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Things my DH has found to do while we are trying to leave for Christmas

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Bluebells81 · 22/12/2025 12:40

6hr car journey to PiL today. Thought it would be good to leave in morning. Stop for lunch etc So got everyone packed and ready yesterday, or so I thought...

So far DH has filled the morning with:

  1. Buying special fuel for garden tool.
  2. Filling said tool with fuel on allotment.
  3. Buying Xmas present for child that I could have bought yesterday if I'd known he hadn't done this.
  4. Vacuuming (he never vacuums under normal circumstances)
  5. Winding DCs up with playfighting to the point that everyone got sent to separate rooms.
  6. Buying (separate shopping trip) extra food for pet and present for next door neighbour.
  7. washing and drying a load of laundry.

I can't even pack the car because he keeps using it for his errands.

There is no end in sight to this sudden domesticity. Nearly 1pm... still a 6hr journey ahead.

OP posts:
TomatoSandwiches · 22/12/2025 12:49

I would book myself into a hotel, turn my phone off and let him fuck about on his own time, what a grade A twat.

TheAutumnCrow · 22/12/2025 12:48

I wouldn’t go today, on the grounds he’s being an idiot and clearly doesn’t want to go.

LadyKedleston · 22/12/2025 12:46

Change your plans and don't go.

Then send him out to buy all the Christmas food that you will need.

TheAutumnCrow · 22/12/2025 12:46

He doesn’t want to go, does he?

Or wants to arrive very late for some reason. It’s his parents - you must know what or who he’s avoiding?

You seem very complacent.

NuffSaidSam · 22/12/2025 12:46

Does he have a difficult relationship with his parents? Sounds like he's doing anything he can to put off going.

pteromum · 22/12/2025 12:45

Does he think you are going tomorrow?

Arlanymor · 22/12/2025 12:45

I'd go without him frankly!

APurpleSquirrel · 22/12/2025 12:43

So what has he said when you have said it’s time to go??

Ihaveneedofwaternear · 22/12/2025 12:42

I would be raging!

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