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AIBU to keep the cheese?

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dontmalbeconme · 23/12/2025 09:05

Ordeted a pricey delivery of fancy Christmas cheese from a specialist cheese shop, which was due to be delivered on 19th. It didn't arrive. Spoke to the company who were super helpful, and it seems they'd been collossally let down by DPD. Customer Services were absolutely fabulous, advised they'd had widespread delivery issues and arranged to send out a replacement order, which arrived yesterday.

I've now just had a notification to say my order is arriving today, and a message apologising for the problems with my original order.(I suspect they've done a blanket resend of all the orders in the affected shipment).

What do I do?

I don't want to pay twice for extra cheese we don't need as it was expensive and it's Christmas, so an expensive month!

I can't see the point in refusing delivery/sending perishable cheese back (it's mostly stinky soft cheeses rather than hard cheese), as it'll just get binned.

I did wonder about the food bank, but they don't have refridgeration and so don't take perishsbles.

Do I just accept it as 'bonus' cheese? I feel a bit bad as it's the cheese company who lose out, and it's not their fault and they bent over backwards to resolve the issue with fabulous customer service.

OP posts:
Letthemeatgateau · 23/12/2025 09:35

They won't ask you to pay again.

Let them know it's arriving and just say "what would you like me to do with it". They'll say keep it or give it away.

HeadyLamarr · 23/12/2025 09:35

They can't charg you again, you only ordered one cheese from them and it's their issue with their courier that's the problem.

Just email saying the delayed cheese has arrived and are they going to send someone to collect it or should you keep it?

curiouscat1987 · 23/12/2025 09:32

If you cant manage/dont want it and theyve said you can keep it, put it on the free food section of olio and im sure you'll make someone's christmas!

dontmalbeconme · 23/12/2025 09:24

Yes, of course emailing the company would probably be the right thing to do. Just don't want them to tell me that I need to pay again, or expect me to run around sending stuff back as I'm busy enough already as I'm hosting for 3 days from tomorrow. I've wasted enough time on cheese.

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Fromage · 23/12/2025 09:12

You have to tell the company, you only paid for one lot, which you have. The next delivery?

That's nacho cheese.

Yourlifeinyourhands · 23/12/2025 09:12

I’d just keep the cheese as it can’t be sent back as like you said it will go off!

lazyarse123 · 23/12/2025 09:10

DeathStare · 23/12/2025 09:08

Just email the company, explain and ask what they would like you to do with the cheese.

I would do this.

oohyoudevilyou · 23/12/2025 09:10

Phone the store and ask what they want you to do with it, but make it clear that youre only paying for one batch. If they say keep it, then give it away to friends or neighbours. If they say return/refuse delivery, it's their problem not yours

DeathStare · 23/12/2025 09:08

Just email the company, explain and ask what they would like you to do with the cheese.

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