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Can I secretly rent my house to my son

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Pinkpanther111 · 22/12/2025 18:19

i am wanting to rent a bungalow. Instead of selling my house my son will pay rent to me.
can I do this without telling anyone?

TIA

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Wot23 · 25/12/2025 14:29

Donsyb · 25/12/2025 10:53

Just FYI, you only have to do self assessment over a certain amount (I think £1000 per year profit). Below that, you can declare it online on the government gateway.

why not make an informed comment, rather than what you "think"

Check if you need to send a Self Assessment tax return - GOV.UK

if not required to submit an SA then you do not declare anything on the "government gateway" since there would be no reason for you to be on it in the first place.

Check if you need to send a Self Assessment tax return

Use this tool to find out if you need to send a tax return for the 2024 to 2025 tax year (6 April 2024 to 5 April 2025).

https://www.gov.uk/check-if-you-need-tax-return

Thelittleweasel · 25/12/2025 11:20

@ You most certainly will have to tell HMRC and - if appropriate to your circumstances - pay tax on any profit after taking off any legitimate expenses for which you have receipts!

Donsyb · 25/12/2025 10:53

Mandylovescandy · 22/12/2025 18:24

If you have a mortgage you are probably supposed to tell your bank and you would need to do self assessment for the income tax

Just FYI, you only have to do self assessment over a certain amount (I think £1000 per year profit). Below that, you can declare it online on the government gateway.

SecretSloth99 · 24/12/2025 14:33

Ex-landlord here.

lots of legally required checks you need to do to ensure property is safe and to protect yourself if things go sour. Without the required documents a section 21 eviction notice will not stand up and you would need to wait for three months of rental arrears before you serve the other type of notice / go through the courts. Annual gas safety checks and boiler servicing, electrical safety, right to rent documents and checks.

secondly, tenancy agreement is an absolutely must - also to protect yourself in case of non payment of rent or similar

thirdly, tax implications. You would need to declare to HMRC for tax purposes, plus when you come to sell you may be liable for capital gain tax depending on increase on property value and time rented out. Bug fines and no lenience from HMRC if you are caught out. Plus tax threshold for landlords are increasing under new government and renting out property isn’t the cash cow people think it is and certainly not how it used to be.

I would see it all the time in landlord forums, people just like yourself would rent to family and it went horrible wrong, properties were trashed and thousands of pounds of repairs. And most say it started out with zero issues in the relationship.

proceed with caution and don’t dodge the tax. You’ll have to evidence income to be able to pass affordability checks anyway on your next rental.

NasiDagang · 24/12/2025 14:09

Dodging inheritance tax, I think.🤔

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 24/12/2025 13:38

TaffetaPhrases · 22/12/2025 18:48

Dodging care home fees later op?

Only if he's over 60!

NearlyXmasy · 24/12/2025 12:51

carchi · 24/12/2025 11:52

I'm afraid the word secret and public media like mumsnet are not compatible. Whatever you have in mind you have now published your thoughts so wherever you go from here be very careful.

Mumsnet is anonymous…

Pigeonpoodle · 24/12/2025 11:59

Pinkpanther111 · 22/12/2025 18:19

i am wanting to rent a bungalow. Instead of selling my house my son will pay rent to me.
can I do this without telling anyone?

TIA

Sure, you can keep it a secret if you’re comfortable with committing tax fraud and are prepared for the criminal consequences if HMRC found out.

Surely you must realise that the fact you need feel the need to keep it “secret” means that you know you’d be acting illegally or improperly, and presumably you just want posters to say stuff like “yeah, just do it. my mate does it and HMRC haven’t cottoned on yet!”

MrsJeanLuc · 24/12/2025 11:52

Pinkpanther111 · 23/12/2025 20:05

What I mean is do I have to go through solicitors etc.

Yes you can do it, and no you don't need a solicitor.

  1. I strongly advise having a formal rent agreement with your son. You don't need a solicitor to do this, there are many online services that will facilitate this for a small(ish) fee - I use OpenRent
  2. You need to declare the income to HMRC
  3. If you have a mortgage on your house you may need to tell your mortgage lender
  4. Your son needs to pay Council Tax on the house. You simply write to the Council telling them he is your tenant. You will pay CT on the bungalow.
  5. Think about who pays for buildings and content insurances. You may want to pay building insurance on your house but leave your son to insure the contents himself.

I can't think of anything else at the moment. It's all fairly straightforward.
Good luck op

carchi · 24/12/2025 11:52

I'm afraid the word secret and public media like mumsnet are not compatible. Whatever you have in mind you have now published your thoughts so wherever you go from here be very careful.

ToadRage · 24/12/2025 09:50

Who will it be a secret from? If you are going to be charging him well below market rate he may not be able to claim housing benefit. This happened when i rented from my Uncle, he gave us 3 months rent free then charged us well below market rate and we were refused housing benefit because they believed due to the only amount, the property was not for commercial gain. This was several years ago so rules may have changed but if you are going down this route to give him the opportunity to save for his own place he may not get benefits.

PUGMEISTER21 · 24/12/2025 09:24

zipadeedodah · 22/12/2025 18:20

I think you might have to tell HMRC but you'll have to check that.

Not very secret, now you have postee on mums net. If you dont declare to HMRC, its tax fraud.

nevernotmaybe · 24/12/2025 09:22

MaggieFS · 22/12/2025 18:24

Who is/are anyone? You will presumably need a tenancy contract with your rental bungalow. Further, it would be prudent to have one with your son; time and time again amicable relationships turn sour and there’s no end of posts on here about the bother it causes, especially when houses or money are involved. Further, you may well have to declare your rental income to HMRC. Also need to do the right thing by council tax. Beyond that, you don’t have to “announce” it, but you will still be listed with the land registry as the owner of your property so if you’re trying to hide from an extreme nosy parker, they could check.

You don't need any contract for a tenancy, it has statutory terms for any legal tenancy formed, and a legal tenancy is automatically formed immediately if you live somewhere and pay any money to do so. These terms are all you really need, and are honestly better if something turned sour anyway than a set initial term you would expect to be given.

Council tax doesn't care who pays generally, although for things like single person discount they do need to be kept informed. But as above as soon as the son is paying they are legally a tenant and responsible for the council tax anyway.

Cloudysky81 · 24/12/2025 08:09

So you should be declaring the income to HMRC and paying the appropriate tax on it.

if you have a mortgage you should also be informing your mortgage company and in some areas you have to inform the council.

You could probably get away without anyone finding out though. If your son was to “move in” with you before you move to the bungalow. He could also pay your rent directly to reduce the money being transferred.

FenceBooksCycle · 24/12/2025 08:04

Do you really want to teach your son that fiddling one's taxes and breaking the law is ok? That's not good parenting.

If neither of you are going to be claiming any kind of benefits which would require declaring this, you could get away with you agreeing for him to live in your home rent-free and for him to choose to pay the rent on the bungalow, but you'll have no legal power to force him if he starts missing payments so this is unwise. Any kind of enforceable agreement between you would create tax obligations and landlord obligations which would make it impossible to keep secret.

budlea64 · 24/12/2025 08:00

I think there are some rules about people on UC renting from family and claiming benefit for that.
So if your son claims that is a consideration.

2to5 · 24/12/2025 07:52

It is perfectly reasonable to ask as you are hoping for a way to avoid tax or work out the best way possible to do it with minimum cost, if your son was renting and you paid his rent to help him it wouldn't be an issue! Who really wants to pay taxes beyond our earnings?? We are taxed on ridiculous things and its never ending. I would be looking at getting him on the mortgage to avoid inheritance tax down the line. You have paid tax on the money you've earnt to pay for it.

Moii · 24/12/2025 05:32

You have to declare rent whether the tenant is family or not.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 23/12/2025 22:09

Crazyclover · 23/12/2025 20:58

If your son will be claiming housing benefit then no you can’t as you are a close relative

Not so, Crazyclover - it's perfectly possible if it's a properly set up tenancy and not what they refer to as a contrived one

Crazyclover · 23/12/2025 20:58

If your son will be claiming housing benefit then no you can’t as you are a close relative

Isinglass20 · 23/12/2025 20:43

Well OP can’t. First obtain consent from mortgage company and if given get TR1 or for partial transfer TP1 forms from Land Registry as it’s transfer of equity, then a legal and tax check, to ensure it is not treated as a gift, then register completed forms at Land Registry.

Ensure it is written in your Will.

Best to do it through a solicitor

Isinglass20 · 23/12/2025 20:37

Well OP can’t. I’m I’m I’m in

grinchmcgrinchface · 23/12/2025 20:27

Pinkpanther111 · 23/12/2025 20:05

What I mean is do I have to go through solicitors etc.

You would need to register as a landlord & do the appropriate landlord things like yearly gas safety check etc. and obviously declare your rental income to HMRC.

Pinkpanther111 · 23/12/2025 20:07

HugglesAndSnuggles · 22/12/2025 22:25

No. Someone I know got reported for doing this and had to pay a hefty back payment in tax (nearly £20k) plus a fine. The fine is at the discretion of the HMRC but theirs was 20% of the tax owed, so another couple of grand. Seriously, don’t risk it. It only takes one person to report you and they’ll be on to you.

Thank you. This is what I needed to know.

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Pinkpanther111 · 23/12/2025 20:05

SwansOnTheLake · 22/12/2025 22:14

Who would it be a secret from?

What I mean is do I have to go through solicitors etc.

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