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To wonder if my NDN has someone sleeping in her loft?

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Rollergirl11 · 20/12/2025 09:38

DH and I were woken up at 3am by a noise above us which we thought was coming from our loft. It was prolonged over about 10 mins. Sounded like something hard being dropped and rolling around and then things being moved about. Then I heard what sounded like a plug being put in to a plug socket. The noise sounded purposeful and like it was human rather than animal. DH got up and hit the ceiling with a pole a number of times and the noise stopped and didn’t start again.

For context, we have had squirrels nest in the loft in the past and have also heard birds from time to time (We’re talking around 10 years ago) so we have experienced animal noise directly overhead before. We had someone from pest control round and we think we have blocked off all access routes from the outside.

Our next door neighbour is a bit of a nightmare. She rents out rooms and has lots of male immigrant types coming and going. There have been many incidents over the years and she/the address is known to the police. At one point I was concerned for her as she seemed to have at least 3 men living there who appeared to be drug dealers. She does not have a loft conversion.

Anyway back to the noise. As I said it felt almost like it was human and controlled rather than coming from an animal. When I told DH that I thought I heard what sounded like a plug in a socket he started to wonder if the noise was coming from next doors loft rather than ours. It would still feel and sound like it’s overhead. It seems weird that it stopped and didn’t start again once DH banged on the ceiling.

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TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 20/12/2025 10:01

Wordsmithery · 20/12/2025 09:54

I stopped reading at "immigrant types".

What a horrid, uneducated way to describe people.

What a horrid, snobbish way to respond to a post.

Rollergirl11 · 20/12/2025 09:58

Wordsmithery · 20/12/2025 09:54

I stopped reading at "immigrant types".

What a horrid, uneducated way to describe people.

How would you describe single males that don’t speak English and likely don’t have jobs and official documentation?

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Wordsmithery · 20/12/2025 09:54

I stopped reading at "immigrant types".

What a horrid, uneducated way to describe people.

Coffeeishot · 20/12/2025 09:52

If you think your neighbour has an illegal HMO you can report it.

Rollergirl11 · 20/12/2025 09:52

StripedVase · 20/12/2025 09:43

what are "immigrant types"?

Sorry I know this sounds offensive but didn’t know how else to describe. Basically single men that don’t speak English that don’t stay for long. There have been many incidents over the years involving people that have lived next door ranging from road traffic accidents where the perpetrators reside next door and don’t have car insurance, MOT and tax through to drug offenses and burglaries. We very often have court summons sent to our address of people claiming to live at our address where we think they are actually from next door.

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Coffeeishot · 20/12/2025 09:51

"Immigrant types" what are they ?

Echobelly · 20/12/2025 09:50

I don't know about 'immigrant types' but if she has people living in an unconverted loft then she is putting them in danger as that won't be a legal room and contravening fire (and maybe other) safety rules.

Your best bet may be contact the council housing department and express concern that the house may be a) overcrowded and b) have someone living in an unconverted loft space. She is putting people in danger if this is the case.

MissJoGrant · 20/12/2025 09:50

"Immigrant types"
🧐

elevenpiperspiping · 20/12/2025 09:47

I would go up into your loft and make sure there is no access between the two and add a lock to the loft hatch from inside the house.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 20/12/2025 09:45

If she has a lot of people crammed into her house it does seem very likely one of them is using the loft.
Are the lofts connected? Have you been up to check nobody has broken through? Sound from neighbours does carry though.

Rollergirl11 · 20/12/2025 09:45

No, it was only last night that it happened. But anyway she never answers the door when you go and knock so the only time that I see her is in passing occasionally. Don’t have her phone number.

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StripedVase · 20/12/2025 09:43

what are "immigrant types"?

LouiseK93 · 20/12/2025 09:43

Creepy! Is there any chance at all someone could get into your loft from next door neighbours?

Lavender14 · 20/12/2025 09:40

Have you spoken to the ndn about it?