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People saying they’ve never had flu?

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Cumbrianlassie · 17/12/2025 18:00

I find this incredibly strange. I’ve had flu several times in my life and I’m 36, I mean the ‘proper’ flu - body aches, fever, skin pain, headache, cough, no appetite, fatigue for several weeks and weakness.

I had it in January, as did my DS and DP.
Havent had this new strain yet but feels inevitable!

Are some people just immune?

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Imnotready2030 · 18/12/2025 23:18

I’m 34 had it twice 6 years apart. 2nd time put me in hospital.

daughter is 11 and has had influenza A for the fourth year running 3 weeks ago.

VikaOlson · 18/12/2025 23:15

Rosamutabilis · 18/12/2025 23:13

I'm 61 and have had it twice in my life, once in my late twenties and again when I was 48. Both times I felt so ill I felt like I might die. In bed for a week then several more weeks till I was completely better. For the last couple of years I've had the flu vaccination.
It annoys me when people say they've often had flu but have continued to work etc, no they haven't, they've just had a bad cold.

They probably had flu. Why would it annoy you?

Rosamutabilis · 18/12/2025 23:13

I'm 61 and have had it twice in my life, once in my late twenties and again when I was 48. Both times I felt so ill I felt like I might die. In bed for a week then several more weeks till I was completely better. For the last couple of years I've had the flu vaccination.
It annoys me when people say they've often had flu but have continued to work etc, no they haven't, they've just had a bad cold.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 18/12/2025 23:10

I think I had proper flu one twenty years ago. I could barely get out of bed to stagger to loo and back again. I felt dreadful then five days later I was fine. I think I averaged sbout 22 hours of sleep a day. I’d wake up incredibly thirsty and covered in sweat, drink some water, fresh pjs, couldn’t even shower and back to sleep.

SoLongLuminosity · 18/12/2025 23:06

I think some people get it more.

Some people think they get it more.

I've had some rotten colds but only felt ill enough to call it flu once. I had the most intense fever dream.

Maybe I have had it more than once, but that is the stand out occasion where I can confidently say it was either flu or the worst cold/flu bug I've had so far.

Jumpingthruhoops · 18/12/2025 22:53

I'm mid-40s and I can safely say I've only ever had genuine flu once in my entire life. I'm also really unlucky if I get a cold once a year. I just tend to not get ill.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 18/12/2025 22:47

Never had it, am in my 50s

I've had the flu jab for a couple of years now, so I hope I never will!

cassgate · 18/12/2025 22:47

Flu, 55 never had it. Had Covid twice - tested positive Xmas eve dec 2020 and July 2022. Worst illness I have ever had was noro virus in 2013 which knocked me out for a week and I couldn’t get out of bed with out being sick. Covid other than loss of taste didn’t know I had it. Cooked Christmas dinner in 2020 and enjoyed with husband and children across table from me, played board games. No one else caught it from me.

Hayley1256 · 18/12/2025 22:31

Why aren't you eligible for the flu jab? I always have it and have only had flu once, I use to pay for it but now I get it free through work

Acommonreader · 18/12/2025 22:28

Maybe some are just lucky. I’ve never had flu, I get a cold annually for about 2 days. Had diarrhoea twice and a headache a couple of times with a hangover, never with illness. . I’m 48.

ladygindiva · 18/12/2025 21:52

I've only had it once, aged about 30. At my physical peak, funnily enough ( I was very fit and healthy at the time) . That was 20 years ago, never had it since. I never get the vaccine.

enjoyinglifenowretired · 18/12/2025 21:46

60+ and have never had it. Always had flu jab at work and privately afterwards.
DH and 3 adult DC’s have never had it either.

SlowCookerDay · 18/12/2025 21:33

Some people do just have better natural immunity to viruses. DS has only been off school maybe a week in his life (yr 11 now) and that was covid when he wasn’t allowed out! I honestly can’t recall him taking other days off. I was the same.

I WFH mostly now and haven’t taken any sick days in almost 4 years in this role. I get a bit of a cold now and then and they’d it. I think I was last properly ill with either flu or covid almost 6 years ago.

FeelingFineNow · 18/12/2025 20:42

I'm 64, I've never had flu. I can't actually remember the last time I had even a minor cold.
I don't have flu jabs but I absolutely swear by taking turmeric capsules every day.

Superhansrantowindsor · 18/12/2025 20:16

I’m nearly 50 and I’ve only had it twice.
I know a lot of people who say they have the flu when it’s a heavy cold.

CrowsInMyGarden · 18/12/2025 20:13

63 and never had flu. Had nasty virus few times that have lasted 2-3 days but that’s prob not flu. Had flu jab past 6 years since working for NHS but not before

Oldraver · 18/12/2025 18:39

The nearest I have come to flu is when I had COVID at 56. I don't generally get colds either but currently have my first one in probably 20 years

Beatrees · 18/12/2025 17:21

Definitely never had flu except swine flu about 10 years ago.

In my late forties.

Never had a flu jab.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 18/12/2025 17:04

Ive had it twice in 45 years

SoulSearchBeHonest · 18/12/2025 16:36

Luxio · 17/12/2025 18:03

Do you not have the flu jab. Several times in your life at your age seems excessive.

This.

I have the flu jab each year and haven't had flu for many years. Try getting the flu jab.

NikeMistake · 18/12/2025 16:17

cariadlet · 17/12/2025 18:07

I'm in my late 50s and have never had flu.

I hardly ever get ill eg I can go a few years without needing time off work. I'm not sure if that's down to a good immune system or just luck.

Or it could be 30+ years of teaching. Maybe mixing with loads of ill children has given me a bit of resistance.

Edited

This is me 100%! Existing 5 days per week in a hot bed of germs definitely builds the immunity! No flu here either.

gamerchick · 18/12/2025 15:43

DinoLil · 18/12/2025 15:23

I've had flu once when I was about 32. I was wallpapering my youngest's bedroom, suddenly started feeling awful, managed to finish the last drop and was in bed for ten days. Absolutely dreadful.

I've had covid once. Nowhere near as bad as the flu. Bed for about three days.

That's what's scary about it I think. Colds come on over days. Flu just comes out of nowhere and knocks you on your arse.

RainbowBagels · 18/12/2025 15:38

I've only had 'proper' flu once. I ended up in hospital as I didn't know what it was and ended up in hospital. I was alone in the house and couldn't stop shivering, so I was wearing about 5 layers of clothes and was under tons of blankets. My then BF came home from work and called the ambulance. They immediately stripped all my clothes off and the next thing I remember I woke up in hospital. I get reimbursed on flu jabs now through my work, but I always paid to get one since then.

DinoLil · 18/12/2025 15:23

I've had flu once when I was about 32. I was wallpapering my youngest's bedroom, suddenly started feeling awful, managed to finish the last drop and was in bed for ten days. Absolutely dreadful.

I've had covid once. Nowhere near as bad as the flu. Bed for about three days.

Fernsrus · 18/12/2025 15:19

VikaOlson · 17/12/2025 22:48

Unless you test every time you have a headache, sore throat, aches, temperature etc how can you tell the difference between flu and a cold?

@VikaOlson As per previous attachment.

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