Feel a bit weird about what my cleaner did.

As someone who cleans for a lady every week, that's just weird! I love her house, her views everything! But do I invade her privacy by taking pictures and pretending they are mine? Absolutely not 😂 that's is strange attention seeking behaviour. Of course she will get upset if you call her on her lies! That's what they are, lies! What else has she been lying about? If she's pretending to random people your house is hers how can you trust her? Strange behaviour

Change the locks.

Oh I feel a bit sorry for her. She's obviously really impressed and possibly a bit jealous, so just wanted to show them off and live a bit of a fantasy. She'll be mortified if you say something. But yeah I'd be annoyed.

Sorry OP , I agree with most of the posters on here saying to let her go. Quite frankly astonished at some of the ‘I feel sorry for her’ comments..

She has shown herself to be a liar and deceitful and to a large audience where she may know people know you and vice versa.

How on earth do you know what else she has done that she HASN'T posted ???

It’s creepy, it’s weird and it’s an abuse of trust. She would absolutely not be coming into my house again.

I’d change my keys, alarm and cleaner immediately.

This is mad but also quite sad. She obviously has no close friends or family in the area as they would recognise it is not the interior of her home. Not a trustworthy person, you need to protect yourself here or next you may see pics online of her wearing your jewelry or clothes etc. My main concern is that she has your keys and it is easy to get copies made. I would not say anything in advance but make sure that you return early the next time she is due to come to clean and have the conversation face to face and definitely get your keys back off her at that point. A new cleaner needs to be sought!

This.

it’s clearly a very different culture and wealth gap.

go for the facts.

She is a good cleaner.

until now you have trusted her.

she made a mistake. but a naive foolish one.

talk to her in the new year before you make a decision.

What a weird thing to do

I think you should inform her you know
To me it's just common sense, to mention you know & feel uncomfortable with this
She doesn't seem very intelligent if she didn't realise this would most likely come to light - I'm not saying she's bad, & remembering the saying which means that copying is one of the highest forms of flattery, it's an indirect compliment to your taste-Her wishing to take the credit(could understand if you were teens at school competing) - But it's overstepping the mark, I feel
Long term I also believe she'll appreciate your openness in concerns with knowing & wishing for her to remove your premiere precious pictures 💚Wishing You&Yours all the utmost very best

Oooomf, not sure I could trust her after that. I wouldn't publicly shame her, but I would have a chat and ask her to take it down. Her feelings and sensitivity aren't your responsibility. She's an adult and can figure out how to deal with her feelings.

I would actually take this as a complement , someone is aspiring to your lifestyle , let them have their online moment , what does it really matter n the grand scheme of things , she probably has a very frugal hard life

I'd be sacking her, no way I'd be happy about this

I mean what else is she getting obsessive over and taking pictures or in your house when you’re not there? If she’s becomes over obsessed or emotional she has access to your home with keys and alarm code. That’s like basic clinic confidentiality who does that! Odd behaviour and would be gone

Well the casual blasphemy at Christmas does nothing for your image.

Screen shot it and ask her to delete! Wowzers. I’d be raging. Such an invasion of privacy and also really dishonest. I wouldn’t be worrying about hurting her feelings!

You could pop round to hers and ask for your keys back, saying you need to lend them to a friend/family member to get into your house while you're away. Once you have the keys back you can then tell her why you dont want her coming in your house again. She sounds nuts though

The cleaner's arrived! Poor woman my arse.

It's really weird and I think I'd be unhappy with my house being on social media. But I'd also feel a bit sorry for her, she obviously wouldnt have the same level of decorations as you and perhaps is living vicariously through you, getting comments from people she knows, perhaps she's lonely? I'd try and gently tell her you saw it and would like it to be removed if you are happy with her maybe quitting on you... Very awkward, good luck with whatever you decide OP!

I would just comment, "This is my house?!"

Sometimes honesty is the best policy. Even as an example for others.

I get this. It's a really weird feeling if the inside of your home pops up on social media. My cleaners tik tok account popped up on mine as a suggestion one day. She took photos and selfies with my pets and posted them. In one you could see my bedroom. It's very uncomfortable. I still employ her because she does a good enough job and I'm always at home when she's here.

But it meant I now always have a weird feeling and wouldn't leave her to do her job whilst I'm not there.

I'd sack her on the spot, who knows what else she's taking liberties with!!

So there’s the post which is obviously unacceptable, but then the bigger question of what is driving this behaviour overall and how it might escalate. I wouldn’t feel safe around her after this

Why are you suggesting she rewards this intrusive, deceptive and unprofessional behaviour with a gift?

One thing that is important in life is being comfortable with everyone who comes into your home.

Try having a wee bit of empathy for the OP,
if you read all her posts you’d see she already gave the cleaner a lovely gift.

Wild! A generous present for invading the privacy of a client and being weird on the internet.