I could never speak to a child like that though, its not ok. Because of that, I wish parents would be more thoughtful of the people their, I am sure very sweet but not mine, children, approach and call them back.

Because your DS has no right to push in.

Absofuckinglutely!

Well yes actually, you do. You’re supposed to supervise your child at all times at soft play. It’s called being a parent.

No. He comes to you. Then you decide what to do. A 5 year old can’t parent other kids!!!

it’s so risky as well - he could get shouted at or worse.

1. By your own description of events he was, he was very rude to both the boy and the mother who where not doing anything wrong

and

2. how would you know as 'apparently' you weren't keeping an eye on him

You come off insanely badly here. Your child is not special, other do not have to stop what they are doing to accommodate him but its quite obvious he is learning this unsocial behavior from you. Its a shame because it will have a terrible impact on his social life.

Um nope.

What have you told him to do at school?

Just in case this is genuine - OP, you are quite bonkers and need to control your kid.

Why are your kids still going to soft plays? Most have a much younger cut off date..

Errrr no.

So your DS is a taddletale... that will win him lots of friends from outstanding social grace.

Yes little kids are learning but its your job to correct that behavior and teach your child not to be entitled and impatient.

The other child was on the car first, he has just as much right as your DS and doesn't have to give it up or share. So 'telling on him' to his mother is suppose to elicit what response?

She sent your child back to you so you could parent your child who was causing the nuisance and bothering strangers.

I just know OP is one of those people who thinks that she's entitled to have whatever she wants, just because she wants it. And that as long as she's not screaming and shouting at someone or swearing, then repeatedly "politely" asking them to do/not do xyz until they get so pissed off with her that they give in, is acceptable behaviour.

It's not polite at all OP, it's bullying and harassing and completely out of order. Especially as you no doubt get cross if people don't comply.

I was always taught not to tell tales. I'm afraid I would find it irritating.

I've never heard of anyone getting their small child to go and complain to random strangers, you have a very unique parenting style I must say..

What's the obsession with "reverses" around here? Is it just a way to get "completely made up bollocks" under the radar?

No prize!

Agree!

The other kid wasn't misbehaving though. Someone not doing what you want them to do doesn't automatically mean they're doing something wrong.

The other kid was playing with the toy, your son needs to wait his turn which means waiting until the other kid has finished playing with it.

You're teaching your kid to be a narcissist who thinks everyone else is "wrong" if he can't have his own way.

Teaching him to approach other parents is also wrong of you. You are his parent, you're the one he should come to if he has a problem. He's 5! Stop expecting him to behave like an adult, it's shirking your parental responsibility towards him and isn't safe for him - one day he'll approach the wrong person and wrongly accuse their child of something and your son could end up physically harmed as a result. You can't expect him to accurately judge who is safe to approach, at his age. You're the one who should approach the other parent if their child is genuinely misbehaving towards yours such as physical violence, snatching toys off him or persistently bullying him.

You should watch him more too. You didn't see him approaching this other woman repeatedly. This means you wouldn't have seen if he'd willingly gone off with an abductor without any fuss, you'd have just looked up from your phone and realised your son was no longer in the soft play and you'd have no idea where he was or when he was taken.