Hey
First time posting and looking for some advice.
Mil is always making excuses as to why she can't visit mainly due to not being able to leave her pet. We can't visit her as my children are afraid of her pet that she hasn't trained.
Mil booked a meal for us and SIL and her children bearing in mind SIL never bothers with our children to the point we haven't seen her in years this being since I stopped making the effort as it was always one sided with myself offering to visit etc.
MIL has booked a meal for all of us, my husband, children, herself, her partner, SIL and her children. Am I being unreasonable to not attend this meal considering I've made countless efforts for MIL to visit and it's always thrown back at me as well as SIL never having anything to do with us.
Partner is saying he's fed up that we see my family but they make the effort. Feeling fed up and deflated by it all.