To end 1 month relationship over this tiny thing

If have pulled over and made him go back and pick it up, I'd also dump him, no excuse for littering

Someone who gets a thrill out of provoking? Not a good personality trait.

I voted wrong by mistake ! Bin him!

If you asked him not to and he did it anyway, he’s testing your boundaries to see what you’ll take

That happened to me but not with a "future possible" partner. Picked up this very well dressed African guy hitch hiking at the entrance to the motorway. Said he was related to the last ruler of the Congo. Threw a beer bottle out of the window!!!
I was furious. Checked with Congolese friends - they said that he was the son of the former ruler and was shunned by the Congolese living here (Switzerland)

I would feel quite pissed off with him. Yeah. If it was my husband of 10 years I probably wouldn’t end it or leave the B. But some bloke of ) weeks you would hear my vagina clamping shut. Not just at the littering (which is bad enough) but then at the disregard for my feelings. As Apple core I’d be just about ok with. But a can is grim.

I can't imagine just throwing litter on the ground like that.

This. It's one of those things that you could wave off as small, but really isn't.

I live in a beautiful village in Durham. Loads of botlles cans food cartons thrown out from cars leaving the village littering the wayside despite being periodically cleared. This disgusting behaviour is so common these days. If he is otherwise a decent boyfriend maybe have a word and tell him how upsetting you find this as well as environmentally damaging

Just to clarify - I don’t think it’s wild. I said it would be a deal breaker for me. But I would imagine in this instance he is going to downplay the offence and act like he dropped a receipt or something.

It wouldn't be a bit wild. Littering is anti-social, selfish, really bad manners, and all-round grim. Plus you can get fined for it.

That's grim, loutish, yobbish behaviour, and it would turn me off big-time. I imagine that sort of man would be a messy urinator, fart in front of you, and have lots of other flaws.

Littering is not cool. I really don't know why he thinks it's OK to just throw rubbish onto the ground. Honestly, my vagina would clamp shut for all time where he's concerned.

YANBU.

Get rid now

He's an idiot, sorry, but he didn't respect what you said, and who throws litter out of the car like that anyway....

Revels in being a twat? Definitely not boyfriend material.

Do you really want to be in a relationship with a yob?

Would also end relationship. He could also hit someone else’s car doing that. Does he think the road is his rubbish bin?

Dump him, he’s a lout.

You have him then.

That would be a deal breaker. He has no respect for shared spaces. He’s uncouth and ignorant and deserves the boot. I would not stay with someone who litter bugged.

He thinks it’s ok to litter - dump him

As a passenger, he thinks it’s appropriate to disrespect and argue with the driver’s reasonable request - dump him

He thinks his opinion is more important than yours and wasn’t prepared to hear you out and hang onto his rubbish for the journey home to have a discussion about it when noones driving - dump him.

This “relationship” is going nowhere. Time to go different ways.

I despise people who litter when they think no one is looking.

To do it whilst with a date he's trying to impress and ignore you when asked not to just shows how selfish he is.

He's shown you who he is.

Being a pissed up passenger princess doesn’t exactly subtract from this ick.

I can still feel the visceral disgust when, as a 14 year old the lad I was hanging round with at the park just threw his cup on the ground. It really does show complete contempt, so it’s not something I’d tolerate as an adult either. I’d dump him quicker than he dumped his litter.

He’s given you a glimpse in to what he’s really like