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To share this Twitter/X post from Tom Skinner (re his absence from the Strictly final) with you? 🤭

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 20/12/2025 15:26

'As most of you will have seen in the papers, I won’t be at the final of Strictly Come Dancing tonight.

First thing I wanna say is this…. I spoke with my lovely dance partner, Amy Dowden to make sure she was okay with me not attending. She’s a good person and a good friend now, I’d never let her down.

When I got given the opportunity to do Strictly back in April, I was buzzing. Not because I can dance…. I can’t. But because i really wanted to test myself and Learn something completely out of my comfort zone.

On the night I left the show, I received an anonymous email claiming to be from a BBC exec with stats, saying I’d received far more votes than it appeared and it wasn’t right. I’ve since had the email independently verified.

That same email mentioned the BBC was very angry an nervous simply because I had met JD Vance (USA VICE PRESIDENT). Let me be clear, I’m not a political bloke. Never have been. I just love my country and am patriotic. I’ve been made out by the press to be this political figure. If anyone was to get an opportunity like what I did, they would have taken it. I still think it is mad that a man like me who sells mattresses out of a van can call someone that senior in the world’s politics a friend now.

I have asked to see the official voting figures to back up the ones I was sent in the email but was told they couldn’t be shown to me. And have never been shown in the history of the show. I have spoke about the email I had received to senior people and the BBC welfare team, who btw I genuinely respect. And they was the ones who advised me to get legal advice because of how unfair it all was. (This was not my idea)

There were also smaller things that added to the feeling. Everyone received a welcome gift on the show….. skincare bits, face masks, that sort of thing. Mine was the only one that “Got Stolen” apparently. On its own, it’s nothing…. but added to everything else, it felt strange.

I have been made out to be someone I actually am not simply because I took part in this show. The views were formed from media stories over the summer that simply wasn’t true or exaggerated. It ain’t fair what has happened to me and my family.

I also want to say this carefully. After receiving this information and having it verified, a very senior BBC figure has since resigned. I’m not saying that had anything to do with me, but it did feel bizarre. Also the main hosts stepped down the following week. Again, I’m not saying it has anything to do with me. It’s just all very coincidental. I’m just being honest.

I didn’t want any of this in the press either. A lot of what’s been written has been exaggerated or untrue about me and I’ve found it hard to take in over the past few months. This is my life, and it’s not nice what has been said about me if I’m honest. What I do find strange is that after a private Zoom call with BBC executives on Wednesday night about going forward, this was national news by Thursday morning. That tells me there’s been a leak. Because it ain’t come from me to be in the press. (It might be from the same person who sent me the email🤔) …..I didn’t want this to be national news, in fact I didn’t want any of this. But now I’m writing a statement so people know the truth as to why I’m not attending, I don’t want people thinking I am bitter when I ain’t. I don’t want more stories being wrote that ain’t true.

I’m not kicking off for attention. I’m not saying I should’ve won either. I was rubbish at dancing😂 we all know that. But love me or hate me you do have to appreciate the massive following I have, I can’t even walk into the local Tesco without getting stopped for selfies. I just believe in fairness and respect.

I wish every dancer tonight the very best. They’ve worked their socks off and they deserve their moment.

As for me I’ve got fish to sell on my stall and a family I love more than anything.

Thank you for the love as Always.

Bosh❤️'


I'm super obsessed with his belief that Tess and Claudia left because of him 😭

To share this Twitter/X post from Tom Skinner (re his absence from the Strictly final) with you? 🤭
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RaphaelDidIt · 20/12/2025 22:27

Absolutely delulu...and hilarious

ilovesooty · 20/12/2025 22:23

Ratioed · 20/12/2025 22:17

Imagine being this illiterate and issuing a press statement?

Imagine being as stupid as he is. Putting himself in the limelight by making allegations like this simply encourages further scrutiny of the unsavoury person he is.

pizzaHeart · 20/12/2025 22:19

xmasstress12 · 20/12/2025 21:53

I don’t know much about him but do think it’s odd that T&C seem to resigned & announce it half way through.

It was somewhere that they usually sign contracts for the next year in November hence the timing.

Okbyethen · 20/12/2025 22:19

He really is a prize pillock.

Ratioed · 20/12/2025 22:17

Imagine being this illiterate and issuing a press statement?

fandangooo · 20/12/2025 22:17

He does come across like a bit of a tit however we all know that the show has allegations of being corrupt and unethical.

CurlewKate · 20/12/2025 22:14

He seems to be suggesting that Tim Davey resigned because of him. He is deluded.

firsttimesolotraveller16 · 20/12/2025 22:14

He’s utterly hilarious. He’ll be over in America doing the MAGA shite by the end of next year

LighthouseLED · 20/12/2025 22:13

NotMySkill · 20/12/2025 22:12

I do find it hilarious that he thinks they left the show because of him. I imagine Tess and Claudia have just had enough after all these years and wanted a change. This man is not quite as important as he thinks he is.

Nobody in the world is as important as he thinks he is!

NotMySkill · 20/12/2025 22:12

I do find it hilarious that he thinks they left the show because of him. I imagine Tess and Claudia have just had enough after all these years and wanted a change. This man is not quite as important as he thinks he is.

ApolloandDaphne · 20/12/2025 22:09

He is a twat.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 20/12/2025 22:08

Barrellturn · 20/12/2025 21:58

Wasn't the whole point of twitter that it was restricted to 120 characters?

😄 those were the days

And verified accounts belonging to celebs/organisations only

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OliviaBonas · 20/12/2025 22:07

DeathStare · 20/12/2025 21:55

I love the idea that he thinks Tim Davie and Deborah Turness resigned because of him rather than because Trump was about yo launch a 10 billion dollar lawsuit. In the current context I doubt any current BBC execs even know who he is

This 😂😂😂

XWKD · 20/12/2025 22:06

He sounds like a conspiracy loon.

xmasstress12 · 20/12/2025 22:01

isn’t someone leaking the results? I haven’t really watched it this year

xmasstress12 · 20/12/2025 21:59

@soupyspoon and i’m sure the likely answer is it is just a coincidence

blacksax · 20/12/2025 21:59

Can anyone else detect a hint of main character syndrome?

Barrellturn · 20/12/2025 21:58

Wasn't the whole point of twitter that it was restricted to 120 characters?

soupyspoon · 20/12/2025 21:56

xmasstress12 · 20/12/2025 21:53

I don’t know much about him but do think it’s odd that T&C seem to resigned & announce it half way through.

I will admit I thought that was odd but sometimes things are just coincidence.

DecemberGloom · 20/12/2025 21:55

Bless him and all his crazy

DeathStare · 20/12/2025 21:55

I love the idea that he thinks Tim Davie and Deborah Turness resigned because of him rather than because Trump was about yo launch a 10 billion dollar lawsuit. In the current context I doubt any current BBC execs even know who he is

xmasstress12 · 20/12/2025 21:53

I don’t know much about him but do think it’s odd that T&C seem to resigned & announce it half way through.

SwedishEdith · 20/12/2025 21:49

Ew, I'd forgotten all about him until tonight. I suspect he's worried everyone else had forgotten about him as well and this is a last grab at attention.

Jimpson · 20/12/2025 21:48

I don’t watch Strictly but I did see all the reports about him cheating on his wife and general unpleasantness. His popularity would have taken a nose dive after that news alone, regardless of him meeting JD.

pizzaHeart · 20/12/2025 21:47

I can’t comment about his voting base, I personally never heard of him before Strictly but I wouldn’t, considering how different his and my lifestyles 🙂
However to think that Tess and Claudia leaving has anything to do with him….. It shows that he is delusional at least quite a bit.