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It can’t be flu, can it?

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ifeelsounwell · 19/12/2025 22:50

All week I’ve felt so unwell - stuffed nose, exhausted, headaches, occasional sore throat. I’ve taken ibuprofen and pushed through.

Tonight ive developed an awful cough, my sore throat is back and ive got horrendous earache.

it feels different to a cold, and ive had my flu jab, so I’m wondering if its a mild flu? How would i even know?

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suburburban · 20/12/2025 21:32

I’ve felt really unwell for past few days. Had a sore throat, waking up in night, no energy

also affected my stomach

fortunately not at work so have rested

snackatack · 20/12/2025 21:31

Livelovebehappy · 20/12/2025 21:24

I lost my taste and smell back in 2020 with a bout of Covid, and still haven’t got it back. Social media was, and still is, full of people who had this symptom. I think it’s more common than what people think. Buttrue, not everyone with Covid loses taste/smell.

Low zinc levels (which can happen when fighting an infection) can cause this

i would look at testing your zinc - for about £10 on amazon

snackatack · 20/12/2025 21:30

ifeelsounwell · 19/12/2025 22:52

i doubt it, i have my full sense of smell and taste still.

I tested positive for covid with your symptoms

I've tested positive 2x - never lost my sense of smell or taste.

Livelovebehappy · 20/12/2025 21:27

LakieLady · 20/12/2025 21:16

I had Covid, albeit mildly, right at the start and my sense of taste has never come back properly. It's nowhere near as good as it used to be.

Do you find your ‘normal’ has changed? Ie, I can’t taste but now enjoy textures instead. It’s as if my brain has changed the way I enjoy my food to compensate for no longer enjoying taste.

Livelovebehappy · 20/12/2025 21:24

Kingscallops · 19/12/2025 22:56

You dont have to lose your taste and smell with covid.

I lost my taste and smell back in 2020 with a bout of Covid, and still haven’t got it back. Social media was, and still is, full of people who had this symptom. I think it’s more common than what people think. Buttrue, not everyone with Covid loses taste/smell.

OnTheBoardwalk · 20/12/2025 21:21

I’m thinking I have flu but if there was a £50 note in my garden I would try and crawl out to it cos of col. not being able to get a £50 note was my original indication of flu but not anymore

negative for COVID

CurlyhairedAssassin · 20/12/2025 21:16

Standatt · 20/12/2025 12:34

It’s referred to in certain ways by the public because we used to have no way of testing at home which virus we have. It’s only recently people have started home testing.

There is no such virus as a “cold”. A “cold” is just a collection of symptoms. It could be any number of viruses causing them. But because in the past we had no way of knowing which virus, and they often all cause similar symptoms, humans just started referring to it as a “cold”. But it could be a coronavirus, RSV, adenovirus etc causing them. And yes sometimes even an influenza virus if it hits the person mildly.

Influenza is a virus. There are many versions. Influenza viruses are more likely to make you severely ill than other cold causing viruses. So humans started referring to bad illnesses as flu. But unless you test, you have no way of knowing for definite if it actually is flu. Then the myth stated that all influenza infections leave you incapacitated and unable to move etc. Which is not true. As we learned during Covid, how a virus hits one person is not always the same as the next person. You can even be totally asymptomatic with flu, just like Covid and other viruses.
As someone else said, chicken pox isn’t any less of chicken pox if someone has 3 spots compared to someone who is covered in them and hospitalised.

If someone catches flu who has had the flu jab (and so get it mildly) and are still mixing with other people, are they just as likely to pass it on as someone who is contagious with it who HASN'T had the jab?

LakieLady · 20/12/2025 21:16

TinselTitts · 19/12/2025 22:55

I've had Covid 3 times and never lost my taste or smell at all.

My son did though and it never fully came back.

I had Covid, albeit mildly, right at the start and my sense of taste has never come back properly. It's nowhere near as good as it used to be.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 20/12/2025 21:12

ShowOfHands · 20/12/2025 10:31

No point trying. It gets worse and worse every winter. People post facts, links, research etc and one post later, Sandra logs in and tells us her own version of diagnosis which usually involves picking up money, crawling to toilets and looking or not looking at screens as appropriate.

I have flu right now and have done a workout and eaten breakfast. Just about to finish some tiling. I'm a medical fucking miracle.

How come you tested?

CurlyhairedAssassin · 20/12/2025 21:11

ifeelsounwell · 20/12/2025 10:19

Pretty suddenly yeah

I remember having flu when I was about 14. Apart from the severity (hallucinating, needing my mum to help me to the loo as my legs could barely hold me), it was the sudden onset which I remember. With a cold your nose starts running a bit for a few hours, doesn't it, or you sneeze a couple of times, or have a bit of a tickle in your throat, maybe you start feeling a bit hot. But you can usually carry on working, even if you have to take a paracetamol. If it's the weekend and I have a cold and feel a bit grotty I will always prioritise resting on the sofa with hot drinks rather than dosing myself up with paracetamol to try to get stuff done.

But with the flu, I was literally fine one minute, and then within 15 minutes, I felt bloody awful and just NEEDED to get to my bed. I remember not bothering getting ready for bed, I found just getting up the stairs difficult. Was shivering then sweaty, achy bones, sore hot eyes, headache. I knew it was different from a cold, that feeling happened so fast.

FurForksSake · 20/12/2025 20:59

If you are going to irrigate with salt water you should use cooled boiled water. Look up proper precautions and methods for a nasal rinse.

Thedownwardspiralpath · 20/12/2025 20:55

TidyCyan · 19/12/2025 23:04

There is. It's not helped by Beechams etc hawking "Cold and Flu" tablets for the headache/stuffy nose aspect, which makes people refer to a bad cold as "flu".

"Proper" flu is an infection, accompanied by acute fatigue and myalgia.

As for spreading - you are infectious for 24 hours before symptoms even begin.

Edited

Influenza A is a virus, not an infection, you can carry it it and not have any symptoms just like any virus.

Thedownwardspiralpath · 20/12/2025 20:53

RubyMentor · 19/12/2025 22:59

You can’t have mild flu. Flu is when you can’t get out of bed or function

This is just utter nonsense !

Thedownwardspiralpath · 20/12/2025 20:51

Libre2 · 19/12/2025 22:58

If you had flu you would know. I am 52 and have had it once it my life -20 years ago. It is horrific. If someone had set my bed on fire I would have struggled to get out of bed. I certainly couldn’t have typed a coherent sentence. DH had it at the same time - he was hallucinating.

Flu like any other virus can be anything from A symptomatic to fatal and anything in between.

chilling19 · 20/12/2025 20:45

Just coming out the other side. Sore throat, earache, nasty cough. Lost my voice after 4 days, and now croaky and coughing less. Dud two COVID tests just in case but tgey were negative. Honey, lemon, ginger helped, plus paracetamol and strepsils. On day 19.

Christwosheds · 20/12/2025 20:22

Tryonemoretime · 20/12/2025 20:12

Just in case it's any help, my mother in law was a nurse. She swore by sniffing up salty water and also gargling with it. It sounds grim but salty water kills viruses.

I think this has been proven to help.

Christwosheds · 20/12/2025 20:21

You can get a test that tests for influenza A, B and Covid. Worth doing so you know if it is something dangerous , given that you work in a hospital.

Tryonemoretime · 20/12/2025 20:12

Just in case it's any help, my mother in law was a nurse. She swore by sniffing up salty water and also gargling with it. It sounds grim but salty water kills viruses.

Grendel7 · 20/12/2025 20:03

ifeelsounwell · 19/12/2025 22:50

All week I’ve felt so unwell - stuffed nose, exhausted, headaches, occasional sore throat. I’ve taken ibuprofen and pushed through.

Tonight ive developed an awful cough, my sore throat is back and ive got horrendous earache.

it feels different to a cold, and ive had my flu jab, so I’m wondering if its a mild flu? How would i even know?

Its flu. Totally different from a cold, as the fatigue is much worse and includes dizzy spells. It will go on its own but you can still get it even after the jab.

Tryonemoretime · 20/12/2025 20:02

ifeelsounwell · 19/12/2025 22:52

i doubt it, i have my full sense of smell and taste still.

I've had Covid twice. Neither time did I lose my sense of taste and smell. If someone has flu, they are fine one minute and felled by it the next. There's no in between stage. Colds develop over days. So - I may be wrong, but you either have a horrible cold or it's Covid. Whatever you have, I hope you feel better soon!

ifeelsounwell · 20/12/2025 12:35

ResusciAnnie · 20/12/2025 12:32

Do you need to know whether it’s flu or Covid or a cold?! Hope you feel better before Xmas!

To be fair it would’ve been useful at the start of the week because I would’ve stayed home! Not much I can do now though because I’m wrecked

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Standatt · 20/12/2025 12:34

PinkElephants356 · 20/12/2025 09:41

Ah is that what it is? any type of influenza is called “flu” and other viruses such as RSV are often referred to as colds?

So it has nothing to do with the severity?

I heard the £20 note story on the radio years ago so thought it was to do with severity.

Now I just think of anything as a contagious virus and don’t really label it.

It’s referred to in certain ways by the public because we used to have no way of testing at home which virus we have. It’s only recently people have started home testing.

There is no such virus as a “cold”. A “cold” is just a collection of symptoms. It could be any number of viruses causing them. But because in the past we had no way of knowing which virus, and they often all cause similar symptoms, humans just started referring to it as a “cold”. But it could be a coronavirus, RSV, adenovirus etc causing them. And yes sometimes even an influenza virus if it hits the person mildly.

Influenza is a virus. There are many versions. Influenza viruses are more likely to make you severely ill than other cold causing viruses. So humans started referring to bad illnesses as flu. But unless you test, you have no way of knowing for definite if it actually is flu. Then the myth stated that all influenza infections leave you incapacitated and unable to move etc. Which is not true. As we learned during Covid, how a virus hits one person is not always the same as the next person. You can even be totally asymptomatic with flu, just like Covid and other viruses.
As someone else said, chicken pox isn’t any less of chicken pox if someone has 3 spots compared to someone who is covered in them and hospitalised.

ResusciAnnie · 20/12/2025 12:32

Do you need to know whether it’s flu or Covid or a cold?! Hope you feel better before Xmas!

ifeelsounwell · 20/12/2025 12:19

rosierosierosie · 20/12/2025 11:48

Buy a flu test from Amazon

I didn’t realise you could get these! Covid & flu test is on its way to me

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rosierosierosie · 20/12/2025 11:48

Buy a flu test from Amazon