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Is there something wrong with me or is there anyone else who can't cope with Strictly

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AlexaMachesca · 20/12/2025 21:58

I can't cope with it.
I've watched this series.
I watch it every year with DC.
Just watched the final.
It's soooooo noisy. So incredibly loud. The non stop screaming when they get their scores. The jumping up and punching the air. The shouting. The schrieking. The cheering. The super loud music. The staged acting. The horrendous booming music when the judges do that thing where they dress up in silly props. Claudia's relentless shouting.
OMG.
I can't stand this format and I'm sure it didn't used to be like this years ago.
I'm sure I used to feel relaxed whilst watching.
Now when I watch it I feel stressed and spend the whole time turning the sound down.
Am I alone in this?
I'm point blank not watching it next year. 11 year old DD forces me to every year but I can't do it anymore. It's torture.

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VioletBramble · 23/12/2025 06:19

TheaBrandt1 · 21/12/2025 07:53

I assume it’s for the elderly or those with a lot of time. It goes on and on. My parents are obsessed with it and talk about the contestants like they know them. Maybe in retirement you have more headspace.

How bloody patronising and rude you are!
Being retired and having more headspace doesn't equate to being glued to mindless dross and celebrity gossip as we get older.

springintoaction2 · 23/12/2025 05:16

@AlexaMachesca thank you for voicing my inner thoughts. Or should I say THANK YOU!!!

😅

I've tried to watch a few times - not so much this year - because I do love music and dancing basically. But I so agree that it's over the top and Claudia W. particularly gets on my tits. Maybe with new presenters it might be a bit better?

firstofallimadelight · 23/12/2025 05:10

ChefsKisser · 20/12/2025 22:03

It’s awful.
Even more so when they talk about it on the news. Literally no one cares!

Around 6 million people care

whatawalley · 23/12/2025 00:39

LauraIpsum · 20/12/2025 22:21

I hadn't watched it for about 12 years until this series, which I picked up about half way though. I totally agree with all the things you find objectionable about it, so the way I 'watch' is by putting it on close to the end of the live broadcast and rewinding iplayer back to the start, then forwarding through all the rehearsal, chat, judges' feedback etc elements. I pretty much just watch the dances. It's a 15 minute show for me!

That's exactly what we do. It's much quicker and more enjoyable.

ImogenBrocklehurst · 23/12/2025 00:19

ChefsKisser · 20/12/2025 22:03

It’s awful.
Even more so when they talk about it on the news. Literally no one cares!

Well, that’s patently not true, is it?

OriginalUsername2 · 22/12/2025 17:16

Miranda65 · 20/12/2025 22:02

Me neither. Not watched it for years, but I did try....
First problem was the dreadful studio audience clapping out of time 😬
Second big problem is the sentimentality, which they ladle on with a giant spoon.
Not to mention the "celebrities" I've never heard of!
I'd quite like to see people learn a new skill, but all the nonsense just puts me off and makes it unwatchable.

Second big problem is the sentimentality, which they ladle on with a giant spoon.

This is exactly why I can’t stand it. It’s just dancing, they all need to calm down!

Seymour5 · 22/12/2025 17:14

LauraIpsum · 20/12/2025 22:21

I hadn't watched it for about 12 years until this series, which I picked up about half way though. I totally agree with all the things you find objectionable about it, so the way I 'watch' is by putting it on close to the end of the live broadcast and rewinding iplayer back to the start, then forwarding through all the rehearsal, chat, judges' feedback etc elements. I pretty much just watch the dances. It's a 15 minute show for me!

I enjoy the actual dancing, it's also nice to hear a live band and singers, although that's often ruined by the moronic clapping along. So it's recorded here too and selectively watched, minus screaming and lots of judges' inanities.

cramptramp · 22/12/2025 17:13

I don’t watch it because of the crying, the gushing, the insincerity and the same boring questions over and over again. I quite like the dancing but that’s overshadowed by the sickly sentimentality.

Theonlyfatmiddleagedwomannotonmonjaro · 22/12/2025 17:05

I saw somewhere online maybe here maybe facebook someone claiming to be in tears and very emotional because it was Tess and Claudia's last episode. I actually felt a bit sad that someone's weekends enjoyment depends so heavily on a TV show. But were all different I guess.

Ive never understood the hype. Its cheap fodder for TV. Its gone the same way XFactor and BGT went. Loud crass corny with some exaggerated emotional bullshit chucked in.

Greenwriter76 · 22/12/2025 16:55

Trued watching it once - found it boring so never watched it again. To me, these types of Saturday eve shows (dancing, singing etc) had their day ages ago.

AutumnAllTheWay · 22/12/2025 16:51

That bit where they all stand around in the background waiting for the couple who have just danced to get their scores. All gurning and fighting for the most attention, like some horrible mass stage school audition. Awful lot!

I loved it years ago too.

Sartre · 22/12/2025 16:51

SparklyBiscuit · 22/12/2025 09:00

I have not watched strictly since len left and bruce as well I used to love it at one point all the professional dancers I used to love Ola karen and jordon all left it's never the same. I remember Karen doing the samba she was just amazing. Now I hardly ever know the names of the professional dancers or who is the celebrity dancers trained dancers I find it really boring now. I really miss Arline and bruce and len Goodman

To be fair some of the professionals are really great. I loved Vito last year, his energy is fantastic, I just don’t think anyone could be sad around him.

Sartre · 22/12/2025 16:48

I used to watch it religiously with my DGM as a child/teen, back in the day with Brucey and Len. Always greatly enjoyed it but stopped watching until last year when I thought I’d give it another shot because I knew who most of the celebs were and liked a couple of them. Enjoyed it to be honest- still as corny and camp as ever.

Then this year rolled around and I literally didn’t know a single ‘celebrity’ other than Dani Dyer but just because of her Dad, then she pulled out anyway. There’s usually one or two I know on any celeb special but I just didn’t know any. I’m only 32 so either I live under a rock or they weren’t actually famous this year.

JudgeJ · 22/12/2025 16:44

XWKD · 21/12/2025 17:11

I must be deranged as I've never seen it or I'm a Z-lister Celebrity.

We need a badge for all those discerning people like us who avoid these amateur things like the plague, dancing, painting, baking and the rest. The word Celebrity also crosses 95% of programmes off my list though I did enjoy Traitors, many because the majority did have real talents, other than being on other 'reality' programmes.

JudgeJ · 22/12/2025 16:40

NormasArse · 20/12/2025 22:10

I used to love watching Come Dancing with my grandma, but Strictly makes me cringe.

5000 sequins sewn on by the woman's ancient Granny! It's not just SCD though, the need to scream and shriek ruins so many programmes.

SnowFrogJelly · 22/12/2025 09:37

Agree.. I can’t stand how they go on about how their‘ journey’ has been life changing and they’re always crying!

SparklyBiscuit · 22/12/2025 09:00

I have not watched strictly since len left and bruce as well I used to love it at one point all the professional dancers I used to love Ola karen and jordon all left it's never the same. I remember Karen doing the samba she was just amazing. Now I hardly ever know the names of the professional dancers or who is the celebrity dancers trained dancers I find it really boring now. I really miss Arline and bruce and len Goodman

Cliffy95 · 21/12/2025 17:53

Used to like it. Last few years not so much. I just watch the dances and scoring now. The in between nonsense i usually scroll through mumsnet. Last nights final was excruciating with all the shrieking and crying. Lets hope next series gets a complete revamp along with the new presenters. If its the same old crap I'm going to call it a day.

Minty25 · 21/12/2025 17:43

Drives me mad. The screeching, the blubbering over nothing, even when they are reading out the phone numbers it's loud and lairy. Liked it better back in the early years.

BatchCookBabe · 21/12/2025 17:43

@AlexaMachesca

I'm with you. Can't stand the show, and never seen the appeal. It needs shelving IMO. Especially with all the scandal around it.

AgentPidge · 21/12/2025 17:41

I watch it and really enjoy the dancing. The whooping throughout the dancing really got me down last year, but I noticed this year that some of them didn't have it - the slow ones maybe. So it was a bit better. But yes, it's sensory overload.

There's also an awful lot of repetition of the questions. (What would you like to say to your dance partner? etc) I stopped watching It Takes Two for that reason. But it's entertaining enough to keep me hooked. I shall be sorry if they ruin it with the wrong presenters.

luckylavender · 21/12/2025 17:20

I watched it for years. Was semi detached last year & this year i haven’t bothered. It’s had its day now. Too much controversy.

EchoedSilence · 21/12/2025 17:19

I like watching the dancing. I can't stand the weeping and wailing. Carlos was ridiculous this series with his constant crying.

BellissimoGecko · 21/12/2025 17:13

Last night was sooooo drawn out. All the sentimentality, the fawning, the OTT components (and lack of any actual helpful criticism), the repetition… I fast forwarded a lot.

XWKD · 21/12/2025 17:11

I must be deranged as I've never seen it or I'm a Z-lister Celebrity.

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