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To feel bad for Daniella Westbrook, Katie Price, and the like?

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GarliceGran · 22/12/2025 18:12

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15402379/Danniella-Westbrook-surgery-cocaine-nose-EastEnders.html

Daniella is having yet more surgery. I presume that she’s having it abroad as UK surgeons won’t touch her now. Same with Katie Price and numerous other celebrities.

Ive always had a bit of soft spot for the likes of Daniella. I loved her when she first came onto Eastenders. She was so young when she became famous, and it clearly destroyed her. I imagine that a lot of men made good money out of her and have dropped her like a stone now that she’s the way she is.

Danniella Westbrook on repairing her cocaine-ravaged nose

To this day, former EastEnders star Danniella Westbrook refuses to keep a mirror up in her house, unable to look at the face that was once her fortune.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15402379/Danniella-Westbrook-surgery-cocaine-nose-EastEnders.html

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GarliceGran · 11/02/2026 23:45

I feel awful for their kids. It must be awful to see your mum go through something like this.

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DancehallDays · 11/02/2026 19:53

Daniella turned to drugs as a teenager after suffering child abuse, so yes, I do feel sorry for her. I hope that she can find peace and happiness. She's the same age as me - my message to her would be time to stop giving a fuck what people think of your looks and embrace middle age.

Usernamenotfound1 · 11/02/2026 19:29

Vitriolinsanity · 22/12/2025 20:14

Have any of them sat down and thought, I need to get out of this mess? None of them is stupid. They could easily have taken what they had left and lived quietly and well, with a normal job to augment their savings.

It’s what the rest of us have to do. We don’t jet off to Turkey for yet more surgery at ludicrous cost in an attempt to breath life into another failed career resurrection.

They’ve all got another 40 years on the planet if they’re lucky. They are all still relatively young. They absolutely could just be fucking normal.

I dunno. It’s a bit like an alcoholic thinking I need to get out of this mess, I’ll just stop drinking.

Daniella is an addict. You don’t just give up and “live quietly and well” one day. They rarely have any money, and can rarely hold down a job.

I’d go so far as to say KP isn’t that different. Probably addicted to plastic surgery, to the validation and attention. She grew up with her looks being the focus of her being, and that’s hard to give up.

it’s clear neither of these women had people around them to support them in getting off the celeb treadmill and into living normally. They probably have agents, managers and other people encouraging them onto the next publicity stunt or “media job”. for their percentage.

someone mentioned sports- I’ve seen it there too where you have a huge machine “behind” all these athletes, when in fact the athletes are the ones being exploited for their talent, and the revenue they bring in creates jobs for the physio’s, nutritionists, managers, performance directors, coaches. It’s backwards.

it is exploitation.

GenechandlerHeyMrBigshotNsoul · 11/02/2026 19:21

Holy fuck what has she done to herself
She looks 65+
Not there's nothing wrong with looking 65+
Once you hit that age.

GarliceGran · 29/12/2025 18:18

GeorgeClooneyshouldhavemarriedme · 23/12/2025 12:41

I used to feel sorry for Daniella until she sold a fake pregnancy/ miscarriage story and I just decided she was a money grabbing twat.

I do however, feel enormous sympathy for KP. I think she has massive mental issues not helped by being treated badly by a succession of arseholes.

Sadly, with DW, selling fake stories/ nudes seems to be all she can do these days. Nobody would hire her for anything serious.

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Cheese55 · 23/12/2025 14:25

Because they have been damaged by others when they were young and vulnerable

Squirrel60 · 23/12/2025 14:22

How anyone can feel sorry for any of those hideous freaks is way beyond me!

GeorgeClooneyshouldhavemarriedme · 23/12/2025 12:41

I used to feel sorry for Daniella until she sold a fake pregnancy/ miscarriage story and I just decided she was a money grabbing twat.

I do however, feel enormous sympathy for KP. I think she has massive mental issues not helped by being treated badly by a succession of arseholes.

DahlsChickenz · 23/12/2025 12:35

I have a lot of empathy for them too, OP. They've made bad decisions at times but they were also in industries which chew up and spit out women from very young ages.

tothewindow25 · 23/12/2025 12:29

Gowlett · 22/12/2025 18:54

Danniella was so pretty, such a shame…
Tara Palmer Tomkinson was a sad case, too.
Katie Price. And Kerry Katona. Only Fans now.

I feel sorry for Lauren Goodger from TOWIE.
She was brilliant, but never made money like others.
And what she went through, losing her baby…

There is a horrible underbelly to celebrity.
Whether A-list or Z-list. Dangerous when young.
But so tough, when you’re yesterday’s news.

Lauren Goodger is a poor soul.

I think the difference between her and some of the Towie girls who have been successful is that they had family support and received better business and financial advice, bought property etc.

I think Lauren had a tough upbringing, so nobody to guide her, and she isn’t bright so couldn’t do it by herself.

Despite at one point having a successful tanning line and presumably earning well from it, she doesn’t own a home and moves around various rental flats. She does OnlyFans. A friend of mine (male) looked her up once and she began bombarding him with messages wanting him to subscribe. I got the impression some of them were auto generated but some obviously weren’t.

Very sad.

Anxietyismenow · 23/12/2025 12:02

Mydadsbirthday · 23/12/2025 11:50

Eh? This thread isn't about Katie Piper. It's about Katie Price.

Nooooo is it really 🙄😂 think some have been on the sherry already...

My point for those who seem to not get it... I ONLY FEEL SORRY FOR THOSE WHO HAVE HAD TO HAVE SURGERY NOT THOSE WHO TOOK DRUGS KNOWING THE DAMAGE IT WOULD CAUSE!!
If you don't get my point move along honestly 😂

Mydadsbirthday · 23/12/2025 11:50

Anxietyismenow · 22/12/2025 19:20

Tbh I feel more sorry for katie piper as she's had to go through with surgeries because of a violent and abusive ex who took revenge, awful.

I'm not saying that drug taking or obsession with surgery isn't sad everyone has their own story but it was by choice so there has to be accountability too. Even kerry katona is open and honest and says the same about her own drug taking.

Eh? This thread isn't about Katie Piper. It's about Katie Price.

TorroFerney · 23/12/2025 10:21

I feel sorry for their children who will probably go on to have issues. I would also imagine that none of them had brilliant childhoods.

Sartre · 23/12/2025 10:12

Daniella’s nose is appalling. I find it shocking a good surgeon couldn’t do something to fix that really. She was very naturally pretty before so it is a massive shame but I suppose she’s a good don’t do drugs kids poster girl…

I’ve always had a slight soft spot for KP. She’s odd because her family seem so stable, secure and down to earth yet she’s clearly been off the rails for many years. If you look at her siblings and how natural and regular they are in comparison it’s quite a stark contrast. I know she was sexually abused though as a teen so possibly the trauma from this.

Feel she has been used and abused a lot over the years. Peter Andre is a twat, as is her last ex husband who was charged with child molestation.

MaybeNotNo · 23/12/2025 10:12

Im not paying to read that shit from the Daily Fail.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 23/12/2025 10:04

I do have some sympathy for Daniella because of how young she was, how brutal the press treatment was in the 90s and the fact the addiction has had an almost life long grip on her. I remember at one point maybe around ten years ago she seemed to be healthy and clean, living in America with her family and going to church a lot (IIRC the DM tried to claim she had joined a cult 🙄) but then her marriage ended and she went back to the coke.

Juries out on KP but I was surprised to read that she and KK are doing a bunch of live shows together talking about themselves. Who would pay to sit through that? And why?

Missey85 · 23/12/2025 09:45

There's a big difference between someone who likes plastic surgery and a coke addict 😂😂

bruffin · 23/12/2025 09:36

I dont feel sorry for her, she used to live in my area and we were harrassed by phone for a week on a landline for a week by one of her dealers. I had to go to the police in the end and report.

Whatafustercluck · 23/12/2025 09:33

I used to work with a former Met police officer (quite high up) who said it was common knowledge within the force that Brian Harvey essentially used to pimp out Danniella Westbrook for coke. What with the news coverage about paedophile rings, and the animosity between them, their relationship dynamics certainly have taken their toll on her over the years. I err more on the side of feeling sorry for her and can see this being true. In which case, she's been failed by multiple individuals and agencies.

Jackiepumpkinhead · 23/12/2025 09:08

FOJN · 22/12/2025 18:31

Bit difficult for them to get an office job and if they can't get acting or modelling work what are they supposed to do?

Yes they've made some very bad choices but I suspect they were quite exploited when they were younger and now they're considered over the hill, fucked up and disposable.

As a pp noted there are probably plenty who made lots of money from them.

Why can’t they get an office job, or any type of job? One is an ex glamour model and the other is a C list actress, hardly A list celebrities. And even they shouldn’t be above having an average job should they need to.

PermanentTemporary · 22/12/2025 22:17

They seem horrible, but I can’t forget an interview Piers Morgan did once where he was spitting such venom about Jordan as she was then - saying that she was having a moment but would soon be washed up and forgotten. While making money off her. The entire ecosystem was designed to maximise exploiting and using up damaged people. Feel the same about Gazza.

PurpleSky300 · 22/12/2025 22:11

The kind of fame these women had was worthless, flash-in-the-pan exploitation from the very beginning. They were literally set up to become tabloid sideshows, and they willingly played along with it for easy money. They could have chosen an ordinary job at any time and walked away but they didn't want to. See also: Bonnie Blue and the likes, in 10 years time.

Cheese55 · 22/12/2025 22:00

BruFord · 22/12/2025 21:46

@Vitriolinsanity I just can’t imagine my children going to parties at 14 where coke was offered around. Being offered a beer or cider is one thing, but she must’ve been around adults with no supervision.

There lies the emotional neglect. We all know how this traumatises young people, as in we wouldn't blame survivors of the grooming gangs but it is the same thing just with different levels of money involved

Cicadasounds · 22/12/2025 21:51

FOJN · 22/12/2025 18:31

Bit difficult for them to get an office job and if they can't get acting or modelling work what are they supposed to do?

Yes they've made some very bad choices but I suspect they were quite exploited when they were younger and now they're considered over the hill, fucked up and disposable.

As a pp noted there are probably plenty who made lots of money from them.

This. The tabloid machine is absolutely brutal and disgusting and I don’t think many of us really understood any of that back then.