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To refuse to let DD vape?

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CoastAndSand · 23/12/2025 23:06

DD (16) wants to vape in her room. We have tried everything for 2 years to get her to stop vaping and she won’t so the rule so far has been no vaping in the house or garden.

DD has asked recently if she can vape in her room. DH thinks it’s fine as long as she has her window open but I don’t agree with him. AIBU? I’m not happy with DD vaping at all, let alone inside the house! What would you do?

OP posts:
CoastAndSand · 23/12/2025 23:15

I‘m not happy with the fact she’s vaping at all, let alone in the house. DH wants me to let her vape in her room with the window open but I don’t agree.

OP posts:
youalright · 23/12/2025 23:10

CoastAndSand · 23/12/2025 23:08

Why wouldn’t it bother you?

Because i vape in the house. Smoking no as it smells and turns everything yellow but vaping doesn't

CoastAndSand · 23/12/2025 23:08

youalright · 23/12/2025 23:07

It wouldn't bother me but its your house so your choice

Why wouldn’t it bother you?

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MumChp · 23/12/2025 23:08

No. I won't have it indoor.

fashionqueen0123 · 23/12/2025 23:08

Good grief no. How is she buying them? At 14?!

youalright · 23/12/2025 23:07

It wouldn't bother me but its your house so your choice

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