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If money was no object, would you live alone?

215 replies

SantiagoShaming · 18/12/2025 16:34

I love DP, but I also always loved living alone. We ended up living together because it makes economic sense, but having had this debate with a few female friends recently, almost all of us said we would actually prefer living alone and having two homes if money wasn’t an issue—even the married ones!

Plenty of research exists to show men are better off when living with women and women don’t benefit in the same way by living with men. Just interested in opinions. For me, it’s mostly about knowing the place will be beautiful, quiet, tidy, clean and that I can be alone if I want.

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WallaceinAnderland · 18/12/2025 16:41

No.

But I'd have a big house with two sitting rooms and separate bedroom and bathroom. Shared kitchen, dining, tv room, conservatory etc.

CraftyPlayer · 18/12/2025 16:40

God yes.

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/12/2025 16:40

No thanks. He may feel differently 🤣

EmpressaurusKitty · 18/12/2025 16:39

It’s just me & my cat & I honestly wouldn’t have it any other way.

I have a busy social life but I love being able to close my front door & know it’s just us. No partners, no kids.

TeeBee · 18/12/2025 16:39

I do live alone, so yes 😀 Partner living in the next village is perfect.

Mauro711 · 18/12/2025 16:38

I divorced then the kids grew up and now I live alone with my dog. Suits me perfectly and will never again live with a man.

DarkEyedSailor · 18/12/2025 16:38

I do live alone. With my daughter, but no man. It's perfect.

Wolfpa · 18/12/2025 16:38

If I lived close enough to someone for a morning quickie I would.

TalulahJP · 18/12/2025 16:37

ive scrimped and saved but living alone has been worth it. i do get q bit lonely sometimes but i just go see friends and it’s fine. i could not be arsed with some horny messy smelly fucker cluttering up my tranquility! oh hell no.

Clarabell77 · 18/12/2025 16:37

Yes

ForeverPombear · 18/12/2025 16:37

Yes

TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 18/12/2025 16:37

I do live alone. I love it 😊

Rocknrollstar · 18/12/2025 16:36

Definitely.

BowlyLarr · 18/12/2025 16:36

100% yes

ByLemonFish · 18/12/2025 16:35

Yes

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