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Xmas day in PJs?

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Ultravox · 24/12/2025 11:13

I read it on here quite a lot that people spend all of Xmas day in PJs. Each to their own and all that but I just can’t imagine it…I guess I could imagine it more if we got a takeaway for dinner but just can’t imagine cooking & eating a Xmas dinner in PJs! So am I in a minority? Is it normal?

OP posts:
IidentifyastheGrinch · 25/12/2025 09:19

SecretWitch · 25/12/2025 01:46

Are people really that invested in what other people wear for Christmas? Wear what you like. I’ll be in yoga pants, tank and cardigan sweater. The thought of dressing up at home is not my thing but if it is yours, go for it

Exactly.
How do so many people have such rigid thinking?
I can't even imagine being so small minded that I would be"horrified" by what particular style it clothing someone else wears at home.

MasterBeth · 25/12/2025 09:15

Parker231 · 25/12/2025 09:12

Who said anyone was buying uncomfortable clothes?

All the people who wear pyjamas because pyjamas are more comfortable.

My clothes are comfortable. I buy clothes that fit me and they are... Comfortable.

Parker231 · 25/12/2025 09:12

MasterBeth · 25/12/2025 08:53

What are these clothes everyone is terrified of that are so uncomfortable they have to wear nightwear around the house? Why are you buying yourself uncomfortable normal clothes?

Who said anyone was buying uncomfortable clothes?

MasterBeth · 25/12/2025 08:53

What are these clothes everyone is terrified of that are so uncomfortable they have to wear nightwear around the house? Why are you buying yourself uncomfortable normal clothes?

Iloveburgerswaymorethanishould · 25/12/2025 02:11

SillyNavyTiger · 24/12/2025 12:59

Normal as in usual or typical, no.

I don't know anyone who doesn't wear clothes during the day. I do find it very weird, nightwear is not that comfy anyway and I can't imagine being home all day anyway. My kids would go nuts, they at least go on a bike ride or go and play football, so we need clothes!

If people are happy, it doesn't hurt anyone. I can't figure out what kind of clothes people do buy if they are that uncomfortable they can't bear to wear them at home during the day😂

I literally get dressed to go to work (change into uniform there) then as soon as I’m home I put jamas on. I then have a bath/shower at bedtime and put fresh ones on. Repeat daily. If I’m not leaving the house I just put clean ones on. I have “women’s problems “ and hate anything tight on my tummy. So loose clothes all the way. As it happens, I had surgery yesterday morning. Had a brand new pair to take with me, a new pair for when I got home. Then washed and put my Xmas ones in to match with my Oh and kids. I’ve got a lovely new set for tomorrow (having a full 3 course Christmas lunch being delivered!!) Then, the only day we are having family (that isn’t my mum), Boxing Day… we’ve got a few family members (adult kids and their babies) and parents coming for a few nibbles etc. they all know I’m going to be a bit useless and probably not much of a hostess… so they are all coming in jamas to have a family jama day!! Even awake now in agony, it’s turning out to be a really nice Christmas!!

pizzaHeart · 25/12/2025 01:51

PumpkinSparkleFairy · 24/12/2025 11:27

Of course it’s not normal to wear pyjamas all day if you’re well 😂

This^
especially if you do cooking as well.

SecretWitch · 25/12/2025 01:46

Are people really that invested in what other people wear for Christmas? Wear what you like. I’ll be in yoga pants, tank and cardigan sweater. The thought of dressing up at home is not my thing but if it is yours, go for it

Rainydayinlondon · 25/12/2025 01:33

I love breakfast in pyjamas but can’t imagine eating turkey and all the trimmings in night clothes.

Velvet all the way here!

Intothelight123 · 25/12/2025 00:17

Whenever I am home I am wearing lounge clothes or pjs (same thing) unless I know someone is coming or I need to be out somewhere. No one would know and im comfy. My eldest will be wearing pjs to my sisters house for xmas tomorrow. No one really cares.

Handeyethingyowl · 25/12/2025 00:10

I am quite frequently in pyjama bottoms at home, but ironically, on Christmas day I quite like getting dressed up and would never wear pyjamas all day. I don’t think wearing pyjamas goes well with drinking fizz - personal opinion.

JetFlight · 24/12/2025 23:59

It just shows we’re at. Everyone rushed, hardworking and busy. So much so that the ideal celebration includes comfort and relaxation at the heart of it.

SouthernNights59 · 24/12/2025 23:38

I agree OP, and never, ever, spend the day in pjs unless I'm ill. Thankfully people don't do it here as Christmas is in summer, but the very idea of spending the day in pjs gives me the shudders. I would feel like I'd given up on life. And, I might add, I am spending the day alone, not even then would I contemplate it. It's downright weird.

billiongulls · 24/12/2025 23:16

I mean, who cares? Youv wear what you want, other people wear what they want, everyone is happy.

Honeyandwine · 24/12/2025 23:06

I LOVE pjs and will wear them as soon as I am home. They are comfortable and clean. I don’t understand how people can wear jeans and relax. My kids will wear their new pjs.

IidentifyastheGrinch · 24/12/2025 22:54

namechangetheworld · 24/12/2025 22:49

I'm not sure why you equate "taking family photos" with "treating Christmas as a photo shoot". Don't you ever take photos of your loved ones on special occasions? Or do you think it somehow spoils the fun?

And no, pyjamas aren't generally 'robust' - they're designed for sleeping in. So quite the opposite, really.

I guess I might take the odd photo on Christmas day but not really,.I tend to take photos when we're out and about.

And I don't know where you buy your pyjamas but mine are warm and cosy and not at all flimsy.

FromageTime · 24/12/2025 22:53

We sleep naked, so any pyjamas I own are strictly for lounging. I’d think it was a bit skanky to spend the day wearing pyjamas you’ve slept in, but I might change into my Desmond and Dempsey ones after our morning dog walk as it’s just immediate family here tomorrow.

Holidaywoes12 · 24/12/2025 22:52

Parker231 · 24/12/2025 21:08

I can’t imagine that level of dressing up when you’re only eating at home - doesn’t seem very relaxing or practical for playing with toddlers on the floor or family games like Twister (big favourite in our home).

its never stopped the crazy family games :) baring in mind we are farmers, so it makes a massive change for us to have an excuse to dress up

namechangetheworld · 24/12/2025 22:49

IidentifyastheGrinch · 24/12/2025 22:41

Tbh we don't treat Christmas as a photo shoot we are too busy chatting and playing games

Decent pyjamas don't have to be made of silk and can be perfectly robust.

Logically your response is entirely irrational. Most pyjamas are far more substantial than shorts and t shirt or a little party dress and noone would baulk at living in either of those.

I'm not sure why you equate "taking family photos" with "treating Christmas as a photo shoot". Don't you ever take photos of your loved ones on special occasions? Or do you think it somehow spoils the fun?

And no, pyjamas aren't generally 'robust' - they're designed for sleeping in. So quite the opposite, really.

FerrisWheelsandLilacs · 24/12/2025 22:47

Bayleaf30 · 24/12/2025 13:34

If you’re making the effort to get showered, changed, presumably put underwear on, then put PJs on I don’t get why you wouldn’t just get dressed in normal lounge clothes. That way you can also go outside when needed.

I’d be too cold sitting around in PJs anyway. All power to you though if it works for you.

This is a fine line though - I have bought “lounge wear” that I regular sleep in, and “pyjamas” that look more like lounge wear and that I wear as such as you’d never know they’d been marketed as pyjamas.

IidentifyastheGrinch · 24/12/2025 22:41

namechangetheworld · 24/12/2025 22:35

Horses for courses, I guess! The thought of spending ANY day in pyjamas (except when ill and confined to the bed) honestly makes me feel a bit ill. Especially Christmas, when people are trying to take nice family photos. Generally pyjamas are thin, crease easily, and, well, look like pyjamas. And if you're spending £200 on polyester silk pyjamas just to sit around in them on Christmas Day that's bonkers.

Tbh we don't treat Christmas as a photo shoot we are too busy chatting and playing games

Decent pyjamas don't have to be made of silk and can be perfectly robust.

Logically your response is entirely irrational. Most pyjamas are far more substantial than shorts and t shirt or a little party dress and noone would baulk at living in either of those.

namechangetheworld · 24/12/2025 22:35

IidentifyastheGrinch · 24/12/2025 22:29

You realise that's totally irrational though?
I can't imagine being that limited in my thinking.

Objectively a decent fresh pair of pyjamas is no different from casual wear and probably covers far more than a skimpy party dress would.

Horses for courses, I guess! The thought of spending ANY day in pyjamas (except when ill and confined to the bed) honestly makes me feel a bit ill. Especially Christmas, when people are trying to take nice family photos. Generally pyjamas are thin, crease easily, and, well, look like pyjamas. And if you're spending £200 on polyester silk pyjamas just to sit around in them on Christmas Day that's bonkers.

IidentifyastheGrinch · 24/12/2025 22:30

gamerchick · 24/12/2025 22:26

Not everyone is having a Christmas dinner. We're not.

Same, we are having a huge cheeseboard with salads and fresh bread and salamis.

IidentifyastheGrinch · 24/12/2025 22:29

namechangetheworld · 24/12/2025 22:19

I just find the idea of spending the day in pyjamas - even clean ones - really grim. Especially the thought of eating Christmas dinner in them. Boke!

DC will wear their onesies/dressing gowns to open stocking bits (usually in our bedroom anyway) but then have to get dressed. Nothing fancy, just jumpers and leggings, but they need to be washed and dressed before opening anything else.

You realise that's totally irrational though?
I can't imagine being that limited in my thinking.

Objectively a decent fresh pair of pyjamas is no different from casual wear and probably covers far more than a skimpy party dress would.

gamerchick · 24/12/2025 22:26

namechangetheworld · 24/12/2025 22:19

I just find the idea of spending the day in pyjamas - even clean ones - really grim. Especially the thought of eating Christmas dinner in them. Boke!

DC will wear their onesies/dressing gowns to open stocking bits (usually in our bedroom anyway) but then have to get dressed. Nothing fancy, just jumpers and leggings, but they need to be washed and dressed before opening anything else.

Not everyone is having a Christmas dinner. We're not.

gamerchick · 24/12/2025 22:25

Parker231 · 24/12/2025 22:00

if you read earlier in the thread, we’ll have 20 of our extended family with us tomorrow - all will be wearing themed pj’s for the annual competition.

The pj’s I have are silk and beautiful - definitely won’t be worn in bed

What's the prize?

I kinda wish I'd got silk jammies for Christmas now. They do feel nice on.

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